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My wife (F-32) and I (M-24) have been married for two years, and our lives have been going well until now. She has been struggling with Overactive Bladder (OAB) for a while, even before we met. However, this hasn’t stopped us from loving each other. I've told her multiple times to go to the doctor, but she refuses because she thinks it’s 'embarrassing' and believes it will 'go away' eventually.

While I did see her avoiding treatment as an inconvenience, it didn’t really affect me much. Thankfully, she hadn’t had any accidents (well, almost), and she was always careful during s3x by peeing first and going when she needed to.

Usually, we stay home since it’s easier for her, but we still go out sometimes. When we do, she typically drives to avoid any accidents, which I was okay with. We don’t travel far as we just go to halal food places (I’m Muslim, she’s Catholic) and nearby stores.

Normally, when she needed to use the bathroom, she would just say so. One day, I made a little joke by opening my mouth in response, and we both laughed because it was harmless fun. But then, she started turning that joke into a recurring thing. Every time she said she needed to pee, I had to open my mouth or say something like, ‘enhance the flavor of my food/drinks,’ pretending I wanted her to pee in them. I went along with it because I loved making her laugh, and she was very sweet and loving to me.

Still, I felt it was weird. She started saying it in a more sexual way, using an intimate tone, and I played along, thinking it was just more jokes. I didn’t think it would actually happen, and to be clear I didn’t want it to. Plus, as I said, I’m Muslim, so consuming urine or putting it in food/drinks is strictly forbidden in my religion and I think she knew that as I learned about her religion(Catholicism), and she learned mine(Islam).

Then it all came to crashing down. We were having s3x in bed as usual, and she made the “joke” again but this time, it wasn’t a joke because as soon as she said she needed to pee, she actually started peeing on me. I completely freaked out and ran into the shower. She apologized and finished peeing in the toilet. I was absolutely furious and disgusted, like she peed on me without my consent!

When I confronted her, she started crying and said she thought I’d like it because of all the 'jokes,' and she admitted to having a 'piss kink' and wanted to pee on me and my mouth for a long time. She believed I was being genuine about liking it. To make things worse, she confessed she had put a little bit of her pee in my tea and coffee over the past few days as a way to express what she thought was mutual interest.

I completely lost it an asked her how she would feel if I took a ♥♥♥♥ on her or in her drinks. She couldn’t respond but just sobbed on the floor. Mind you, she’s a grown woman and older than me, so I found this incredibly embarrassing. I left as it was her home while she was on the bed weeping. I decided to rent a hotel and started to cry because I felt disgusted and betrayed, how could she think this was okay when I've never consented?

TL;DR - I'm now filing divorce on my wife because she used her Overactive Bladder issues to support her kink by peeing on me and my drinks without my consent even though she tried to excuse it by thinking I'd "like it?" AIO?

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