I commented on the original mod not realising it was inactive, so if anybody could help me out that would be wonderful!! ;;

So I was married to three people and we all lived in the house in Solitude, and then I married Derkeethus not realising we couldn't all stay in the same house, and now he's gone, I checked Maras Tears and it says he's in Windhelm, but I've checked everywhere in and around Windhelm and I can't find him anywhere??? Is there anyway to command a spouse to move to a different house/living place without interacting with them or something??