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My wife is losing happiness even with new gift
Is she not happy with her new pendant. Does she want a baby? The house is decorated. Her happiness is lowering so I bought her a gift was it the wrong time of year lol
just started recently . Not playing the Beta . Just normal game.
https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2845044201
Last edited by Jaunitta 🌸; Aug 5, 2022 @ 9:09am
Originally posted by TheRealMuehle:
The red arrow appears at season-change, to indicate the loss of affection.
If you already made your wife a gift, so she's on 100% affection again,
the arrow-symbol will disappear at the next season-change.
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From what I've seen, gifts only increase her affection but not her mood.
TuppenceStick Aug 5, 2022 @ 9:19am 
By happiness i assume you are meaning affection as in the picture her affection is showing as dropping. Depends what your wife's affection was before you gave her the gift. Once given the affection will start to drop again. I usually find about once a year to 6 seasons is enough to keep it full. There is no specific time of year that is better to give gifts.

House decorations are separate and if you are playing the normal version currently have no impact on anything other than to be decorative.
Fatedragon Aug 5, 2022 @ 9:21am 
time to find a new wife
Jaunitta 🌸 Aug 5, 2022 @ 9:34am 
Once a year I give her a gift. Sometimes it even appears in the inventory.
There was an event where I had no choices and had to accept villagers were not happy or something F to accept it brought the mood down 10% and my wife's mood never went back up. Most of the villagers stayed like that as well until winter set in and now slowly they are returning to happy.
Adding it states a fisherman needs a knife there is 30 stone knives in the resources chest. and one in the fishing hut 2 chest. Have validated files still no good.
Last edited by Jaunitta 🌸; Aug 5, 2022 @ 9:41am
Capuzzi09 Aug 5, 2022 @ 9:36am 
Does their happiness (mood) or affection towards you decrease? These are different values and there are different reasons why they might decrease and there's also different measures to get them up again.

For mood:
In the current public version of the game, mood is influenced by:
- Skill level in the current profession
- Type and quality of the house she lives in
- Married yes/no (okay, that's kinda stupid considered we're talking about your wife, isn't it)
- Child yes/no
- Sufficient supply of basic needs (food, drink, firewood)

If one of the above points is not fulfilled or only insufficiently fulfilled, this is reflected in a lower or decreasing mood. For example, changing from an occupation with a high skill level to another occupation with a low skill level will lower the mood.
Furthermore, there are some "events" (events that take place at the change of seasons) that can also have an impact on the mood - sometimes positive, sometimes rather negative...
All this applies not only to your wife, but also to the mood of all the inhabitants of your settlement.

Then there is your wife's affection for you - this is the value that must first be increased to 100 before the wife is ready for marriage. This affection will continuously decrease in the course of time, and there is nothing or very little you can do about it.
I imagine that talking to the woman regularly slows down this process. For example, I ask my wife once a day how things are going in our little kingdom. This question also has the small advantage that the wife will tell you if something goes wrong, such as damaged buildings, too little food, too little water, craftsmen need resources or tools, etc.... Moreover, at least in my opinion, the daily conversation slows down the loss of affection. If not - well, at least I have made her feel valued.... ;)
Another way to increase affection is bringing her gifts.
However: you can only give the wife a gift once a season and not every gift is received with equal delight by the spouse. Note that the gift has to match the wife's personality (the personality will be displayed directly when talking to your wife if you have the "Empathy" skill in your personal skill tree in Diplomacy).
For example, a "busy bee" will not be very happy if you give her a bottle of expensive wine, while a "snob" or "princess" will most likely be more negative about a pincushion. The key here is to find the best gift for your wife's personality, so that you can achieve the highest increase in her affection.

To cut a long story short, don't neglect your wife and give her a treat every now and then, and love will never fade. If only it were that easy in real life...

That was once again much more text than I had actually planned. I hope I was able to help you. If you have any further questions - feel free to ask. :)

Oh, and one more thing: the upcoming inheritance update has one or two changes in store for your wife, too, so there are good reasons to look forward to it... ;)
Last edited by Capuzzi09; Aug 5, 2022 @ 9:38am
Jaunitta 🌸 Aug 5, 2022 @ 9:45am 
Thankyou for all the advise and I wont include it lol, my wife was 100% happy for 8 years, I it just started after the event.
I always ask her every morning how our kingdom is going and I noticed her happiness had drop to 99 and it stayed on since the event so I buy her a gift when it gets to the current.
I sacked a fisher villager that was needing sleep, my wife is 100% now happy but still shows a red down arrow.
I'll see how it goes.

