The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

Courting & Marriage
245 Comments
Altbert  [author] Sep 20, 2024 @ 3:23am 
Sorry about [code] and [/code]. I forgot that you can't use these in comments.
Altbert  [author] Sep 20, 2024 @ 3:22am 
It should be under the bed. Otherwise use the console:
[code]help _amm_CMJournal{/code]
Use the reference ID to give yourself a copy of the journal:
[code]player.additem <refID> 1[/code]
without the brackets.
original_dandan Sep 19, 2024 @ 6:52pm 
journal isn't in the house
Altbert  [author] Apr 6, 2024 @ 8:09am 
The usual way by wearing an Amulet of Mara, which will provide the marriage conversation, but only when the relationshiprank is Lover.
Busteriron Apr 6, 2024 @ 7:42am 
how to propose??
Altbert  [author] Oct 1, 2023 @ 12:34pm 
I'm working on a port for Skyrim Special Edition, but without the spell casting.
GwarDaddy88 Oct 1, 2023 @ 12:24pm 
feels normal to be married to a real nord woman again.
Altbert  [author] Oct 27, 2021 @ 5:57am 
Glad you found the solution!
Sevrin Oct 27, 2021 @ 5:08am 
@altbert, I moved it up in the load order, now the spell shows up, thanks.
Altbert  [author] Oct 27, 2021 @ 4:39am 
Edit: forgot the double L in addspell!
Altbert  [author] Oct 27, 2021 @ 4:38am 
@Sevrin:

This can have many causes. Hard for me to point you in the right direction. Try using the console with:

player.addspel xx000D62

where xx is the load order number of this mod. See if that makes any difference. Be sure to create a hard save before doing so.
Sevrin Oct 27, 2021 @ 2:19am 
I used the spell book to get the charm spell but it's not in my spell list?
Altbert  [author] Apr 21, 2021 @ 3:22am 
Sorry for that. Polygamy is mentioned in the description in relation to Orcs. Try searching for multiple marriages here or on other mod sites.
Tom Jackal Apr 21, 2021 @ 12:07am 
what's sad is this is the only result when searching "polygamy" and it isn't even a mod for that :\
Altbert  [author] Dec 19, 2020 @ 3:09pm 
No, only the way to get married changes, the original dialogues have not been changed. It only takes a bit longer before the marriage dialogues are enabled, although I'd rather have the courting period through dialogue than magic.
wrmurry Dec 19, 2020 @ 2:08pm 
does the mod change dialogue options after marriage
Altbert  [author] Dec 11, 2020 @ 3:20am 
It should. I haven't heard otherwise.
katisoutofthehat Dec 10, 2020 @ 5:28pm 
Anyone know if this mod still works?
gunnerklein Jul 5, 2020 @ 1:44pm 
i see,thank you for telling me,ill be looking around a bit to make him a bit more funny
Altbert  [author] Jul 4, 2020 @ 3:12pm 
Well, I'm very sorry that I don't know this mod, but I'm not that very keen on followers. Since Inigo is a Khajiit, this mod doesn't work with him, as Khajiits don't have the marriage conversation.
gunnerklein Jul 4, 2020 @ 12:12pm 
khajiit follower whos very snarky,funny,and good at ACTUALLY SNEAKING,hes also my characters love interest
Eryid Silverclaw Jul 4, 2020 @ 11:32am 
Inigo's a follower mod that's very famous. He's the best follower you could ever have or want.
Altbert  [author] Jul 4, 2020 @ 8:26am 
Who is Inigo?
gunnerklein Jul 4, 2020 @ 6:16am 
does this work with inigo?
The_Last_Samurai Mar 5, 2020 @ 11:16am 
To answer your question yes I did try sneaking. Also thank you I will try that.
Altbert  [author] Mar 3, 2020 @ 3:45am 
@The_Last_Samurai:

Did you try to grab the journal while sneaking? Otherwise, you can use the console. All items is place in the world are prefixed with "amm". In the console type

help amm

You will find the full name of the journal and an object ID, like xx007352, where xx is the load order number of my mod. Then use the console to move the journal towards you:

player.placeatme objectID
The_Last_Samurai Mar 2, 2020 @ 9:17pm 
For some reason i can not grab that journal with all those details could u screen shot where it is or fix that cause if i'm in the right place then i can't grab it because it is under a bed.
Altbert  [author] Oct 22, 2019 @ 4:15pm 
I'm not familiar with MO2 (Mod Organizer?). I use Wrye Bash. What I do: subscribe, wait until the mod in installed in the Data folder, unsubscribe, and package the .ESP and .BSA into a .ZIP file. Then install the .ZIP file with Wrye Bash and uninstall with Wrye Bash if I want to. Sometimes even unpackaging the .BSA file before packiging. I have no idea if something similar is possible with MO2.

