In the reality we live in, we can choose to be anything we want to be. But in the end, your mind will make the choice for you, whether consciously or unconsciously. The mind knows what it wants, and it is up to you to figure out to give it what it wants, and what it wants you to be. The journey can be long and arduous, painful and undesirable, or peaceful and serene. It is up to you how you go through your journey.

And you may go, kicking and screaming all the while.
And you may go, reluctantly and stoic.
And you may find that the journey was the only thing that mattered, destination unknown and insignificant.

And at the end of it all, I hope you find happiness, not in where you end, but in how you got to where you are.

I hope you can find home.