This is a list of things ive found that could do with some improvements, i will update this list (when i have time) with new, fixed or confirmed intentional bugs/mechanic issues and maybe a few suggestions.

Some Villages are paired with incorrect settlements:
Eichewaldchen is paired to bohsenfels but should be paired with castle lenkster.
Luftberg is paired to Dietershafen but should be paired with salzenmund.
Hautville is paired to castle orne but should be paired to castle tancred.
Beauchamps, caen and alencon are paired to chantillion but should be paired to hendaye.
tal rond is paired to anaereth but should be paired to tal driacha.
tal silvoch is paired to tal driacha but should be paired to the wardance.
tal hakan is paired to anaereth but should be paired to the wardance.

Heideck and wissenburg should be their own towns not villages.

there is no wood elf settlement/ clan in the gryphon wood for drycha and that makes me sad.

beastmen warbands with more than 1 Minotaur believe they can take on any size of party/army.

the cap for faction specific resources should be raised from 2500 to 3000.

miracle weapons and runefangs should have a large base damage increase because the balanced rieksguard sword should not be stronger than dragons tooth or a gods weapon.

onehanded staffs should be available for purchase from the travelling merchant and the aldorf magister.

when all the leaders of a "bandit faction" are executed, the game constantly peaces out and declares war on every faction, effectively making the game unplayable.

you should be able to buy hochland longrifles from an engineer in Hergig.

every game seems to have 2-4 factions that will inevitably conquer everything without player intervention, but this is only due to every other faction seemingly being incompetent and refusing to fight back, though this may simply be bannerlord mechanics and nothing to do with TOR but its something i noticed after 9 games.