You know.. It is natural for humans to be attracted to threats, as per our nature, we were made to survive by seeking out the threats, and ignoring what is normal as it does not need any attention.

When ever you worry about something, it is something that is out of the ordinary and something that poses change about how you go about regular tasks, like this : If you in a relationship, you will make sure it endures as to avoid heart break. Or if you are working a Job, you will seek to make sure your tasks are done properly as to avoid warning.

If you want to be noticed by people, it does not come about by making yourself a door mat for people to walk over, because you will be seen as normal, and be ignored, rather go about by being upfront about the situation, challenge it and embrace it, or if you are bothered by something or someone, confront them, this will pose you as different, and will trigger human nature to see weather you are a threat or not, causing you to be noticed and respected a lot more.

-Travis Shane Stolsie