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Marriage Mod - To Have & To Hold
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Feb 14, 2012 @ 9:38pm
May 12, 2012 @ 5:23pm
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This mod is designed to enhance the current marriage system in Skyrim; specifically the Wedding Scene at the Temple of Mara, fix various marriage related bugs (potentially an ongoing effort), and add mechanics to remarry. Ultimately, the goal of this mod, and others planned for the Marriage Mod series, is to bring the Dragonborn and their Spouse more close together and have a much more robust and interactive experience within the marriage system. Considered an overhaul of the marriage system in Skyrim; this mod will likely conflict with any other Mods that make changes to the Temple of Mara within Riften or “The Bonds of Matrimony” Quest as well, but should be Follower Mod friendly.

NOTE: Please read through the FAQ and Troubleshooting link below before posting issues with the mod

--Feature Summary—
1.) Marriage to a new spouse via death or Intentional divorce of old spouse.
2.) Fixes to the wedding ceremony and a reception afterwards with dynamic events depending on the Dragonborn’s completion of specific quests; Tending the Flames, Blindsighted, The Eye of Magnus, and Glory of the Dead.
3.) Three sub quests, which help aid the Dragonborn during the marriage events.
4.) A basic version of the “Dress Up” feature ( which will be part of a future marriage mod sub-titled “To Love and Cherish”) allows the Dragonborn to ask their spouse to change the default outfit they have on (the one under the equipped armor) to one of a hand-full of predetermined outfits.
5.) Fixes to various NPCs related in part to Marriage.
6.) The Dragonborn may now marry multiple spouses (to a Maximum of 11) with the help of the Aspect of Love. One can also easily locate each of their spouses with the aid of a new book, titled “Mara’s Tear”, which details each spouse’s location.
7.) The Dragonborn’s spouse(s) can now move to one of the four faction homes depending on completion of their respective Questlines.

NOTE: Please read through the FAQ and Troubleshooting link below before posting issues with the mod

--A more detailed Feature List can be found at the link below:--

--For more information about what the Marriage Mod series is planned to contain see the link below:--

--Suggested Mods (Tested to work with these mods)—
[replace with a collection] – to come!

--Update History (Change Log) & Currently Known Bugs:--

--Frequently Asked Questions and Troubleshooting Guide--
[ Please read through the FAQ and Troubleshooting link provided below, before posting issues with the mod]

As with any mod that is an overhall, like this one; it is recommended to perform a hard save in Skyrim before you begin using it. The hard save will give you something to fall back on in worse-case scenarios. Feedback is always appreciated (even if I can be very busy and slow to respond) and absolutely welcome. If you truly enjoy this mod please remember to give it an up-rating with green thumbs up.

--Special Thanks!--
foop - for helping beta test the mod and choosing not to remain anonymous.
AprilDraven - for making an awesome marriage mod logo for this mod.
Bakufu001 - for reviewing the mod in the video above.
Bethesda - for making such a masterpiece of a game.
You - for taking the time to read this!

[ Please read through the FAQ and Troubleshooting link above, before posting issues with the mod]
Popular Discussions View All (1)
Sep 1, 2013 @ 1:53pm
Compability with HF
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EPICDUCK623 Aug 20 @ 7:43am 
i want to live in a house i made in with hearthfire, but it won't giv me that house as an option. Is it a glitch or is this mod not compatiable with hearthfire?
Blihk™ Aug 18 @ 7:54pm 
the quest speak to ____ during the reception never gets completed no matter how many times i speak to them, and if i return to the house i told them to go to the marker for the previously mentioned quest ends up somewhere near ivarstead... plz help
lordtemplar17 Aug 18 @ 12:40pm 
how about adding a quest to invite any one you want
EKA101 Aug 15 @ 7:51am 
very good mod.
King Murrlin Aug 14 @ 1:38am 
so how do you marry multiple wivesat the same time, the aspect wont let me talk to it
sterlingauto117 Aug 14 @ 12:40am 
to make the aspect re-appear just pray at the mara altar
Captain Kraken Aug 13 @ 3:24pm 
I give the Aspect the money, propose to new wife, but then it keeps saying 'attend your wedding' no matter how much I wait. I am not sure whether its an incompatiblity issue cause I have a multi-follower, marriable serena and two other marriable NPC's. Help please.
nochoman37 Aug 11 @ 3:40pm 
how do you get anouther wife? it doesnt give me the option after i married someone
Deathbringer Aug 11 @ 2:17pm 
The quest keeps failing and i'm doing everything it's wants me to what do i do?
Captain Kraken Aug 11 @ 3:11am 
@joeThinksStudios The Aspect of Love isn't at the Temple of Mara, I have moved it to the top and the bottom of my mod list, but it doesn't work. What I am doing wrong?