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What are the pros and cons of having a large/long penis?
This is an interesting question and more important than many may realize. As men, we are universally taught that bigger means better, so I think that most people assume that it would be an “all pro, no con” experience.

Before I go any further, I want to let you know that in this answer I am going to go into a fairly detailed and descriptive discussion of my own penis. If that doesn’t interest you or grosses you out, then I recommend that you hit that upvote button and then move on to reading answers about kittens or whatever. I don’t mean to force anyone to read about the nature of my dick unless they want to.

Also please understand that no part of this answer is intended to “brag” but merely to enlighten readers regarding an issue that isn’t often talked about. Penis size is just another physical feature that none of us control and I am not trying to show off, merely to share my own experiences.

So I will preface my answer by saying that I am personally just a bit longer than what would be average for my height (6′1″), but have a significantly greater girth than what is usual. Having a very large penis certainly has some positive aspects that come with it, but I assume that many such benefits I have thoroughly internalized as part of my “normal” experience, so I am more inclined to think of the cons than the pros.

And the cons are real.

Cons:

There is exactly one make of condom that I can comfortably use: Trojan Magnum XLs. I have even had standard Magnums break on me on several occasions, which has led to some trying experiences. A lot of the information you encounter claims that condoms don’t break unless you are doing something wrong, but that has certainly not been my experience. I have broken so many condoms that I don’t even try using any other type than XLs. Not only are others unreliable, but it often feels like someone is furiously squeezing your penis, and not in a good way. The downside of only using XLs is that the standard box sold at the drug store contains 12 condoms and costs just over $17, meaning that every single time that I have protected sex, it costs me about a buck fifty to do so. That adds up if you have sex a lot.
For those of us in the habit of wearing suits or dress pants for work or regularly in our daily lives, underwear stops being a matter of preference and more a matter of social neccessity. I personally find loose boxers quite comfortable, but if I wear them with tailored dress pants, literally everyone will be able to see the size and shape of my genitals. In my case, my… I’m sick of euphemisms… my cock can hang down well past one-third and nearly to the halfway point between my crotch and my knee. Occasions on which I have worn comfortable boxers with suit pants give me a brief glimpse of what women must deal with every day of their adult lives. People stare at my crotch even while they are speaking with me, which isn’t nearly as fun an experience as many men imagine it to be. I find boxer-briefs to be my only real option, and even so I need to take occaisional bathroom breaks just to adjust.
Erections become a rather major issue. Not only are they embarrassing when they come unexpectedly, they can be genuinely uncomfortable when wearing insufficiently spacious pants. During an erection, the penis aims to stick straight out from the body, and the act of keeping it tightly restricted becomes… painful to say the least.
I don’t know if this is related to my penis size, but every pair of pants I own ends its life in the same way: torn crotch. This may be merely a shortcoming of pants design, but I have trashbags full of crotchless pants.
Sex can be… complicated. I have literally had three different women vomit on me while attempting to get my whole penis into their mouths. My current girlfriend is pretty much the only person who has ever mastered deep-throating it enough to be able to take the whole thing with at least apparent ease. Similarly, I have had several partners scream in pain during sex and had more than a couple of sexual encounters end early and very awkwardly as a result. That really sucks.
You can pretty much never talk about the difficulties related to having a very large penis. Everyone seems to have a general opinion of “oh, get over yourself, you think you’re all that” so you never get much of a chance to receive guidance or advice. For ages I wondered what the hell I was doing wrong or thought that I must just be bad at sex or condoms or both. In a world with already insufficient sexual education, that can be a very disheartening experience for a young man.
Okay, I admit that there is also at least one

Pro:

Every single time a girl has undressed me for the first time, I have gotten to hear her say “wow!” with genuine surprise in her voice the first time that she sees my cock. I took early on to warning prospective partners about the size and they’d still gasp in shock every single time. Amongst sex-positive friends close enough for your girlfriend to have bragged to them about your size, you even become an occasional topic of conversation. I once had the brilliant experience of sitting right behind the plate at Yankee Stadium with my girlfriend and two of her friends while the three young women discussed how huge my penis was. In a society where men are constantly told that size equals value, that is admittedly an experience that bolsters the confidence.
Every single advantage that I can think of relating to the size of my penis is directly related to that single pro. I get to feel cool about it. I don’t generally talk about it, but I know that it’s big and I get to hold that silly nugget of masculine value in my head forever.

Nonetheless, while I love the body I have, I have often wished that my penis was more of a normal size. Sure it’s fun to hear women gasp when they pull it out, but that gets old faster than you would think. On the other hand, it can be a blight on your sexual experience until you find the right person.

There are few feelings so crushing as the thought that you might not be able to bring anyone pleasure, and that pain might be a constant hallmark of your intimacy.

If any young men out there know what I am talking about, then you should know that you are okay. I know that it feels like you can’t talk to anyone about it, but know that you are not alone.

There’s a lot of incredible sex out there just waiting to be had, you just need to find a compatible partner.

Update: If you send me personal messages asking for measurements or pictures of my penis, your message will be ignored. I have said all that I intend to say about my size in this answer, and if that doesn’t satisfy you, then I am afraid that you’ll have to get over it.

I didn’t realize that this needed to be said but apparently it does.

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I'm 36, married with 3 kids, and Caucasian. I'm thinner than average, 6'1″, and have a penis that is slightly larger than 8″ erect (about 8.15″) and about 5.75″ in girth. Statistically speaking, I'm supposedly in the 98th percentile of penis size.

First, the pros:

Every sexual partner I've ever had has been impressed and fully satisfied with my size. Only 1 woman was 100% sure she'd had larger.

Women tend to become enamored with the size; it turns “good girls” into bad girls real quick. Many have be