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Primae Noctis

@PBMKZXY totally reasonable request, but I'm currently not playing ck3.
I can tell you how to do it real quick though.
Go to \common\decisions of this mod and open JusPrimaeNoctis_decision.txt
Small file, should be easy to find this:
ai_will_do = {
base = 100
}
Change to 0. Ai will never activate the decision now.

If you've already started your game and want all AI to deactivate and never activate it again, do the change above + in same file - lower, find this:
AND = {
is_ai = yes
is_female = yes
Remove the is_female = yes.
Now, all ai will never activate and if it's already active, they'll always deactivate it.
Good luck!

Can you make a gamerule so we can select if AI by default won't do it?

Few fixes in code for this update, I think the coding is more streamlined to trigger less errors - none were game crashing but we don't want to clutter the log or have it fail to trigger on marriages.

I've playtested as all - selected all marriages in the decision option.
That is working properly. If a courtier or vassal gets married, it triggers for you.

AI should be choosing their court only, the most mild option in the decision.
Comment if something doesn't seem to be working, or if you want something changed.
As description says, feel free to edit anything in code for your own purposes or re-upload, idc.

Remember, you can't say this was medieval, because they absolutely despised it. I bet this would happen, like Stylez said below me, in the "Song of Ice and Fire" Mod.

@BirdHub19 100% lore correct For AGOT-ASOIAF

Alrighty, final update done unless paradox changes game code that effects spouses.
Working - added picture that shows event.
Might add option to not enforce your GOD given right, if people want that.
Like if your friend gets married and you don't want to .. enjoy.. his new wife. It adds a positive opinion modifier to the husband and wife, and nobody knows it's your kid unless you reveal it, so, not really needed imo. Plow away.