The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

Marriage Mod - To Have & To Hold
2,169 Comments
denstat Jun 28, 2024 @ 6:19pm 
Loved the wedding ceremony, etc, of course the additional NPCs to wed, but I believe this mod borked the Book of Love quest. Never had that quest bork in multitudes of playthroughs. I was able to use console commands to complete the quest and get the bonus, but could not get the rest of it to work. Still pretty effin amazing in 2024. Thanks, upvoted anyway!
™Dark™ ∆Angel∆ Nov 20, 2022 @ 7:31am 
this mode is not working , only one thimh is working , devorce and that it
clairew Sep 1, 2021 @ 11:41am 
I organized the marriage, told it would take place the following morning and arrived at 6am in the morning to have Argis storm out and say get out of my sight..... I tried staying in the temple all night with people congratulating me then at 9pm he arrived and immediately stormed out saying .... get out of my sight...... epic fail
UlyssesThePagan Jan 8, 2021 @ 2:15pm 
I'm curious if this mod will conflict if you side with Volkihar in the Dawnguard DLC? I completed numerous side quests and can't get the Gift quest to turn your spouse into a vampire. Any thoughts?
XAPMech Nov 18, 2020 @ 11:19am 
Hearthfire solution for one spouse. After marrying Bujold the Intrepid Thirsk Mead Hall or Breezehome were my only options. I chose Breezehome and after having her switch to the Tavern outfit. I saved the game and unsubscribed this mod. Restarted the game and was able to move her to Heljarchen Hall in the same outfit allowed by the mod. I may try subscribing the mod at a later date to see if anything changes or stays the same. Initially I tried to console command Bujold and it would not work. Without the helmet Bujold is one of the more atractive NPC's. Best of luck.
Bali Bey Oct 30, 2020 @ 10:25am 
I have a bit of trouble here. I want to subscribe but for some reason the system does not let me. Anyone facing the same issue?
Incinerator Clayton Sep 2, 2020 @ 12:52pm 
This may already be answered so if you can have up to 11 spouses, are you able to turn all 11 into vampires? Or does the quest The Gift bug out?
Elsing May 8, 2020 @ 10:48am 
It will. Up to 11, it states.
Crimson Death Feb 29, 2020 @ 8:52am 
anyone know if there is a mod that allows more then one wife/husband at a time thought this was what i was looking for but sadly its not
Chiyo Feb 20, 2020 @ 2:09pm 
Does this fight with mods that add marryable partners?
Rain Feb 16, 2020 @ 3:26am 
is there no SSE for this mod?
Senevir Oct 16, 2019 @ 5:27am 
Apologies if this is already answered. I couldn't find the answer.
TES5edit mentions cleaning the mod. Can I do this, or should I ignore and message and absolutely abstain from cleaning it?
The Crawfather Apr 18, 2019 @ 8:53pm 
Actually, I figured it out, but I can't move my spouses to Winstad Manor, is there a patch compatible with Hearthfire?
The Crawfather Apr 18, 2019 @ 8:22pm 
How do I propose to a second wife? I've been trying to get Camilla Valerius and in the future Serana, but Ysolda (current wife) appears to have broken the mod so that I can't get the pu$$y I want. Please help.
2Spooki4Mi Apr 16, 2019 @ 3:30pm 
If my spouse has been dead for a while now can I still remarry? Or will I have to find her and divorce her corpse?
NotTanngnjostr Feb 7, 2019 @ 1:14pm 
If I divorce, what commands do I do to get the NPC to like me again?
olostar Jan 6, 2019 @ 7:52pm 
why wont aspect of love talk to me i've tried everything!
NeoZergling Dec 21, 2018 @ 2:32pm 
I had a major problem with the polygamy aspect of this mod. Tried marrying isolda, it all went well until it was time for the actual ceremony. I tried using the wait function (which made me miss the ceremony no matter how brief the wait was) I tried just sitting and waiting inside the temple (that didn't work) so I just couldn't do anything at all and now the aspect of love won't emerge for me
UlyssesThePagan Dec 21, 2018 @ 6:29am 
I was not having an issue with this mod and all of a sudden the Aspect of Love twon't interact with me. I placed it at the bottom of the load order as suggested from the very beginning when I installed the mod. I even uninstalled and did a hard save and still having this same issue, Is there a work around with console commands?
SivyourK Dec 10, 2018 @ 8:40am 
ive killed my husband but the acepct of love isn't coming out. Do i have to restart or not ?
spartan119990 Nov 2, 2018 @ 6:53am 
i got this so i could marry serana after getting the dawnguard quests done, but so far........ no luck. i even got her mother out of the soul cairn, i never used any choices for talking to her about her past or stuff that might upset her. but nothing, i will keep looking into it, i must have missed something somewhere.
Miraak Oct 20, 2018 @ 6:23pm 
forsenCD CHANGE WIFE
✿⊱oLadyGamer⊰✿ Oct 13, 2018 @ 3:10pm 
This worked fine. My former spouse Belrand died 2 yrs ago, so I was free to marry Marcurio. There was an issue where he stayed in Riften and not my Lakeview home, but with the Heartfire Adapter mod, its okay now.