everyone got happier after I helped this villager fisherman get more sleep you know time off. I mean is that spooky lol.
Oh I also had a bath might have helped :P
https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2845079328
Last edited by Jaunitta 🌸; Aug 5, 2022 @ 10:43am
UglyBird Aug 5, 2022 @ 5:00pm 
Did you give her the wrong gift?
Depending on her personality, her preferences differ.
Don't give a diamond to someone with simple expectations, this would drop her affection rating, go for a coverlet or similar.
Jaunitta 🌸 Aug 5, 2022 @ 5:17pm 
Her unhappiness had nothing to do with gift buying it started after the event where the villagers were not happy decide what to do I had no choices to make so had to F accept and the entire village lost 10% happiness the village happiness didnt improve after that.
So it was before any gifts but a good thought..
The order of things I did.
I bought a gift to see if it would remove the red down arrow. Now its seems to have stabilized on 100% happiness but the red down arrow is still there..
Removing the angry fisher also helped the village believe it or not.
So far everyone is returning to a good happiness even wife with her red down arrow.
Its crazy.
So I am thinking is there a log or a file I can delete seems maybe a script is damaged or corrupted as validating game files doesnt change it.
My only recourse if the red down arrow doesnt eventually go away is go back to before the event happened.
A have built a lot since then lol.
UglyBird Aug 5, 2022 @ 7:45pm 
I would not worry so much about mood going down, the impact on your villagers is negligible.
Mood always goes up and down until you have tweaked everything to a balance in your settlement.
Personally I only achieve this when I have a population of around 100/120, all productions automated, houses upgraded and a good supply of food. Then I can relax and enjoy beautifying my village and usually moving some of my buildings to better locations so my settlement looks more realistic.
How do you approach the game? it would be nice if players gave some details on how they build their settlement to give everyone the opportunity to better build their own.
There are no particular challenges in this game, it is all about building a settlement and this is the kind of game I prefer.
Jaunitta 🌸 Aug 6, 2022 @ 3:48am 
For Uglybird to show my village layout, For Dovesong to show my village.
I've just uploaded it so the format may not be fully rendered from SD.
Usually takes a day.
Forgive the quality . I've only played 150 hours so still early days as population is only around 31 but there is lots of kids maybe all indoors in this video as it's winter lol.
I'll do more later on.
See the red down arrow on wife she is happy 100 % it doesnt go down.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DNJmvgP8Ndc
Last edited by Jaunitta 🌸; Aug 6, 2022 @ 3:53am
Capuzzi09 Aug 6, 2022 @ 4:14am 
Originally posted by Jaunitta 🌸:
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See the red down arrow on wife she is happy 100 % it doesnt go down.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DNJmvgP8Ndc

Jaunitta, I'm happy you shared this video as I finally know by now that you actually mean "affection" when you're talking about happyness xD. Thats the point I was unsure about since you opened this topic.
If you look at this screenshot which I took from your video, I marked the "affection" with a red rectangular. The actual "happyness" is what's called "mood" in this game.
https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2845389598

Again, for both see my comment above about how they work in the game and what possibilities you have to increase them. This might become interesting once the heir update made it to the public version of the game.
Last edited by Capuzzi09; Aug 6, 2022 @ 4:14am
Jaunitta 🌸 Aug 6, 2022 @ 4:58am 
Thankyou yes I understand I did all you suggested and her happiness is now 100% but the red arrows remains but now it doesnt go down.
I have always bathed everyday.
I appreciate your asistance, I learn everyday :)
oh well its just annoying.

side note
As for the staging tester I do not like what I am seeing with our charactor a friend has made it known to the developers and he says it is a bug and they fix it.
I made this comparison oh goodness they are so different.
https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2845399692
Last edited by Jaunitta 🌸; Aug 6, 2022 @ 5:02am
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TheRealMuehle Aug 6, 2022 @ 6:10am 
The red arrow appears at season-change, to indicate the loss of affection.
If you already made your wife a gift, so she's on 100% affection again,
the arrow-symbol will disappear at the next season-change.
Millie Aug 6, 2022 @ 7:29am 
Gift to your wife every new season.
That should keep her affection higher.
Happiness? Hmm, some of my villagers are always around 40+%. Don't know how to make them happier.
UglyBird Aug 6, 2022 @ 7:23pm 
@Jaunitta, I watched your video and was quite impressed by you village outlay.
I just started a new settlement exactly where you have yours. I have done several villages before all around the map and this last position is my favourite so far.
Did you positioned all your buildings from the start or have you moved some later in your game?
I like the position of your extractor and herbalist away from your village centre.
It is nice to decorate homes and do so myself, but contrary to what Dovesong mention in his above post, decorations do not affect happiness, only insulation on stone houses with best roof have effect on happiness.
Building houses close to mine for your miners do not change production.
Beside those, Dovesong suggestions are quite relevant to me.
I hope to see more on the subject by other players.
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