can u control ur lust?

[WarHeRo]

if so how?

[WarHeRo]

Originally posted by Xautos:

Originally posted by WarHeRo:

if so how?

depends what you mean by lust.

could be anything, but seems like majority wants sex talk

[TGC> The Games Collector]

Originally posted by WarHeRo:

Originally posted by Xautos:

depends what you mean by lust.

could be anything, but seems like majority wants sex talk

Well, a lust for life shouldn't be quelled, now should it?

[Pieshaman]

yes, but having all skillpoints in being lazy make it very easy.

[Grimmz]

why control it when you can get rid of it?

bust a nut and its gone for a while. when it comes back, you just get rid of it again.

eventually it'll go away on its own when you're old enough.

[HermitTheToad]

Originally posted by Grimmz:

why control it when you can get rid of it?

bust a nut and its gone for a while. when it comes back, you just get rid of it again.

iim pretty sure you can get addicted to that thou, it is a method though.

[Grimmz]

Originally posted by HermitTheToad13:

Originally posted by Grimmz:

why control it when you can get rid of it?

bust a nut and its gone for a while. when it comes back, you just get rid of it again.

iim pretty sure you can get addicted to that thou, it is a method though.

i think i was when i was in my early 20's. i did it several times a day, every day.

but now when i'm nearing my 40's i'm barely doing it once a week.

[Voroff]

Originally posted by WarHeRo:

if so how?

With extreme violence and prejudice against something that wronged me or angered me.

"Angry Marines !
Always angry !
ALL THE TIME !!!"

[[H.E.] ✟ GrandEmperorVandheer ✟]

Originally posted by Tristin:

I'm no human, so I do not have such necessities.
:Siege:

I'm not human either, yet I somehow have a stronger immunity against lust, just by retreating from it to where righteousness becomes a spiritual mandate.

In other words; pursue holiness immediately and refrain from flirting.

[Morkonan]

Originally posted by WarHeRo:

..
is that canon, i feel like its getting completely out of control as i approach my 30s

In general, men do experience a reduction in sexual urges compared to when they were adolescents with newly encountered hormones...(Early teens) In other words, a healthy sex drive balances at a more manageable state. As one nears middle-age, it's natural for it wane a bit. That doesn't mean it goes away.

None of the above is absolute. It differs between all men.

I don't know what you mean by "uncontrollable." If you are experiencing uncontrollable sexual arousal that is effecting your behavior and daily quality of life, you should speak to your physician about this. (I don't mean normal physical arousal, I mean frequent, perhaps even embarrassing, physical arousal without preceding interest to the point where it's "uncontrollable," like you may have experienced when you were a young teen and being bombarded with new hormones.)

While sex is part of the most basic instinctual behaviors we have, that shouldn't mean a healthy adult can not exert some control. Hunger, pain... we can exert control over these to influence our behavior or reaction to them, just as we should be able to exert some control over our "lust."

Have a talk about this with your physician. They have heard it all and you shouldn't be embarrassed about talking to them about even the weirdest sexual issues. There could be some things they'd want to do tests for, depending on the exact nature of the issues you describe as "uncontrollable."

If this is more about finding yourself overwhelmed by intrusive thoughts concerning sex/lust that arise without a prompt, stimulus, or some sort of outside influence, definitely speak to your physician about those as well.


Note: I am a man and have had my Man License for a number of decades. I can say that for myself and all other males in my cohort that I know, the notion that there is a time when a man "can't" think about sex is... highly suspect. But, that would also include some form of prompt being present. In absence of a distraction, prompt, or sufficient stimulus, it's possible to not be thinking about it. "Possible." :) The only time a healthy male might not be able to even momentarily think about sex would probably be at some point in the middle of a shark attack, being the victim, or while actively on fire.

[Xero_Daxter]

Like I said before… I’ve seen everything (that is legal of course) to the point where nothing stimulates me.

[crunchyfrog]

Originally posted by HermitTheToad13:

Originally posted by Grimmz:

why control it when you can get rid of it?

bust a nut and its gone for a while. when it comes back, you just get rid of it again.

iim pretty sure you can get addicted to that thou, it is a method though.

You can get addicted to almost anything.

But they are correct - porn can be very good for you as releasing your urges and a good sex life is VERY healthy, despite what certain puritanical groups or religious groups might try to tell you.

[Rio]

There is nothing wrong with a succubi or incubi partner, or several, or marrying one, or another, or a different type of demon. The Children of Lilith are a joy to the world.

Children of Lust, give much to the world.

Why it would be Odd if you didn't want to marry a demon.

[Xautos]

Originally posted by WarHeRo:

Originally posted by Xautos:

depends what you mean by lust.

could be anything, but seems like majority wants sex talk

Sexual lust if you let it build and don't give into it the first instance, then one day you give into it with someone, thoroughly give into it and gorge yourself having sex, the unwanted tension would likely explode into one amazing experience when done right.

Lust for money? Lust for collectors items? Lust for reading books? Lust for cars? it goes on.. there are so many subjects.

[Kapitein Gnapmans]

Try and find out. There's lots of people who (try to) do this, NoFap for example or spiritual paths. It can in theory be done, but it's not easy. You'll need to do other stuff to keep sane, like workout for example, maybe avoid triggers, stuff like that. So it becomes quite a big thing with lots of changes you have to make and have to keep doing.

[Enigmatic]

I just force myself to calm down now. I was making some serious eye contact and we were smiling at eachother.