I haven't tried the multiple spouse feature yet. Mod isn't being updated? I probably should just leave it as is then.

But now I find Marcurio just bores me. LoL
Umbra Oct 12, 2018 @ 4:59pm 
Will this ever be updated? It hasn’t even been updated on the nexus
Umbra Oct 12, 2018 @ 4:58pm 
So... no future marriage mods?
UlyssesThePagan Oct 10, 2018 @ 11:30pm 
I had a question, if after marrying a buch of spouces and I uninstall the mod, will my marriages stay? Also this mod was awesome and disregard the bug thing I mentioned, I figured it out. One suggsting I have, I'm not sure if your'e planning anymore updates to the mod, but I think it would be a cool effect to see what is happening to all the coin the player pays out. I suggest that some of the money be used to remodel the temple. Like stone walls, carpets and tapestry on an updated alter and so on. Just a proposal, to either event niclely done. Too many give modders shit and troll when their only incentive is to do it for other fans. I for one genuinely appreciate your hard work!
UlyssesThePagan Oct 9, 2018 @ 5:49am 
Hello, I'm having an odd bug. The marriage ceremony goes perfect and I'n able to move them into my house ort I move into theirs'. However my spouse stays in the temple and won't go home. I have no other mods running that would confict
I'M JONES! Oct 2, 2018 @ 2:25pm 
I do have the Adapter to hearthfire btw.
I'M JONES! Oct 2, 2018 @ 2:19pm 
Is this mod compatible with the Serana Marriage mod? I'm trying to marry her and Maramal is just following me around asking over and over again whether I agree to be married, and if I leave then it says I broke up with her. Help?
mesto425 Sep 24, 2018 @ 4:42pm 
its not working it just says to talk to my spouse and nothing happens :(
MunK Aug 18, 2018 @ 5:23pm 
@horsewhisperer2 what did he say?
horsewhisperer2 Aug 2, 2018 @ 4:53pm 
dubzerox, you are a sick man or boy or girl, you need lots of help, ask god and he well help, also jesus, this should be baned, its not funny dip shit.
Korbeaux Jul 20, 2018 @ 7:11pm 
for those that find it doesnt work, do you have hearthfire? If so, download http://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=153407826 aka Adapter marriage mod to hearthfire. This mod was released in 2012 and hasn't been updated since. While the base mod works very well, when hearthfire was released some people have issues getting it to work. If you are one of them try the patch.
SEGAMAN Jun 6, 2018 @ 12:43pm 
Crap!
Hyde Jun 6, 2018 @ 9:21am 
doesn't work
SEGAMAN Jun 4, 2018 @ 1:06pm 
Can this work with other mods like if you added more people and races to marry?
Willow Pompano May 30, 2018 @ 12:59pm 
I was sold at multple spouses!
Selena86 May 10, 2018 @ 6:52pm 
wo kann man das denn runterladen?
Rain May 1, 2018 @ 3:11am 
is it possible to have all wives in one house?
Freyari Mar 31, 2018 @ 9:21am 
Mod doesnt work. i tryed everything said in the document, still the ghost isnt there or doesnt talk to me
ThursDayCrow Mar 24, 2018 @ 5:02am 
Such good mod,and I'm so stupid to realize I should ask for your permission first,then translated this into Chinese.So...could I get it?

PS:this part should be posted here last year,but sth. happened so we Chinese had to use
VPN to come here.
Sarle Mar 19, 2018 @ 3:38pm 
welcome to medieval age @"i'm the king"
Di Marco Mar 19, 2018 @ 12:31pm 
You're marrying the daughter from the Markath inn? SHE'S A TEEN WTF?
VVyzen Mar 17, 2018 @ 12:44pm 
Where is the aspet of love and the book?
Shadowghost459 Mar 16, 2018 @ 12:12pm 
and its not working with serana (if she is in vampiremode)
Shadowghost459 Mar 16, 2018 @ 12:09pm 
second try the mod works but the aspect of love and the chest are in the ground and not on their positions
Shadowghost459 Mar 16, 2018 @ 11:40am 
i have a question is it possible that the command tcl bugs the whole skyrim world or not ^^ my savegame is a littlebit full with bugs and i try to reload this mod but in the first try the aspect of love was in the ground after i ask him for marry again and than the chest is not spawning and i cant marry again ?
Crystal Clod Mar 9, 2018 @ 7:59pm 
you made meeko into a human
Curious Mando Mar 8, 2018 @ 7:13pm 
i am having issues where it owont pop up too. THe problem was conflicting follower mods.
Fallton Feb 13, 2018 @ 7:30am 
Your mod, though it has it's quirks still, is my favorite and also most stable of all the multiple marriage mods, so I'd really like to see availability for more wives.

Can the mod have an increase in number of allowed wives? Like instead of having a max of 11 can we possibly have 30? or even 40?

I have a lot of fun with my wives. I evenly distribute them between all of my homes (even my castle mods) so I always have someone to go home to. But I'd like to be able to marry all of my followers eventually if possible.