The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

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Marriage Mod - To Have & To Hold
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Feb 14, 2012 @ 9:38pm
May 12, 2012 @ 5:23pm
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Marriage Mod - To Have & To Hold

This mod is designed to enhance the current marriage system in Skyrim; specifically the Wedding Scene at the Temple of Mara, fix various marriage related bugs (potentially an ongoing effort), and add mechanics to remarry. Ultimately, the goal of this mod, and others planned for the Marriage Mod series, is to bring the Dragonborn and their Spouse more close together and have a much more robust and interactive experience within the marriage system. Considered an overhaul of the marriage system in Skyrim; this mod will likely conflict with any other Mods that make changes to the Temple of Mara within Riften or “The Bonds of Matrimony” Quest as well, but should be Follower Mod friendly.

NOTE: Please read through the FAQ and Troubleshooting link below before posting issues with the mod

--Feature Summary—
1.) Marriage to a new spouse via death or Intentional divorce of old spouse.
2.) Fixes to the wedding ceremony and a reception afterwards with dynamic events depending on the Dragonborn’s completion of specific quests; Tending the Flames, Blindsighted, The Eye of Magnus, and Glory of the Dead.
3.) Three sub quests, which help aid the Dragonborn during the marriage events.
4.) A basic version of the “Dress Up” feature ( which will be part of a future marriage mod sub-titled “To Love and Cherish”) allows the Dragonborn to ask their spouse to change the default outfit they have on (the one under the equipped armor) to one of a hand-full of predetermined outfits.
5.) Fixes to various NPCs related in part to Marriage.
6.) The Dragonborn may now marry multiple spouses (to a Maximum of 11) with the help of the Aspect of Love. One can also easily locate each of their spouses with the aid of a new book, titled “Mara’s Tear”, which details each spouse’s location.
7.) The Dragonborn’s spouse(s) can now move to one of the four faction homes depending on completion of their respective Questlines.

NOTE: Please read through the FAQ and Troubleshooting link below before posting issues with the mod

--A more detailed Feature List can be found at the link below:--

--For more information about what the Marriage Mod series is planned to contain see the link below:--

--Suggested Mods (Tested to work with these mods)—
[replace with a collection] – to come!

--Update History (Change Log) & Currently Known Bugs:--

--Frequently Asked Questions and Troubleshooting Guide--
[ Please read through the FAQ and Troubleshooting link provided below, before posting issues with the mod]

As with any mod that is an overhall, like this one; it is recommended to perform a hard save in Skyrim before you begin using it. The hard save will give you something to fall back on in worse-case scenarios. Feedback is always appreciated (even if I can be very busy and slow to respond) and absolutely welcome. If you truly enjoy this mod please remember to give it an up-rating with green thumbs up.

--Special Thanks!--
foop - for helping beta test the mod and choosing not to remain anonymous.
AprilDraven - for making an awesome marriage mod logo for this mod.
Bakufu001 - for reviewing the mod in the video above.
Bethesda - for making such a masterpiece of a game.
You - for taking the time to read this!

[ Please read through the FAQ and Troubleshooting link above, before posting issues with the mod]
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minchen86 May 10 @ 6:52pm 
wo kann man das denn runterladen?
Raineil May 1 @ 3:11am 
is it possible to have all wives in one house?
Freyari Mar 31 @ 9:21am 
Mod doesnt work. i tryed everything said in the document, still the ghost isnt there or doesnt talk to me
Tenko Kuugen Mar 24 @ 5:02am 
Such good mod,and I'm so stupid to realize I should ask for your permission first,then translated this into Chinese.So...could I get it?

PS:this part should be posted here last year,but sth. happened so we Chinese had to use
VPN to come here.
Sarle_ Mar 19 @ 3:38pm 
welcome to medieval age @"i'm the king"
I'm The King™ Mar 19 @ 12:31pm 
You're marrying the daughter from the Markath inn? SHE'S A TEEN WTF?
=Anubis= Mar 17 @ 12:44pm 
Where is the aspet of love and the book?
Shadowghost459 Mar 16 @ 12:12pm 
and its not working with serana (if she is in vampiremode)
Shadowghost459 Mar 16 @ 12:09pm 
second try the mod works but the aspect of love and the chest are in the ground and not on their positions
Shadowghost459 Mar 16 @ 11:40am 
i have a question is it possible that the command tcl bugs the whole skyrim world or not ^^ my savegame is a littlebit full with bugs and i try to reload this mod but in the first try the aspect of love was in the ground after i ask him for marry again and than the chest is not spawning and i cant marry again ?