The workshop only provides .ESP en .BSA files. Unsubscribing and removing those files should not give any problems, unless the .BSA file contains scripts, in which case scripts are baked into your save files, and you will have to rely on a save file.

It doesn't matter where you get your mods from. If a mod contains scripts, the scripts will stay part of your saves. Installing mods from only the Nexus as the savest thing to do, is the most rediculous thing I have ever heard.
CheeZ WhiZ Oct 22, 2019 @ 10:02am 
I am unfamiliar with the workshop mods. Is there a way to pull them out and package them for use with MO2? Not wanting to distribute, just not wanting to have an always loaded mod screwing up my load order.
Altbert  [author] Oct 2, 2019 @ 2:00pm 
Let me know if it worked. If so, I can mention is my description.
Eryid Silverclaw Oct 2, 2019 @ 7:56am 
Thanks! I'll try it.
Altbert  [author] Oct 2, 2019 @ 1:54am 
This mod doesn't include an option to divorce. I have at a look at the various divorce mods, and I think Simple Divorce may probably not conflict with mine.
Eryid Silverclaw Oct 1, 2019 @ 5:57pm 
Does this mod include an option to divorce, or no? If I need to get a separate divorce mod, do you think it will conflict?
Altbert  [author] Aug 6, 2019 @ 1:17am 
@Cadaver and @Serzat:

I'm sorry not having answered your questions, but I have been in hospital twice since mid June.

This plugin should work with any possible NPC, whether vanilla or custom. There may be a restriction, although not always. If the NPC is a questgiver and you have not met all their objectives, they will not agree in marriage. Sometimes they might agree (see the image of Saadia where she agrees in marriage, but the Alik'r have not been delt with).
Skeleboy Jul 5, 2019 @ 1:57pm 
does Madesi work with this mod?
Serzat Jun 18, 2019 @ 10:15am 
I tried everything inclueded both of your mods but i still cant marry Frea :/ She is really stubborn. Can you help me out with this ?
Andronicus May 21, 2019 @ 6:45am 
alternatively just use the script command to make nearly any npc a potential spuse.
Altbert  [author] Feb 18, 2019 @ 5:53am 
I really have no idea. I have never tried. But I think it could give problems as Cicero is involved in various Dark Brotherhood quests. Give it a try, but be sure to prepare a save game first.
frickfacemcgee Feb 17, 2019 @ 5:52am 
Hey, does this work with Cicero? Thanks.
Doctor G Nov 22, 2018 @ 5:53pm 
Marriage to a bar fly or a bar maid? no thank you
Altbert  [author] Jun 13, 2018 @ 6:05am 
Yes, but if you only use MM_JAMCE, the scripts from my mod will still be baked into the save file and could still cause problems sooner or later, and vice versa. The get rid of the scripts in the save files, you will need to start off with a clean save.
kpetri45 Jun 12, 2018 @ 4:19pm 
if you are interested -the solution of the problem is to skip both -go to another place-make a save-and when you now use only one of them-it runs correkt-only problem you are not married to anyone anymore so far.
Altbert  [author] Jun 12, 2018 @ 3:12am 
Sorry about that. It's not that my mod is aggressive, but it's scripted and the scripts are baked into the saves. I will put a warning in the above description.
kpetri45 Jun 10, 2018 @ 3:37am 
I did it 4 ranks between both ,but your app is so agressive that it corrupted MM even as I have
deleted it the savefile was defect
Sorry for my bad english
kpetri45 Jun 9, 2018 @ 8:16pm 
thx -I'll try
Altbert  [author] Jun 9, 2018 @ 1:26pm 
@kpetri45:
In that case you probably had MM_JAMCE.esp above mine in load order (lower load order number). If so, my mod will reset Skyrim's marriage system to its default and disables changes made by MM_JAMCE.esp. The other mod should be below mine and have a higher load order number.
Croatian Cowboy Jun 9, 2018 @ 11:27am 
+Altbert
Thanks! Multi Marriage is under moderation by the way.
Don't know why i was unable to find these mods before
kpetri45 Jun 9, 2018 @ 11:27am 
I play with MultiMarriage_JAMCE.esp and after using your mod I had the only answer "you are already married ..."
Altbert  [author] Jun 9, 2018 @ 11:00am 
@Croatian CowBOI:

These are some of the multi marriage mods:
Marriage Mod - To Have & To Hold
Multi Marriage [www.nexusmods.com]

There may be more, but these are categorized as adult.
Altbert  [author] Jun 9, 2018 @ 2:38am 
@kpetri45:

What problems did you encounter and with which multimarriage mods? I could then put a warning in the above description.