The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

Marriage Mod - To Have & To Hold
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2,046 Comments
Lord Arrojacast Jul 23 @ 10:14am 
are the other mods in the series ever coming to the workshop?
WeedleBomb Jul 6 @ 3:09am 
i did all the quests that add decorations but nothing happenes and i cant speak the aspect of love.................help
RareKiLaPrO Jul 6 @ 1:43am 
srry i didnt mean to get angry, i think just some other mods i have are interfeiring... theyre old so i'll delete them anyway, besides that i think its a great mod :)
DiscipleofYahweh Jul 6 @ 12:09am 
@RareKiLaPrO

He just said make sure to do a hard save to fall back on in worst case scenarios before enabling this mod...
RareKiLaPrO Jul 5 @ 11:00pm 
ffs u could have said it kills ur current spouse
PotatoKnight Jul 1 @ 10:19am 
I have been using this mod for months now and only within the past few weeks it's also developed the bug where it says that I missed the wedding and I have to either reconcile or break up with my fiancee (as in, as I am walking to the temple having in fact not missed the wedding). I followed the FAQ suggestions for marriage bugs but nothing has fixed it. I have deleted all mods I added since this started happening, and it still won't work. Please help.
wfz52 Jun 30 @ 8:07am 
Are you still going to work on your othe rmarriage mods?
Ryne_S; Jun 27 @ 8:17pm 
I don't know if this mod is still active but I found an issue where wives do not recognize hearthfire houses as valid places to move.
V/\ Salad Father V/\ Jun 27 @ 8:21am 
For some reason, I can't move my spouse (Ysolda) to my HF house (Lakeview Manor, Falkreath) Why is that?
firecrash6 Jun 24 @ 10:31am 
it wont let me attend the ceremony even though im RIGHT THERE somebody please help me
Ranger_37 Jun 23 @ 6:48pm 
it keeps sayinf i missed the wedding when im there WHAT DO I DO
Sarle_ Jun 23 @ 7:38am 
@DovahHobbit Kill your wife
DovahHobbit Jun 22 @ 11:11pm 
how to get divorced???
Kiandy Jun 20 @ 2:59pm 
So where do i look in the tears of mara book to find the location on my wife
Shady Dr. Dementia Jun 18 @ 1:41pm 
Okay, getting somewhere. The Aspect of Love is in the ground, but he won't rise when I walk up to the statue
beckyodom1247 Jun 10 @ 6:08pm 
@jkuharik30 It is indeed compatible with "Marriable Serana" and "Marriable Serana - Hearthfire" by (I think) CoderMonkey. I'm not sure if this made a difference, but I have "Marriage Mod - To Have & To Hold" listed before the other two. If you're already married to Serana, but still want to experience the mod's version of marriage, you can remarry her through the Aspect of Mara. However, if you change her outfit through the added dialogue setting once the two of you are married, it appears you cannot change her back into her original vampire royal armour if that matters to you.
Sarle_ May 8 @ 8:11am 
@FeelThePowerofTheDUCKSIDE open the tears of mara book on the table of maras temple
TheDUCKSIDE May 7 @ 8:19pm 
Its not allowing me to speak to the aspect of mara
Sarle_ May 2 @ 11:27am 
aspect of mara is asking for money to have more wives ? i have about 10k and cant afford wich is pretty stupid
ZodiacDragonStar Apr 26 @ 3:26pm 
what setting do i change in ck to get more then 11 spouses? and where in ck do i find it?
Mimer Apr 13 @ 3:41pm 
I read the FAQ but for some reason the aspect of love sank through the floor. (I used tcl to find him)
smith0616a Apr 5 @ 12:57am 
I can never get to the marage day for my second wedding. way is thais???
indy.nightcrawler Mar 30 @ 8:50am 
Same problem as UptownFunky. The "My Home is your home" mod doesn't fix it.
Bandit Hadron Mar 28 @ 1:32pm 
It is broken for me

The chairs do not show up and the sidequest to speak to my spouse during the reception never goes away
jaderive Mar 25 @ 10:00pm 
No idea
jkuharik30 Mar 25 @ 9:10am 
is this compatible with the marriable serana mod?
UptownFunky Mar 24 @ 12:38pm 
this mod doesn't let me ask my spouse to live in my hearthfire house. I tell her that i want to move houses. but my hearthfire house ins't shown. If i tell her "I want to move somewhere special" the dialogue just ends and nothing happens. I uninstalled the mod and then i was able to get her to move to my hearthfire house
Necrodusk Mar 22 @ 7:00pm 
Nevermind, found a fix. Just type the console command "Tcl" to clip into the statue, and it's beneath the statue. Once you're done talking to it, back out of it and "tcl" to turn no clip off
Necrodusk Mar 22 @ 6:47pm 
I tried putting the mod at the bottom of the launcher but I still cannot talk to the aspect of love. Originally it appeared as something I just couldn't interact with, but now it appears beneath the statue.
🐾EternalWolf5🐾 Mar 19 @ 5:59pm 
I cant talk to the aspect of love
king john 14 Mar 14 @ 11:02am 
ok thank you
jaderive Mar 13 @ 10:37pm 
No this mod is NOT FAKE it i9s an actuall mod that does work, just some of you use tooo many mods together, so some are bound to not play nice together ....
king john 14 Mar 13 @ 7:47pm 
AND I CANT USE SKYRIM NEXUS
king john 14 Mar 13 @ 7:42pm 
is this mod fake or something if it is then don't help me if it is not then help me ok plzz i reallly want this mod if i had a chance to make a mod like this it would be a really mod that is true. im for real to its not a joke ok.plzz fix this mod im bagging you plz . T-T
jaderive Mar 7 @ 3:07am 
Are you kidding ??
Leon_Volcove Mar 5 @ 1:28pm 
How to download it?
will this work if you're allready married
jaderive Feb 22 @ 12:30am 
Try changing this to the bottom load order , other than that I dont know
Zydrate Feb 21 @ 3:12pm 
How do you give your wife multiple options for clothing? I remember having it on alt characters but my new wives only have the basics like Leather, Steel, etc.
Connorama Feb 19 @ 3:35pm 
there's no option to change my wifes clothes
jaderive Feb 18 @ 6:24am 
LoL dru it not, if anything it probably incourages with plenty of opportuinities, and plus plenty of mods that do
Skyrim hates gay marriage.
jaderive Feb 7 @ 7:03pm 
...... BRILL, =.= more info , if you want help
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Britishthrasher Feb 7 @ 3:25pm 
This isn't working.
jaderive Feb 5 @ 5:58pm 
Yes
cbmyers14 Feb 5 @ 3:17pm 
can you marry modid followers with this mod?
jaderive Feb 4 @ 1:58am 
Ok I will give it a go, firstly I don t kniow syglia is, and she move to where you want her to go , you need spouses can live anywhere mod which covers custom home mods and cast bless home in the one you want her to go to
Kein Beitrag Sonntags Feb 3 @ 12:39pm 
I'm sorry, but I didn't see an answer to this in the FAQ. For some weird reason, Sylgja won't say anything besides her usual greetings when I talk to her at the wedding reception, and if I try to get her to move to another house, the only one that it will let me say is Hjerim in Windhelm. Now, I own every friggin' house in Skyrim and one in Raven Rock, so why can I only send her to one? My kids are in Lakeview Manor and they need a mother!

Again, sorry about this, but if there's anything I can do to fix these issues, could you let me know? Thanks.
jaderive Feb 3 @ 12:36am 
@ravern , yes , just depends on what mods you have as to wether this plays nice with them