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nullpo Oct 18, 2024 @ 9:38pm
Do you think it's inappropriate to send work related email during weekend?
Recently I start working part time at school as English teaching assistant. One of the teacher asked me to basically check the student homework assignment. I finished grading the homework on Saturday and updated the teacher immediately via email. I thought this way I don't forget to give an update just in case he wants one, and if he doesn't want to touch his work email on weekend, it's also fine, by the time he open it on Monday it's already there. But then on Monday he basically reprimand me for bothering him during weekend.

I get the impression that email are not that urgent so you just send it whenever, the person who needs it can just open it when they want to unlike call which is urgent and intrusive, so I thought sending email is fine. So am I wrong?

PS: regardless I don't plan to send work related email to that person in particular anymore, just want you guys opinion on whether I should do it to others still.

tbh I just want topic other than US politics, or even politics in general.
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Othobrithol Oct 18, 2024 @ 9:44pm 
Is it maybe cultural?

In the US I've gotten in trouble for not responding to work email that was sent to me during scheduled time off.

Or it could just be an excuse to be cross with you. Some people are like that.
Fake Oct 18, 2024 @ 9:44pm 
Why are you reading emails at all?
Triple G Oct 18, 2024 @ 9:45pm 
It´s inappropriate to send work related email if You´re not being paid for it - which is usually the case if You have fixed work hours and work outside of them.

Else doing "voluntary work" is what´s wrong with the "work culture" - as it oppresses the ones who work for money and depend on it.

And for the receiver of the email it doesn´t matter. If i was the receiver i would look into the work related email on Monday, when i start work again - if the weekend is off.

If i had night shift on the weekends as a worker, and something is wrong, and the idea is that only certain people can decide anything - i would do a phonecall to my superiors at 3am - just for the fun and sake of it, for minor things.
vapechimp Oct 18, 2024 @ 9:48pm 
I will tell you this. You are overthinking, you are too scared and should be more relaxed and have more confidence in yourself. Cheeses how scared liberals are these days. You haven't done anything wrong. Stand your ground and not paranoic over sending an email to a student over the weekend.
Othobrithol Oct 18, 2024 @ 9:51pm 
Originally posted by nullpo:
tbh I just want topic other than US politics, or even politics in general.
I'm sorry you didn't get your wish :(
nullpo Oct 18, 2024 @ 9:54pm 
Originally posted by vapechimp:
I will tell you this. You are overthinking, you are too scared and should be more relaxed and have more confidence in yourself. Cheeses how scared liberals are these days. You haven't done anything wrong. Stand your ground and not paranoic over sending an email to a student over the weekend.
someone didn't read the spoiler.
and I send it to a co-worker, as in the teacher, telling him I'm done grading his students assignment.
vapechimp Oct 18, 2024 @ 9:57pm 
One time I was student. One subject I disliked in university is study German language. I told my teacher in the beginning - look I know this is mandatory but I do not like to learn the language and this is my choice, however I do like to learn the other core stuff in mu curriculum. So I told her I will not be coming anymore to your classes.

At the end of the semester she had to grade me, but I wouldn't show even for the exam. Completely uninterested of learning German. She said she has to grade me even for a low grade so I had to learn something simple in German. So at the end of the semester I went to her apartment to learn some German quickly so that I can pass with a low grade, as failure was unacceptable to continue to the next grade.
If I'm not on the clock, I'm not doing labor. If you want me to work overtime, pay me for it.
nullpo Oct 18, 2024 @ 10:37pm 
Originally posted by Defective Dopamine Pez Dispenser:
If I'm not on the clock, I'm not doing labor. If you want me to work overtime, pay me for it.
I'm the one working overtime tho. The recipient can read anytime. Like it's not urgent, hence sent via email.
Chaosolous Oct 18, 2024 @ 10:44pm 
As far as what happened with you and the other guy, it sounds like he has his email set to ping him if he gets one. At that point, that's his ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ problem. Tell him to turn his notifications off on the weekend if he doesn't want to be notified.

That's like yelling at the mailman because he dropped something off while you were having lunch. Like, MF, no one is forcing you to go check the mail.
DarkCrystalMethod Oct 19, 2024 @ 7:26am 
You could have sent a text or called to disturb them immediately.
Email is a queue that sits until their machine asks if there are new messages. Its on them if their mail client makes a large disturbing noise when it gets a new message. Ask them what their preferred contact method is and stick to it... without being maliciously compliant(my new favorite word).
Originally posted by nullpo:
Recently I start working part time at school as English teaching assistant. One of the teacher asked me to ... I finished ... and updated the teacher immediately via email. ... But then on Monday he basically reprimand me ...
Find a new job where you don't have an abusive employer, imo.

If he can't manage his e-mail well enough to either just not check it or only bother with stuff marked "HIGH PRIORITY" then he's the one with the problem. Unfortunately, he's making it your problem and everyone else's problem too, and by continuing to support him for even one more day, you're enabling this abusive behavior.

Originally posted by nullpo:
... I get the impression that email are not that urgent so you just send it whenever, the person who needs it can just open it when they want to unlike call which is urgent and intrusive, so I thought sending email is fine. So am I wrong? ...
Even a phone call shouldn't be disruptive if someone is busy because "do not disturb" exists, but different people handle their systems differently, admittedly, and some are lazy-scum who can't be bothered to configure their notification settings properly, then lash out at everyone else for their own ineptitude.

Your reasoning on this is sound, but people will have differences in how they operate.
How far you're willing to tolerate those differences is up to you.
I wouldn't tolerate this garbage, though.

Especially since he doesn't tolerate anyone else.
Intolerance should be shown a mirror.

Originally posted by nullpo:
... PS: regardless I don't plan to send work related email to that person in particular anymore, just want you guys opinion on whether I should do it to others still. ...

I would NEVER send him one again. If I didn't leave the job immediately, all checked homework assignments will from that point on be printed off of the printer / copy-machine, marked with an actual red pen, and then placed on his desk during work hours.
EVERY - SINGLE - ONE.

As for other people who aren't complete pieces of garbage - ask them if they'd rather have it e-mailed to them or printed, that way you can't be legitimately accused of treating him differently because you can cite that you gave everyone the option and he got mad about e-mails so you switched to print for him and that everyone else has the option of print too, but none of them complained about e-mails.
Last edited by Kiddiec͕̤̱͋̿͑͠at 🃏; Oct 19, 2024 @ 8:50am
Quillithe Oct 19, 2024 @ 8:27am 
I can't imagine why it would bother anyone.

You can also just schedule sends early Monday morning though
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