The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

Marriage Mod - To Have & To Hold
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2,122 Comments
trinode86 Dec 12 @ 12:05pm 
Like the concept, but seems like I could never get it to work.
Unknown_Gamer Dec 3 @ 4:36pm 
I can't talk to the aspect
Magnumpie Dec 3 @ 3:27pm 
@Fellgamer You kill your spouse
FO-2189 Nov 25 @ 8:36pm 
how do I divorce again?
It's Llama Time! Oct 28 @ 11:28pm 
Or, as I think of it, Fable Marriage: Skyrim Edition
Amberia Sep 21 @ 5:56pm 
My experience with this bug is : I married Farkas first, he agreed to move Heljarchen Hall in wedding ceremony but continue living in his own room at Jovasskr. Then I ignored this problem and proceed to marry his brother Vilkas, again Vilkas agreed to live in Heljarchen Hall but won't move his a$$ out of Jovasskr. But after Vilkas' wedding ceremory I find Farkas now has option to move to my vanilla house(Breezehome), which I did ask him and he moved into my house. At the same time Vilkas still has the old dialogue which offers homestead options only. I tried to marry a 3rd husband(Jarl Siddgeir...don't judge, his marriage dialogue is actually pretty nice...) and see if Vilkas can move to my vanilla house and it worked. Now I have my 2 daughters and their twin fathers living together in the same house with me...oh and Lydia too XD
Amberia Sep 21 @ 5:55pm 
Somehow this mod works for me. Still a bit buggy here and there, but tolerable.

So far there is only one bug that is bothering me a little bit and it got easily solved. That is your "primary spouse"(the latest one you've married with) only has option to move to your homestead, and won't actually move to any of your properties even they agree to.
TheDankWaifu Aug 31 @ 10:35am 
literally just tell the priest dude about it, then he says come back in 1 day.

all the guests come and just sit while my spouse doesnt even come.

I've waiting 5 in game days and still no spouse
ScorPion Aug 10 @ 12:32pm 
@melodyplayz1124 Subscribed to the item :D
melodyplayz1124 Aug 10 @ 10:48am 
hi im a noob and have never used steam before how i do i download ths xD
Daveosfutur (ERR0R) Jul 16 @ 11:22am 
Bruh. I tried it and then all my guests got up and left. then my "Spouse" gets all salty at me. Think it may be a little bugged. fml
EnderSword Jul 15 @ 10:41pm 
*watches the video* Those damn couriers ALWAYS come at the wrong time XD like dude, he's FILMING here leave mr.courier!!!
bloodangel.666 Jul 8 @ 6:38am 
That Kawaii Ahri >'.'< Don't bother. Support for this mod is long gone. The "author" basically made a mod, didn't check for flaws and inconsistencies and on top of that the "author" didn't even bother cleaning this mod of dirty edit (which is confirmed by both LOOT and Xedit) which made the game unstable.
Just get use Multi Marriage by Jamce (http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/72939/?) or Lovers in Skyrim (http://www.nexusmods.com/skyrim/mods/85122/?) don't even bother with this one.
That Kawaii Ahri >'.'< Jul 6 @ 12:59am 
i'm currently trying to marry serana and when i have this mod and marriable serana on, the ceremony stop after maramal tries to ask me if i want to marry her.

is this a bug you're aware of?
Royal Mark Jun 16 @ 8:23pm 
People's "wives disappearing" hahaha
CHEESUS Jun 15 @ 2:37pm 
Doesnt work for Lynly
verser May 29 @ 7:33pm 
realy want to use this mod but as bloodangel.666 said the dirty edits are making the game too unstable.
✪Bearded May 2 @ 2:57pm 
my wife disappeared cant find her and cant remarry FeelsBad also cant divorce in console or with mods lol
bloodangel.666 Apr 27 @ 5:25am 
I don't know if you haven't noticed but I ran Loot and according to it 47 dirty edits which was confirmed by Xedit and I don't know if you read comment from any sites that host your mod but by any chance that you do.
Clean Your Mod, 'Cause it is unstable due to the dirty edits and while your at it make it compatible with USLEEP.

Thanks.
Shiraze Apr 23 @ 1:06pm 
lol my wife disappeared after the ceremony
cartertehgamer Apr 17 @ 11:28am 
I can't divorce
REMOVE KEBAB Apr 10 @ 9:21pm 
I take It this need some kind of DLC?
River025 Apr 4 @ 7:45pm 
When i try to remarry, i can't. Anybody know how to fix this?
Cultured Man Mar 29 @ 6:03pm 
After marrying 1 person the previoues wives are not talking like wivesthey are talking like friends.They are not calling me as a wife but as a friend.Is there a way to fix this?
Rua Mar 27 @ 9:35pm 
where is this npc? where is the aspact of love?
ThePickledFetus Mar 26 @ 10:23pm 
nevermind i got it but instead of saying npc you should change it to statue
ThePickledFetus Mar 26 @ 10:21pm 
is the npc called the aspect of love or not because i cant find anybody like that in the temple of mara
Sarle_ Mar 17 @ 6:11am 
learn english pls
vrp_84 Mar 16 @ 6:52pm 
,make a spanish version plz <3
KronosRules Mar 15 @ 6:54pm 
everytime i try to marry, taarie shows up dead and ruins it. Does anybody know whats happening?
Soup Can Mar 13 @ 6:44am 
When I read "To have and to hold" it reminded me of the song lover of the light by Mumford and Sons.
mrwinn Feb 27 @ 10:00am 
got cut off attempting to marry Lydia, the priest began attacking as well as his wife, left the temple and the fight began in the markert place ???
ibchris.m Feb 27 @ 12:59am 
I spoke to the Aspect of Love one time and told him I would like to have multiple wives. He got to the point where he tells about Orcs worshipping someone but still have multiple spouses, then he got cut off and nothing happened. I went to marry Ulthgerd, who I am certain I am able to marry, I did it before I installed this mod (I'm married to Ysolda, before and during this mod), but it wouldn't show the dialogue. I had on the Amulet of Mara from before I installed the mod because Maramal wouldn't give me the option to buy another when I removed it and the Bond of Matrimony from my inventory. I am also no longer able to speak to the Aspect of Love, but he does show up. I have the custom outfit marriage mod active, if that helps me fix this issue. I wanna have a house of n**e bitches! lmao
[TAW] AuroraPhoenix44 Feb 26 @ 2:37pm 
Permission Request - Port to Skyrim SE

