Having celebrity crushes and obsessing over them during a relationship is disgusting.

[kbm demon.♡]

This is emotional cheating and is disrespectful to either partner.
Learning someone has a crush on a celebrity during the relationship is an immediate turn off, no matter how much I love them.

[Dr. Weird]

Dude, chill out and eat a burger.

[Holding These Alligators Down]

For real?
A rational person would know that their partner is never going to meet that celeb so they have nothing to worry about.
100% you have some famous people you are attracted to.
Live in the real world.

[kbm demon.♡]

Holding These Alligators Down a écrit :

For real?
A rational person would know that their partner is never going to meet that celeb so they have nothing to worry about.
100% you have some famous people you are attracted to.
Live in the real world.

Wrong, it's not about not being able to meet the celebrity, it's the fact the person is showing interest in and obsessing over another person, no matter who it is, hence emotional cheating.
Point numero dos, no I don't relate to being attracted to another famous person, never have.
I can admit when someone has nice features and nothing more. I don't think neither do I fantasize over famous people, I don't know them, neither would I care to begin when with a significant other.

[Holding These Alligators Down]

mentally ill. a écrit :

Holding These Alligators Down a écrit :

For real?
A rational person would know that their partner is never going to meet that celeb so they have nothing to worry about.
100% you have some famous people you are attracted to.
Live in the real world.

Wrong, it's not about not being able to meet the celebrity, it's the fact the person is showing interest in and obsessing over another person, no matter who it is, hence emotional cheating.
Point numero dos, no I don't relate to being attracted to another famous person, never have.
I can admit when someone has nice features and nothing more. I don't think neither do I fantasize over famous people, I don't know them, neither would I care to begin when with a significant other.

Chill lol.

[Abaddon the Despoiler]

You sound needy and emotionally unstable.

[xDDD]

Holding These Alligators Down a écrit :

For real?
A rational person would know that their partner is never going to meet that celeb so they have nothing to worry about.
100% you have some famous people you are attracted to.
Live in the real world.

Obviously they won't, but it's incredibly disrespectful to have a "celebrity crush" and gush about them too much.

There's a pretty big difference between

• Loving one particular celebrity, having poster(s) of him/her, going to meet & greets for that celebrity, obessively following their social media, etc

and

• Oh that celebrity is pretty hot and I like their work

[Rio]

When in a relationship, but you think more about drawings than your partner

The drawings just look better, love.

[xDDD]

Velo a écrit :

When in a relationship, but you think more about drawings than your partner :QBaeNervous:

The drawings just look better, love. :susuface2:

I think drawings are different.
No wife is going to keep me from my waifu

[续言]

suuwy

[miakisfan]

mentally ill. a écrit :

This is emotional cheating and is disrespectful to either partner.
Learning someone has a crush on a celebrity during the relationship is an immediate turn off, no matter how much I love them.

There are female celebrities I do find attractive but I don't waste my time obsessing over them. I am likely the last person in the world they'd be interested in AND I guarantee you most of them would like me even less knowing I'm not a Liberal anymore.

If anything, that makes me better than them in at least one way.

[BuniBealla]

I will forever simp for Evan Peters
alot of my celebrity crushes are long dead anyways
he's just going to have to live with it uwu

[Acetyl]

I do a lot of numerology, gematria, symbolism, etc. So occasionally I will fixate on particular concepts, places, or people that match a certain signature (you can just tell), including celebrities. People mistake this for something else because they have not experienced "fuzzy logic" taking place in atemporal "hypersymbolic" spaces. The last time I did this I reluctantly established a telepathic link. Things will just start lining up or popping up in your mind, it's a strictly passive process. A few days later she appeared in a dream, except there were two of her. They said "You want to be me". She wasn't wrong either, what she did is what I ought to have done, as though my life was divided at a certain point and I went down the decay chain pathway, and then it manifested the proper course through someone else. Weird stuff, hadn't had anyone appear with a message in a dream for some time. Didn't seem like a dream character either. Sometimes that's just what you need to do. What is any of this for if people don't even bother to assess what catches their attention and why, or learn anything from it? It's all just to reveal you to you.

[Kestrel]

Depends on the specific boundaries of the relationship, but in general I agree (I'm guessing you mean the weird and intense kind of obsession that's just genuinely discomforting to witness).

I think there's a lot of weird, cheating-or-borderline-cheating stuff that's normalized in relationships now because they've become so common in general, and it makes you a "puritan" to disagree according to the "sex positivity" movement. Like in your example, people obsessing over celebrities and other famous people. Or watching porn. Or "opening up" the relationship. 98% of the time, the person allowing all of this is just compromising and isn't actually okay with it, dooming the relationship to failure as resentment and discomfort builds.

[Ganger]

Any future partners of mine doesn't need to worry about me fancying taylor swift. Because lets be real, no billionaire young good looking women will ever go out with a ageing guy who is starting to develope man boobs who is at the bottom of the social ladder with hardly any money.

[90054321564584560]

did someone cuck you for a better and more competent person lol?