The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim

Marriage Mod - To Have & To Hold
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Royal Mark Jun 16 @ 8:23pm 
People's "wives disappearing" hahaha
CHEESUS Jun 15 @ 2:37pm 
Doesnt work for Lynly
verser May 29 @ 7:33pm 
realy want to use this mod but as bloodangel.666 said the dirty edits are making the game too unstable.
BeardedBroadcasting May 2 @ 2:57pm 
my wife disappeared cant find her and cant remarry FeelsBad also cant divorce in console or with mods lol
bloodangel.666 Apr 27 @ 5:25am 
I don't know if you haven't noticed but I ran Loot and according to it 47 dirty edits which was confirmed by Xedit and I don't know if you read comment from any sites that host your mod but by any chance that you do.
Clean Your Mod, 'Cause it is unstable due to the dirty edits and while your at it make it compatible with USLEEP.

Shiraze Apr 23 @ 1:06pm 
lol my wife disappeared after the ceremony
cartertehgamer Apr 17 @ 11:28am 
I can't divorce
Definistration for free Apr 10 @ 9:21pm 
I take It this need some kind of DLC?
River025 Apr 4 @ 7:45pm 
When i try to remarry, i can't. Anybody know how to fix this?
Cultured Man Mar 29 @ 6:03pm 
After marrying 1 person the previoues wives are not talking like wivesthey are talking like friends.They are not calling me as a wife but as a friend.Is there a way to fix this?
Rua Mar 27 @ 9:35pm 
where is this npc? where is the aspact of love?
ThePickledFetus Mar 26 @ 10:23pm 
nevermind i got it but instead of saying npc you should change it to statue
ThePickledFetus Mar 26 @ 10:21pm 
is the npc called the aspect of love or not because i cant find anybody like that in the temple of mara
Sarle_ Mar 17 @ 6:11am 
learn english pls
vrp_84 Mar 16 @ 6:52pm 
,make a spanish version plz <3
KronosRules Mar 15 @ 6:54pm 
everytime i try to marry, taarie shows up dead and ruins it. Does anybody know whats happening?
Soup Can Mar 13 @ 6:44am 
When I read "To have and to hold" it reminded me of the song lover of the light by Mumford and Sons.
mrwinn Feb 27 @ 10:00am 
got cut off attempting to marry Lydia, the priest began attacking as well as his wife, left the temple and the fight began in the markert place ???
ibchris.m Feb 27 @ 12:59am 
I spoke to the Aspect of Love one time and told him I would like to have multiple wives. He got to the point where he tells about Orcs worshipping someone but still have multiple spouses, then he got cut off and nothing happened. I went to marry Ulthgerd, who I am certain I am able to marry, I did it before I installed this mod (I'm married to Ysolda, before and during this mod), but it wouldn't show the dialogue. I had on the Amulet of Mara from before I installed the mod because Maramal wouldn't give me the option to buy another when I removed it and the Bond of Matrimony from my inventory. I am also no longer able to speak to the Aspect of Love, but he does show up. I have the custom outfit marriage mod active, if that helps me fix this issue. I wanna have a house of n**e bitches! lmao
AuroraPhoenix44 Feb 26 @ 2:37pm 
Permission Request - Port to Skyrim SE

I thought this might be the easiest place for the author of this mod, joeThinkStudio's to see the message. That said the request is essentially in the title.

I would like your permission @joeThinkStudio to post this on the Nexus and Bethesda as an SSE mod. Another Nexus user converted it, and it seems to work marvelously in SSE. However, because he does not have permission to be able to publish it he has not. That is why I'm asking on, partially his behalf. I would also like permission to, as a whole, adopt the mod and develop it further.

Reply here, or accept my friend request when you are able to do so. Either way, an answer would be very much appreciated.
Skeletor Feb 20 @ 5:07pm 
So I was married to three people and we all lived in the house in Solitude, and then I married Derkeethus not realising we couldn't all stay in the same house, and now he's gone, I checked Maras Tears and it says he's in Windhelm, but I've checked everywhere in and around Windhelm and I can't find him anywhere??? Is there anyway to command an spouse to move to a different house/living place without interacting with them or something?? ;o;
Seikara Jan 22 @ 10:10am 
Huh. It turned me into a man (with a woman's head). Not sure why, but unsubscribing. Sorry.
Witkh13 Jan 21 @ 6:18pm 
Grateful for RoyArtorius sharing their time and Force, am I. May you ask the Goddess to eternally alight your path.

However, the specific route mentioned previously is because SSE is played on PS4 by me; For when this PC is unavailable for me to play Skyrim.

