This is all the fixes/changes I have done.

182:
Liu Chong has Liu Dai and Liu Yao who are married and have their children from 190.
He Jin and Empress He are related so you can't marry them.
Wu Jing and Lady Wu are related.
Lu Xun spawns to Lu Jun in Lu Kang faction.
Gongsun Zan has his wife and son in Liu Yu faction.
Yuan Shu, Yuan Shao, and Yuan Yi are related.
Yuan Shu is married to Lady Feng and has his children.
Ji Ling and Zhang Xun are in Yuan Shu faction.
Yuan Shao is married to his wife and has his children, who will follow him.
When Yuan Shao creates his own faction, he gets Lady Zhen.
Xiahou Zuo(Lady Xiahou's "dad") will join with Xiahou Dun and Yuan.
Ma Teng has his children from 190 as well.
Han Fu gets Pan Feng and Xun Chen.
Han Empire has Liu Du and Liu Xian(Who are in Liu Biao faction in 190)
Lu Bu is married to Lady Yan and has Lu Ji as a child.
Gao Shun is in Ding Yuan's faction.
Qin Yilu is married to Lady Du in Ding Yuan Faction.

190:
Liu Chong, Liu Dai, and Liu Yao are related. Liu Chong being the uncle to the brothers.
Kong Rong gets Wu Anguo, yes I know he shouldn't be in 190 but I just gave him.
Chen Dao, Gan Mei(Liu Bei's wife) and Wang Ping are in Liu Bei faction.
Yan Yan and Zhang Ren are in Liu Yan/Zhang faction.
Tao Qian gets Chen Gui, Chen Deng, and Chen Su.
Yuan Shao gets Lady Zhen and Gao Lan.
Yuan Shao's wife is related to Gao Gan by being his aunt.
Lady Yang spawns in Ma Teng faction and is married to Ma Chao.
Dong Zhuo has Qin Yilu and he is married to Lady Du.
Yuan Shu has Ji Ling turn 1.
Liu Du, Liu Xian, and Wen Ping spawn in Liu Biao faction.
Sun He, Sun Jiao, Sun Yi, Sun Yu, Wu Jing, Ling Cao, and Lady Bu Lianshi are in Sun Jian faction.
Lady Wu and Wu Jing are related.
Sun Quan is married to Bu Lianshi
Cao Hong, Cao Chun, Cao Xiu, Xiahou Zuo, Lady Xiahou, Cao Zhang, and Cao Zhen are in Cao Cao faction.

194:

Cao Chun, Cao Hong, Cao Xiu, Xiahou Zuo, and Cao Zhen spawn in Cao Cao faction.
Wu Jing and Lady Wu are related.
Sun He, Sun Jiao, Sun Yi, Sun Yu, Wu Jing, Ling Cao, Lu Xun, and Lady Bu Lianshi are in Sun Ce faction.
Liu Du, Liu Xian, and Wen Ping spawn in Liu Biao faction.
Zhang Ji the proper one is now leading Shangyong.
Zhang Ji is married to Zou Yuan.
Zhang Ji is related to Zhang Xiu.
Yan Yan and Zhang Ren are in Liu Yan faction.
Chen Dao, Wang Ping, Gan Mei, Chen Gui, Chen Deng, Chen Su, Lady Xiahou are in Liu Bei faction.
Lady Xiahou is married to Zhang Fei faction, yes I know she should've of been there earlier.
Yuan Shao gets Lady Zhen, Gao Lan, and Xun Chen.
Yuan Shao's wife is related to Gao Gan by being his aunt.
Ma Teng gets Lady Yang who is married to Ma Chao.
Qin Yilu and Lady Du are married In Lu Bu faction.
Xiahou Ba is son of Xiahou Yuan and in Cao Cao's faction *NEW*

200:
Cao Chun, Cao Hong, Cao Xiu, Xiahou Zuo, Cao Zhen, Cao Biao, Cao Jie, Wang Su, Zou Yuan, and Qin Yilu are in Cao Cao faction.
Sun He, Sun Jiao, Sun Yi, Sun Yu, Wu Jing, Ling Cao, Lu Xun, Ling Tong, Zhuge Jin, Yuan Yao and Lady Bu Lianshi are in Sun Ce faction.
Liu Du, Liu Xian, Wen Ping are in Liu Biao faction.
Yan Yan and Zhang Ren are in Liu Zhang faction.
Chen Dao, Wang Ping, Gan Mei, Guan Suo, Lady Xiahou are in Liu Bei faction.
Yuan Shao gets Gao Lan and Xun Chen.
Chen Deng gets Chen Gui and Chen Su.
Zhang Yan has Zheng Lan as his wife and Zhang Fang as his son.
Ma Teng has Lady Yang who is married to Ma Chao.
Xiahou Ba is son of Xiahou Yuan and in Cao Cao's faction *NEW*

--When fixed Meng Huo will get Huaman--

Births:
You just need the parent in your faction to get the child when the year comes across.
Lu Xun to Lu Jun - 183
Liu Min to Liu Biao -184
Sun Yi to Sun Jian - 184
Liu Ji to Liu Yao - 185
Cao Pi to Cao Cao - 187
Liu Shang to Liu Yao -187
Liu Shao to Liu Yao - 188
Lady Xiahou to Xiahou Zuo - 189
Cao Zhang to Cao Cao - 189
Cao Zhen to Cao Cao - 190
Cao Zhi to Cao Cao - 192
Liu Feng to Liu Bei - 192
Xiahou Ba to Xiahou Yuan - 192 *NEW*
Cao Shuang to Cao Zhen - 203
Ling Tong to Ling Cao - 194
Cao Biao to Cao Cao - 195
Sun Huan to Sun Jiao - 195
Cao Jie to Cao Cao - 197
Guan Suo to Guan Yu - 198
Zhuge Ke to Zhuge Jin - 203
Cao Rui to Cao Pi - 205
Sima Shi to Sima Yi - 208
Sima Zhao to Sima Yi - 211
Sun Deng to Sun Quan - 209
Cao Xi to Cao Zhen - 210
Wang Yuanji to Wang Su - 217
Jia Chong to Jia Kui - 217 *NEW*
Zhang Zun to Zhang Bao - 218
Zhuge Zhan to Zhuge Liang - 227