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iibirdy Jul 29, 2018 @ 3:34am
Why are people so sexual on VRChat?
I can't have a normal conversation with anyone, guy or girl, without them mentioning things related to sex.

Is it teenagers and their hormones or is this the new generation?
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Originally posted by ArcticuKitsu:
Originally posted by Mila.R:
I partly agree. I just think that humans have always been this way, but online setting gives one some distance and a sense of anonymity, thus making it less frightening than it is in person. It's rather scary, actually, to approach a living person face to face about something, least of all asking for help, money, or sex. Being online makes it easier and with less consequences (no one is going to slap your face and there are no onlookers to witness your humiliation), so people do it more readily.

This ^

On top of that It also allows people to mindlessly bash the Star Wars movies, Darling in the FranXX anime without a care that you also see people trying to join whatever is the mainstream fad. They see people having fun with Knuckles meme so they do that, or with being horny in VRchat, among other things.

"Monkey see, Monkey do"

Then you see people trying to do the same for being lewd, and all that stuff. As much as I've gotten pushbacks people simply proved my point how they follow others in a tribal mentality that they want to be a part of the "big thing" (fads) to feel included.

Also, look at the threads here on VRchat steam forums with people saying how lonely they are and such..... (Just go up to people to say "Hi" to then ask if you want to hang out and do something). People seek validation that it seems easy to do such via being lewd, being a part of the Knuckles memes, or somehow wiggling your way into the Nagzz21 fandom, and etc. I'm sure I"m guilty of something somewhere in the anime realm.... I'm not an exception to the tribal mentality, neither is the person saying they aren't either.

I guess being lewd simply allows us to "connect" with one another in weird ways.
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Chibi Life Jul 29, 2018 @ 9:03am 
Tends to be the anime community that's like this and VRChat attracted that whole community. Also there are discord servers dedicated to teaching men how to talk like girls so use careful judgement in there lol.
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Vatarga Jul 29, 2018 @ 11:04am 
It actually does annoy me too. I'm here on vrchat to hang out and relax, not talk about sex and stuff. Like, what's the point? Leave that for irl. It doesn't mean anything in vrchat...
-What you do irl.. i don't know you..
-Sexual Comments about peoples avatars... Just why?...
-trying to pick people up in vrchat.... It's not going to go anywhere...
Last edited by Vatarga; Jul 29, 2018 @ 11:32am
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iibirdy Jul 29, 2018 @ 12:44pm 
Originally posted by James Vatarga:
It actually does annoy me too. I'm here on vrchat to hang out and relax, not talk about sex and stuff. Like, what's the point? Leave that for irl. It doesn't mean anything in vrchat...
-What you do irl.. i don't know you..
-Sexual Comments about peoples avatars... Just why?...
-trying to pick people up in vrchat.... It's not going to go anywhere...


Exact. I think it's sad to see humanity involve into something so disgraceful. Humility, respect and love towards one another seem to slowly become non-existent. Not only on the internet, this happens in real as well. Humans are becoming selfish and very disdainful.
Last edited by iibirdy; Jul 29, 2018 @ 3:26pm
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TECHNO504 Jul 29, 2018 @ 2:03pm 
It is a quite annoying problem but too bad theres nothing we can really do about it.
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Choco Jul 29, 2018 @ 2:27pm 
I think you took it a little bit to far. Since I got into VRChat it has been always like that, At the end some stupid kids and teenagers laugh and talk about sexual things, normally in conversations where there is nothing to talk about. Saying that the humanity has involved into something so disgraceful kinda makes it worse. If you can't have a normal conversation, my guess is when there is nothing to talk about and somehow it rolls into sexual things that disturb you. I don't disagree with u but I think u got it a little out of hand
Last edited by Choco; Jul 29, 2018 @ 2:28pm
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iibirdy Jul 29, 2018 @ 3:12pm 
Originally posted by ▲Nachos Solve Everything▼:
I think you took it a little bit to far. Since I got into VRChat it has been always like that, At the end some stupid kids and teenagers laugh and talk about sexual things, normally in conversations where there is nothing to talk about. Saying that the humanity has involved into something so disgraceful kinda makes it worse. If you can't have a normal conversation, my guess is when there is nothing to talk about and somehow it rolls into sexual things that disturb you. I don't disagree with u but I think u got it a little out of hand

Thank you for sharing your opinion. My apologies if my opinion has offended you. I truly did mean what I said and I, personally, do not think that I've over exaggerated. Observe the behaviour of animals and these immature humans, you wouldn't see a big difference.
Last edited by iibirdy; Jul 29, 2018 @ 4:23pm
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krazyivan008 Jul 29, 2018 @ 4:50pm 
ITS BOTH
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Jewordi Jul 29, 2018 @ 5:10pm 
Theres people who pay girls for vrchat sex. Im not ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ with you.
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TECHNO504 Jul 29, 2018 @ 5:13pm 
Originally posted by ItzCameroon:
Theres people who pay girls for vrchat sex. Im not ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ with you.
Yep that and a actual dating site for vrchat as well
Last edited by TECHNO504; Jul 29, 2018 @ 5:13pm
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Chibi Life Jul 29, 2018 @ 5:16pm 
Originally posted by ItzCameroon:
Theres people who pay girls for vrchat sex. Im not ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ with you.

You mean pay traps?
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百式(Hyakushiki) Jul 29, 2018 @ 5:51pm 
Originally posted by ItzCameroon:
Theres people who pay girls for vrchat sex. Im not ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ with you.
VR prostitution is here, the future is now! (WTF)
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Doc Tear Popper Jul 29, 2018 @ 6:07pm 
Originally posted by Mila.R:
I can't have a normal conversation with anyone, guy or girl, without them mentioning things related to sex.

Is it teenagers and their hormones or is this the new generation?
Welcome to VRChat.
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Bone Jul 29, 2018 @ 8:17pm 
Idk, but it might be because you, like everybody else, is to damn sensitive and can't find humor in anything,
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Hawk Jul 29, 2018 @ 11:39pm 
Originally posted by StoinkyDoinky:
Idk, but it might be because you, like everybody else, is to damn sensitive and can't find humor in anything,
Or maybe you need to grow the ♥♥♥♥ up! If someone talks to me about sex all the time, I'd kick him in the balls. Grow up dude, talk about something more relevant. You're probably one of these sexualized dudes who talks to girls on VRChat and jerks off at the same time.
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Hawk Jul 29, 2018 @ 11:42pm 
VRChat is honestly a messed up place, filled with virgins and teenagers who just started exploring their sexuality. Everything is about sex for them, it's soooo funny! Suck my ♥♥♥♥! Yeah!

In all honesty, don't play VRChat. You seem too intelligent for the game. Just remove it and never look back.
Last edited by Hawk; Jul 29, 2018 @ 11:44pm
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