Suggestions for RPG with private server

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My wife and I along with a couple of friends are looking for a RPG to play together, something we can host ourselves on a dedicated server. We tried Wurm for a bit, while it was good, we didn't have the time to dedicate to the game that it needs and also some of us found it didn't have enough excitement. Anyone have any suggestions? As long as it has dedicated server support. Thanks

[Spawn of Totoro]

Neverwinter one and two should be fine. My wife and I have always enjoyed those two.

Sadly, I think only the MMO is avilable on Steam. The older Neverwinter games are available on gog.com.

[OC!!:D:D:D]

That's a possibility, anything else? Every suggestion welcome. Even if it's not a 100% RPG.