Ghosting?

[BuniBealla]

what do you think about ghosting?
do you consider it to be rude or are you unbothered by it?
how consistent are you when it comes to staying in contact with others?
uwu

[I'M NOT REAL]

I do it constantly, and most people are grateful for it.

[So I Herd U Lyke Hamkip]

An ex fiance of mine ghosted me for almost a month before coming back and going "I've fallen out of love with you."

So, I'm not a fan of it.

However, having seen what some of my women friends have to put up with in the dating scene. Ghosting does seem like a safer alternative, just due to how....wild some people are out there.

One friend of mine was basically cyberstalked and had almost daily threats against her life for MONTHS because she wouldn't hook up with a guy on Tinder. :/

[A Ghost, Eventually]

Well, I mean..I'm looking forward to it.

[Mina]

i tire and leave a lot

[JustSomeLego]

Originally posted by BuniBealla:

what do you think about ghosting?
do you consider it to be rude or are you unbothered by it?

I think it's fine most of the time. Sometimes you just don't have much to say.
Would it be nice to actually say so? Sure. But I don't blame people for wanting to get away from me a move on with their day

Originally posted by BuniBealla:

how consistent are you when it comes to staying in contact with others?
uwu

As consistent as I can be. I try to respond as soon as I get the opportunity to, but sometimes that just doesn't happen and I'm a bit late to doing so.

[DOOMGIRL69]

i am bad at it, but i don't do it purposefully

[Frenchie]

I would ghost someone happily for talking ♥♥♥♥ about someone I know and care about. Like one of my family members.

[ṼṏẌṏḭḊ]

You don't owe anybody anything and they don't owe you anything. If you/they want to go separate ways without warning then just do it.

[𝕊𝕠𝕝𝕚𝕕𝕦𝕤 𝕊𝕟𝕒𝕜𝕖]

I think it's cowardly. It means you aren't capable of facing your problems head on and are afraid of confrontation. I'd rather be blunt and explain myself or vice versa before I end a relationship instead of not giving or receiving closure.

[Electric Cupcake]

It hasn't been an issue since I got rid of the old early gen LED TV.

[Xero_Daxter]

When I win a billion dollars and the people who ghost me come flocking back.

Me: Oh. Now you wanna talk to me, huh?

[TGC> The Games Collector]

It rude.

Unless you're a ghost, then it's just normal weird.

[Pixie]

Do it to everyone all the time. Brain gets easily distracted and has no sense of time ^-^

[BuniBealla]

Originally posted by DOOMGIRL69:

i am bad at it, but i don't do it purposefully :bluerune::luv:

same, I try to tell people beforehand I take long to respond and sometimes I forget entirely uwu

[BuniBealla]

Originally posted by ℂ𝕪𝕡𝕙𝕖𝕣:

I think it's cowardly. It means you aren't capable of facing your problems head on and are afraid of confrontation. I'd rather be blunt and explain myself or vice versa before I end a relationship instead of not giving or receiving closure.

but what if life just got in the way? uwu