Is kissing cheating?

[Lilly]

So, one of the girls I work with has a boyfriend, but she hangs out with and even kisses, like making out kinda kissing, this other girl from work. So to her it's not a thing, it's just a natural part of friendship, I guess? But I don't understand. If you're SO is making out with someone, regardless of gender, isn't it kinda cheaty? I mean, it seems to me like it is just because the girl is really trashy, so I feel bad for the boyfriend who has to kiss her after that.

[Fumo Bnnuy n Frends]

Originally posted by xAlphaStarOmegax:

Yes, it's considered cheating. There's also such a thing as an "emotional affair." You don't have to consummate to cheat; cheating can happen via a kiss, flirting, hugging, etc.

p much

unless the SO is okay with it (some people are bi i guess)

but even then it's still cheating.



If i go to a lake and fish in a no fishing spot. I catch fish but release them and do not take them home. Is it still violating the rule?

yes!

[Zeno]

Originally posted by Candyy:

Originally posted by 1NJ3CT:

Just because you dislike it, does not make it nonsense. This way of thinking is pretty small minded if you ask me.

No, I do not date at all. I am pretty sure my wife would have a problem with me dating someone.

So you are telling me that your wife did not have male friends then?
You said earlier that you did not date women who have male friends... I suppose you dated your wife right?

Every person had a friend of the opposite (after childhood or teen) at least once...

And yes, it is nonsense, just because you have a partner does not mean you cannot hang out with ppl of the opposite sex or have friends of opposite sex, that is just nonsense...

She had class-mates and her best female friend had male friends. But she never had direct male friends she would meet with alone. It was more a matter of them being around because of her friend. She has been raised in a Ukrainian orthodox family and she said she never needed that.

If you have a partner you can or can not hang out with the opposite sex, it depends from the couple. In most countries of the world this is usually not a thing and entirely a phenomena in western countries or westernized nations.

You can do whatever you want. In comparison to you I don't go around judging people who do not date exactly how I want them to, lol. If both are happy like this, then this is the way to go. My wife also does not want me to have female buddies, which I am perfectly fine with.

I also find it to be nonsense if a woman or man has friends of the opposite sex as psychologically there is no friendship between men and women, but mostly women don't want to believe or understand that. But again, I don't go around preaching my ways as this would be small minded and ignorant, such as the way you behave and act towards me.

It is not your decision how people date or what boundaries and rules they follow in a relationship. All I can say is that we are happily married now and have a child together and both don't remotely feel the need to befriend people of the opposite sex, its simply not a problem for us even if this is hard to believe for you.

It is a man or woman's own personal choice who they date and what criteria they have. Not yours and it is not your place to judge them either just because you live your life differently and can't comprehend that people have different criteria for being happy.