Crusader Kings III

Crusader Kings III

Lay with spouse
50 Comments
Ayatullah May 18 @ 10:42am 
Finally, a child-making mod that works perfectly. Thanks man.
Tora Apr 23 @ 5:36pm 
The mod works fine, but it would've been nice to have had a warning about the sexual dialogue.
SigmaLX (ELK) Mar 28 @ 2:05pm 
this may need an update given how the right click menu has been updated in preparation for this year's dlc.
HeirandtheSpare Oct 4, 2024 @ 3:12pm 
Love this mod, update please!
天漢烈王 Sep 26, 2024 @ 2:21am 
如果能够支持中文就更好了!
Sola Fide  [author] Mar 17, 2024 @ 8:29am 
The mod works, version does not need to be updated.
HeirandtheSpare Mar 17, 2024 @ 8:28am 
Can we get an update?
hekele Jan 26, 2024 @ 6:07pm 
Is there any way to adjust it so that the climax option only increases the chances of the wife getting pregnant? It feels a little overpowered to be able to guarantee a baby every year but I like the realism of being able to choose to sleep with my wife, and the stress reduction.
Borjär Johnson Jan 2, 2024 @ 9:48am 
1 year cooldown. Well, different times...
GentleGiant Dec 9, 2023 @ 11:44pm 
Can you make it so that this mod can be used when you use celibacy? I would like to be able to use this mod to choose when I have children
HeirandtheSpare Nov 24, 2023 @ 9:07am 
I'll try it out then.
Sola Fide  [author] Nov 22, 2023 @ 11:50am 
@child_of_air It should still work even though the version is off.
HeirandtheSpare Nov 22, 2023 @ 8:33am 
Please update. I love this mod.
Fifty+&Shady Sep 25, 2023 @ 3:45pm 
Update, please? Thanks in advance. :steamsunny:
Sabertooth Jul 17, 2023 @ 2:36pm 
I see however there are people who still find it hard to enjoy sex because of their upbringing, making them less likely to reach climax in the first instance and have more stress and guilt in doing so after (also this is how the game handles chaste characters laying with spouses). If you are interested in adding an option for this later I would be interested.

Also I have seen a couple mods that let you get a 100% pregnancy outcome but would you consider adding a more vanilla balance friendly option that makes the event have the same pregnancy chance as a successful seduction? It's a much needed option but imo would make seducing a spouse less useful from a balance perspective.
Sola Fide  [author] Jul 17, 2023 @ 3:19am 
@Dirty Harry No, because if a chaste person has sex, that person will still orgasm and experience oxytocin, dopamine and seratonin release in the brain which brings down stress. Actually this effect is even stronger in people who don't have sex regularily so a chaste person ought to lose more stress from it than a lustful person would.

But for now, no. Whether you are chaste or not you will lose a similar level of stress.
Sabertooth Jul 16, 2023 @ 10:40pm 
does this add stress instead if chaste?
Greyrat Jun 18, 2023 @ 9:05pm 
im very surprised this mod isnt just a base game function lol
Enad May 3, 2023 @ 6:50am 
It does not seem to, however Immersive Lay With Spouse mod does.
Sola Fide  [author] May 3, 2023 @ 1:25am 
@Enad I don't know, but if you want to, you could test it out and tell us if it does.
Enad May 2, 2023 @ 6:10pm 
Any idea if this will work with AGOT?
RetroAxeman May 2, 2023 @ 5:17pm 
Oh thanks!
Sola Fide  [author] Apr 15, 2023 @ 5:22am 
It is now updated, sorry for super long delay.
HeirandtheSpare Feb 12, 2023 @ 4:53pm 
Any chance for an update?
Chapeachwannoi_ Nov 2, 2022 @ 6:52am 
Update Plz
BakAoi Sep 26, 2022 @ 5:30am 
update please :'(
BlkBaron Jul 20, 2022 @ 4:44pm 
Update for latest patch?
Toporceanu Jul 12, 2022 @ 9:59am 
update pls :rd_love:
Daisuke Jul 7, 2022 @ 4:56am 
100% a must have mod if you want a big family
Sola Fide  [author] Jun 28, 2022 @ 3:01pm 
@Jiraiya~ No, the mod doesn't change anything like that.
Jiraiya~ Jun 28, 2022 @ 10:05am 
I mostly get girl , is this intended ? i mean I made 25 child and only 3 of them male
Seagullathoth Jun 26, 2022 @ 4:09pm 
No worries. It also prevents characters from wearing armor when leading armies or becoming knights. Have learned to live with it. Not too bothersome tbh.

