This just like real life .... Finding a Husband?

[Willow Rivers]

Playing on Oxbow and playing as a female and in my 7th year. Started looking for a husband but can't find a decent man lol. Find a decent looking man and their skills suck. Find a skilled man in the right skills and they are not that great looking.

If I do find a good combination then their personality is a turn off.

Maybe I am just too picky when it comes to the game lol.

[Cassie]

I found something funny, I had gone to an area and even though I should have been able to tell what personality they had, it wasn't working correctly, so, I just got this one guy who's skills were good, had three 3's, and then after my character married him, found one with four out of six pretty good stats , 3's and 4's . And after marriage is when it worked as to what personality he had. lol

[Foxglovez]

Yeah, the personality thing didn't work for me either till married. That is also like real life.

[turdsmcpoop]

Better settle soon before even the half-decent ones are all taken.

[BillyBozarth]

Originally posted by CAPTAIN-JACK:

Originally posted by Morri:

Can't help but feel that you must be REALLY triggered going through other forum posts, if this little thing is already causing such a big reaction.

Yeah sure, now we are judging if something makes sense or not based on "overhaul posts".
Nontheless I'm right, my point is correct: it makes sense to refer to a single npc programmed to do just the man-&-husband as a "he"; it doesn't make any to refer to him as a "they" since, afaik, there's no possibility in the game for the npcs to "identify" themselves (i.e. choose pronouns), so there's no possibility nor need for "indetermination" here.

Why I'm making all this mess? Well, why not?
To make you understand it better; imagine someone refering to a trans person with the wrong pronoun, I bet a loooot of people here would be really pissed off, nobody would let it pass! But it would be ok, right? The principle is very simple: use the correct pronouns, always! So why pretending to use pronouns correctly would be so much of an issue in this case? What's different?

Oh right, my opinions influence the outcome. My point is correct, straight and simple.
I'm right here, who cares about my opinions.
If you have a man, or a woman, and you call him or her "they" just because yes, then you(generic) oughta be a stupid person. Just use some good sense sometimes. Not everything is a "they". People just think real life is netflix!

"overhaul posts"....how many posts have you overhauled? Did you do a complete overhaul or just partial?

[Dreadstone]

Originally posted by Vault Traveler:

I have the same problem but with woman.

+ 1.

[Lord Sputnik]

Originally posted by Cassie:

I found something funny, I had gone to an area and even though I should have been able to tell what personality they had, it wasn't working correctly, so, I just got this one guy who's skills were good, had three 3's, and then after my character married him, found one with four out of six pretty good stats , 3's and 4's . And after marriage is when it worked as to what personality he had. lol

Where did you find someone with 4s? The highest they will spawn with is 3 normally, but I guess you could have them join your village then raise them to 4 before marrying them.