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Marriage Mod - To Have & To Hold
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Feb 14, 2012 @ 9:38pm
May 12, 2012 @ 5:23pm
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This mod is designed to enhance the current marriage system in Skyrim; specifically the Wedding Scene at the Temple of Mara, fix various marriage related bugs (potentially an ongoing effort), and add mechanics to remarry. Ultimately, the goal of this mod, and others planned for the Marriage Mod series, is to bring the Dragonborn and their Spouse more close together and have a much more robust and interactive experience within the marriage system. Considered an overhaul of the marriage system in Skyrim; this mod will likely conflict with any other Mods that make changes to the Temple of Mara within Riften or “The Bonds of Matrimony” Quest as well, but should be Follower Mod friendly.

NOTE: Please read through the FAQ and Troubleshooting link below before posting issues with the mod

--Feature Summary—
1.) Marriage to a new spouse via death or Intentional divorce of old spouse.
2.) Fixes to the wedding ceremony and a reception afterwards with dynamic events depending on the Dragonborn’s completion of specific quests; Tending the Flames, Blindsighted, The Eye of Magnus, and Glory of the Dead.
3.) Three sub quests, which help aid the Dragonborn during the marriage events.
4.) A basic version of the “Dress Up” feature ( which will be part of a future marriage mod sub-titled “To Love and Cherish”) allows the Dragonborn to ask their spouse to change the default outfit they have on (the one under the equipped armor) to one of a hand-full of predetermined outfits.
5.) Fixes to various NPCs related in part to Marriage.
6.) The Dragonborn may now marry multiple spouses (to a Maximum of 11) with the help of the Aspect of Love. One can also easily locate each of their spouses with the aid of a new book, titled “Mara’s Tear”, which details each spouse’s location.
7.) The Dragonborn’s spouse(s) can now move to one of the four faction homes depending on completion of their respective Questlines.

NOTE: Please read through the FAQ and Troubleshooting link below before posting issues with the mod

--A more detailed Feature List can be found at the link below:--

--For more information about what the Marriage Mod series is planned to contain see the link below:--

--Suggested Mods (Tested to work with these mods)—
[replace with a collection] – to come!

--Update History (Change Log) & Currently Known Bugs:--

--Frequently Asked Questions and Troubleshooting Guide--
[ Please read through the FAQ and Troubleshooting link provided below, before posting issues with the mod]

As with any mod that is an overhall, like this one; it is recommended to perform a hard save in Skyrim before you begin using it. The hard save will give you something to fall back on in worse-case scenarios. Feedback is always appreciated (even if I can be very busy and slow to respond) and absolutely welcome. If you truly enjoy this mod please remember to give it an up-rating with green thumbs up.

--Special Thanks!--
foop - for helping beta test the mod and choosing not to remain anonymous.
AprilDraven - for making an awesome marriage mod logo for this mod.
Bakufu001 - for reviewing the mod in the video above.
Bethesda - for making such a masterpiece of a game.
You - for taking the time to read this!

[ Please read through the FAQ and Troubleshooting link above, before posting issues with the mod]
Popular Discussions View All (1)
Sep 1, 2013 @ 1:53pm
Compability with HF
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Cycriss Aug 31 @ 2:13pm 
It won't let me talk to the Aspect. I get the prompt but nothing happens
mapletim0120 Aug 29 @ 8:34pm 
is there a divorce system?
公交王子 Aug 29 @ 6:45am 
Helen.Baq Aug 27 @ 9:01pm 
This mod turned my dark elf female's body into a male orc.
Ms. Stranger Aug 26 @ 4:07pm 
Hey, in order to get the Spouces Enhanced mod to work with this, it's best to be single and then marry the person.
I just wanna let other people know.
Also, is it possible to remarry someone that you divorce?
DragonsBlood 11:11 Aug 26 @ 6:01am 
Didnt work for me.That sucks!Theres many a woman in skyrim i want to marry.Cant just stop at one.Oh well,ill just stick to divorce and re-marry with the console.
MartinBoc Aug 26 @ 2:29am 
I wanna marriage people of same gender (lesbians :3 )
Nimnir Aug 24 @ 4:40pm 
I assume the mod will work for any characters i "force" into liking me through cc. And not only for those that are available in vanilla.

(If so, Mark.20 and all you others wondering what command to use:
addtofaction 19809 1
setrelationshiprank player 4 )
Mark.20 Aug 21 @ 2:41pm 
one my save i was married to aela and wondered what it would be like to marry lydia. after the devorce and marrying again i realised being with lydia wasnt working for me, but now aela wont talk to me so we cant get back together and my last save of us together is along time ago. is there a way for aela to marry me again because i really dont want to have to go back the my last save :( PLEASE HELP!!!!
EPICDUCK623 Aug 20 @ 7:43am 
i want to live in a house i made in with hearthfire, but it won't giv me that house as an option. Is it a glitch or is this mod not compatiable with hearthfire?