Also, VF, please make more mods. Your implementation of this mod is so good and seamless.
Sola Fide  [author] Jun 26, 2022 @ 3:35pm 
@The Seagull Oooooh, yeah that's an old one, but that bug specifically is unavoidable simply because of how the mod is written. It is what it is.

Thanks for pointing that out!
Seagullathoth Jun 26, 2022 @ 1:22pm 
I think if you change clothes with the barbershop mod, it stops the mod from making the characters naked. No big deal tbh
Sola Fide  [author] Jun 26, 2022 @ 10:08am 
@Rurik Could be a conflict with another mod and it could be an incompatability with the latest patch.

I have not changed anything except for the version of the mod.
Rurik Jun 26, 2022 @ 9:32am 
Great mod, thank you, one funny thing, after the last update, the event animation for the target char, no longer shows nudity, did you change that?.
Sola Fide  [author] Jun 23, 2022 @ 1:24pm 
@The Seagull No worries, I'm glad you were helped.
Seagullathoth Jun 23, 2022 @ 1:14pm 
Ok, sold. I also like how there is an option to "pull out" xD Making it a nice way to lose more stress which like you said, is more immersive. Will be using this instead of the other. Thanks for the quick reply.
Sola Fide  [author] Jun 23, 2022 @ 1:14pm 
@The Seagull The impregnate spouse has very strange and arbitrary rules compared to this mod.
For example:

1: In this mod a woman can get pregnant to the age of 50, in the other mod it's 40. Which is strange, considering that I know several women in real life who got pregnant and birthed healthy children when these women were in their 40s.
2: I have a 1 year cooldown, the other mod has a 5 year cooldown which makes no sense since women can get pregnant a couple of months after giving birth.
3: This mod does not have silly and annoying balancing rules, it's instead more realistic and as such fits way better into a role-playing experience.
4: (This point is just for the sake of making a 4th point) This mod has far better dialogue than the other one.

This mod is for immersion, the other is not.
Seagullathoth Jun 23, 2022 @ 12:58pm 
Sorry if this sounds rude but whats the difference between this and the Impregnate spouse?
Sola Fide  [author] Jun 6, 2022 @ 11:14am 
@Banane It is indeed 100% guaranteed unless the woman is above 50 years of age then if that is the case nothing happens. Unless she has immortality trait then it might work.
Banane Jun 6, 2022 @ 8:50am 
Is the pregnancy 100% garuanteed or is there an chance element involved?
I find it weird that the game has no "try for a child" option
Sola Fide  [author] Jun 5, 2022 @ 5:27pm 
@No Name You can lay with concubines as well.
No Name Jun 5, 2022 @ 4:29pm 
I noticed concubine is not listed. Not an option I take it?
Sola Fide  [author] May 6, 2022 @ 9:23am 
@The_Illusive_Man22 Sorry, I only plan to update this mod, not change it. If you want to you can make a more detailed version of it. I don't mind.
Fridericus Rextard May 5, 2022 @ 11:38am 
Mucho sexo!
FifthHydra May 4, 2022 @ 5:51pm 
grrrrr silly brat corrective thinking needed!
The_Illusive_Man22 May 3, 2022 @ 3:52pm 
It is possible to add the option to reduce the cooldown and add more flavour texts/events ?
fl4ck0 May 2, 2022 @ 7:23am 
i bang wife
darklinglime May 2, 2022 @ 3:55am 
mmm sex