There fails to be any mod that enables multiple marriages. As we can have about nine or ten homesteads...
RoyMasters Jan 21 @ 11:39am 
I was able to port this mod to Special Edition but since I don't think I have permission to upload it, I guess if you want the port, you'll have to do it yourself, I just followed some tutorials

Note: You also have to unpack the BSA that comes with this mod before following the tutorial. You don't have to re-pack when you're done. At least, I didn't. I also didn't clean this mod and it still works just fine for me.

If you want the Hearthfire patch, you'll have to do the same process with it, but you do need to download old Skyrim and subscribe to the mod since it's still on Steam Workshop only. Then you can follow the tutorial with it.
Witkh13 Jan 16 @ 10:17pm 
Adding this to's mods, as a mod for the PS4 would be fantastic, believe do I. 8D
xPEDx Dec 29, 2016 @ 5:11am 
Please upload for SSE, or pls let some one els ?
opalescent0 Dec 24, 2016 @ 6:55pm 
Alternatively, would you consider releasing permissions for someone to do a stripped-down version of the mod that would better for compatibility?
opalescent0 Dec 24, 2016 @ 6:32pm 
Since this mod appears to be abandoned, would you (joeThinkStudios) consider releasing permissions on it so that other users can make compatibility patches with the scripts? A patch for Hearthfires is already in existence, but a patch for Hearthfire Multiple Adoptions is, in my opinion, way overdue.
Cizma77 Dec 24, 2016 @ 4:56am 
So whenever I try to attend my wedding ceremony, Taarie shows up dead in the Temple of Mara and cancels the whole ceremony. This happens every time I do this, even if I completely disable Taarie. Any way to get around this?
aqua118 Dec 20, 2016 @ 9:32am 
Is Cicero marriageable?
KnockDown&Up Dec 13, 2016 @ 7:18pm 
The Aspect of Love wasn't responding to me. But after buying an Amulet of Mara from Maramal and having it in my inventory, he finally stopped giving me the silent treatment.
HagenTheMan Dec 13, 2016 @ 3:02am 
amulet of morrow lol
jkuharik30 Dec 7, 2016 @ 11:06am 
this mod is a solid concept, but really needs to updated and tweaked.
blinkergolem Dec 7, 2016 @ 12:06am 
If you spare Cicero during the dark brotherhood quest line. He dances for you at your wedding like a real jester. :D
blinkergolem Dec 7, 2016 @ 12:06am 
@ Fr0s1Byte I had the same problem, I fixed it by accepting mara's blessing then talking to the aspect of love.
Ognehod Dec 4, 2016 @ 3:51am 
Can you made this one for SE?
Lux von Adalwolf Dec 1, 2016 @ 5:53pm 
Lux von Adalwolf Dec 1, 2016 @ 5:53pm 
So I can just have 11 wives? O_O k
lupus_hegemonia Dec 1, 2016 @ 7:32am 
How can I marry 2-3 ladies? I'm already with one...
CL4P-TP Nov 29, 2016 @ 1:20pm 
can i divorce several times or just one time?
xWyrie Nov 28, 2016 @ 7:40pm 
why am i unable to remarry after divorcing?
Campiotti Nov 26, 2016 @ 4:43am 
please port this to the remastered version, I'd really like the fix there (upload on nexusmods)
Fr0s1Byte Nov 23, 2016 @ 6:47pm 
I'm not able to talk with the Aspect of Love. Is there a quest or something I am supposed to do first?
Rick O'Shay Nov 17, 2016 @ 11:59pm 
Will this be available for the remastered game?
Disposable Hero Nov 17, 2016 @ 9:44pm 
Too many bugs. needs more support and a serious update. I got hung up trying to marry my follower when we were supposed to talk at the reception
PHTM Dragon Nov 16, 2016 @ 11:57am 
silentprince001 Nov 14, 2016 @ 9:44pm 
Wow I just realized this mod was last updated in 2012 :( oh the pain
silentprince001 Nov 14, 2016 @ 8:34pm 
Is the modder still supporting this mod?

i only want to know will it get ported to SE and be compatible with "Immersive Amazing Follower Tweaks SSE by o1o1o1" mod.
fearblade00 Nov 6, 2016 @ 10:19am 
When I marry it won't let me talk to my wife and tell them where to live. How do I fix this?
curtisti Nov 2, 2016 @ 11:33pm 
Unfortunately everytime the wedding begins it fails immediately. Unsubed, went back to my save to try the marriage again and it worked. Nice concept though, wished it worked for me