I thought this might be the easiest place for the author of this mod, joeThinkStudio's to see the message. That said the request is essentially in the title.

I would like your permission @joeThinkStudio to post this on the Nexus and Bethesda as an SSE mod. Another Nexus user converted it, and it seems to work marvelously in SSE. However, because he does not have permission to be able to publish it he has not. That is why I'm asking on, partially his behalf. I would also like permission to, as a whole, adopt the mod and develop it further.

Reply here, or accept my friend request when you are able to do so. Either way, an answer would be very much appreciated.
Zenyatta Feb 20 @ 5:07pm 
So I was married to three people and we all lived in the house in Solitude, and then I married Derkeethus not realising we couldn't all stay in the same house, and now he's gone, I checked Maras Tears and it says he's in Windhelm, but I've checked everywhere in and around Windhelm and I can't find him anywhere??? Is there anyway to command an spouse to move to a different house/living place without interacting with them or something?? ;o;
Seikara Jan 22 @ 10:10am 
Huh. It turned me into a man (with a woman's head). Not sure why, but unsubscribing. Sorry.
Witkh13 Jan 21 @ 6:18pm 
Grateful for RoyArtorius sharing their time and Force, am I. May you ask the Goddess to eternally alight your path.

However, the specific route mentioned previously is because SSE is played on PS4 by me; For when this PC is unavailable for me to play Skyrim.

There fails to be any mod that enables multiple marriages. As we can have about nine or ten homesteads...
Roy "Rarth" Artorius Jan 21 @ 11:39am 
I was able to port this mod to Special Edition but since I don't think I have permission to upload it, I guess if you want the port, you'll have to do it yourself, I just followed some tutorials
http://wiki.nexusmods.com/index.php/Porting_Skyrim_mods_to_Skyrim_Special_Edition

Note: You also have to unpack the BSA that comes with this mod before following the tutorial. You don't have to re-pack when you're done. At least, I didn't. I also didn't clean this mod and it still works just fine for me.

If you want the Hearthfire patch, you'll have to do the same process with it, but you do need to download old Skyrim and subscribe to the mod since it's still on Steam Workshop only. Then you can follow the tutorial with it.
Witkh13 Jan 16 @ 10:17pm 
Adding this to Bethesda.net's mods, as a mod for the PS4 would be fantastic, believe do I. 8D
xPEDx Dec 29, 2016 @ 5:11am 
Please upload for SSE, or pls let some one els ?
opalescent0 Dec 24, 2016 @ 6:55pm 
Alternatively, would you consider releasing permissions for someone to do a stripped-down version of the mod that would better for compatibility?
opalescent0 Dec 24, 2016 @ 6:32pm 
Since this mod appears to be abandoned, would you (joeThinkStudios) consider releasing permissions on it so that other users can make compatibility patches with the scripts? A patch for Hearthfires is already in existence, but a patch for Hearthfire Multiple Adoptions is, in my opinion, way overdue.
Cizma Dec 24, 2016 @ 4:56am 
So whenever I try to attend my wedding ceremony, Taarie shows up dead in the Temple of Mara and cancels the whole ceremony. This happens every time I do this, even if I completely disable Taarie. Any way to get around this?
aqua118 Dec 20, 2016 @ 9:32am 
Is Cicero marriageable?
KnockDown&Up Dec 13, 2016 @ 7:18pm 
The Aspect of Love wasn't responding to me. But after buying an Amulet of Mara from Maramal and having it in my inventory, he finally stopped giving me the silent treatment.
HagenTheMan Dec 13, 2016 @ 3:02am 
amulet of morrow lol
jkuharik30 Dec 7, 2016 @ 11:06am 
this mod is a solid concept, but really needs to updated and tweaked.
blinkergolem Dec 7, 2016 @ 12:06am 
If you spare Cicero during the dark brotherhood quest line. He dances for you at your wedding like a real jester. :D
blinkergolem Dec 7, 2016 @ 12:06am 
@ Fr0s1Byte I had the same problem, I fixed it by accepting mara's blessing then talking to the aspect of love.
Ognehod Dec 4, 2016 @ 3:51am 
Can you made this one for SE?