If you learn anything from this, maybe consider when someone totally drops everything for you when ever you need them and shows you love and care that your own GF and family and "actual real friends" won't give you ... instead of being a ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ to them and assuming the worst of them when they've not done the same to you even though you've more then earned it, show them a little kindness and give them the benefit of the doubt. I would say ask them if they are OK but that would require you to give a ♥♥♥♥ and well we both know that wasn't going to happen.

It will never cease to amaze me how someone that is so hurt over others abuse and treatment of them turns around and does the same thing to people and doesn't see the wrong in it.