Yeah true, I do sometimes enjoy the fight with invaders but when it happens every 5 minutes it starts to get on my nerves. I actually have started working on a build for fight off invaders so next time we might actually be able to have a fair 1v1.

Don't give me that! You were pretty good and lasted longer in a fight than any phantoms you summoned. If you want to play without invaders play offline, if you wanna play coop you gotta live with invaders. Just don't do that lame thing where you keep summoning your friends, and keep dodge-rolling until someone else comes to the rescue. I guess having to fight two or three people is fair for an invader, but 7, really... As in at that point other people are playing the game for you and you are just there for the ride, what even is the point if other people do the work?

See you make good points but at the same time i didn't ask to be invaded i just wanted to play coop you know, so since i'm not great at the game, i just want to do the story i feel like it's something that i can do to make invaders work for it

You are so very right, except that I use Vordt's Great Hammer from the first boss, and I have to two hand it because I don't have enough strength. I can only swing it twice because I lack the stamina, I'm lvl 27, and I use the obscuring ring that you get in the cathedral. I mostly rely on dodging and baiting. What's really unfair is having to defeat a gank group of 7, coming at you 2 or 3 at a time, with limited healing, while the host re-summons the same dude again and again.

Man imagine playing a game just for fun, then some extremely high level people invading with stuff you're not even close to getting and then proceeding to call you crap because there's no chance of winning in an unfair fight. Hmm makes you think

Lol this is the second time I invaded you apparently!! And damn you suck!!! I had to kill 7 other phantoms in addition to your stupid useless yellow that was basically an Estus peniata. Please try and learn to play the game without using all the phantoms.