Statistically, as a man, is it worth it to get in a serious relationship with a woman?

[Tazor]

70% of divorces are started by women. 90% among college educated women.

Couples have intimate relations on average once a week. Only 5% of couples have intimate relations 4 or more times a week.

Most young men are currently single. Most young women are not. This is because women in general don't wan't to "marry down". They want to "marry up". As in they seek older richer men.

Despite the previous statistics, women are more likely to own an adult toy than men.

https://www.ejj-law.com/why-do-women-initiate-divorce-more-often-than-men/

https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-young-men-are-single-most-young-women-are-not/

For the other 2 statistics, I can't post NSFW content.

[Violeta]

I turned to liking guys. It was the only way to get a fair shot in this corrupt system.

And it benefits the Elites anyway, since it helps with that whole lower the earth population.

Did I want to marry a guy? No. But logically speaking does it make the most sense? Yes, I believe.

But theres a lot I don't like about it. But thats life.

[strandd505]

I can see nowadays how these girls & their craziness, could drive a man away from them, turn them on the other team but thats EXTREEMMEE!!

[Tito Shivan]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Tazor:

70% of divorces are started by women. 90% among college educated women.

This is one example of how to use statistics wrong.

It's not about the who. The real meat is on the why.
https://www.ejj-law.com/why-do-women-initiate-divorce-more-often-than-men/

And about the why:
- "Nowadays, women are earning money at high rates. In some cases, they are the breadwinners, outearning their husbands."
Translation: Nowadays women are no longer financially tied to their husbands, which in times made divorces a no-go for women with no assets, work experience or financial backup.
TLDR: They no longer have to be tied to a man until death or face poverty.
(Here's where the percentage related to education level plays its role. The higher the education level the more chances of a having work and being finantially independent from their husbands)

- "There is also a mismatch when it comes to caregiving"
Interesting statistic: Men are six times more likely to divorce their spouse in the event of a serious medical illness.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19645027/
And since by point 1 they're financially independent they can drop out of a relationship where the other half doesn't want to take their part of the responsibility.
TLDR: They no longer need to stay with a man who didn't want a wife, but a full time maid.

-"It’s not uncommon for them to go from romantic to controlling and even abusive. In the past, women would put up with this behavior because they relied on their husbands for survival. This is no longer the case for the modern woman."
This part pretty much explains themselves. TLDR: They no longer have to bear living with an abusive partner.

"Many women often have to do everything in a relationship. While the man may work, the woman often has to balance a job, children, housework, and everything else. It becomes exhausting, with many women happier on their own."
TLDR: They no longer are obligued to live forever with a person who doesn't take their share of responsibility in a relationship.

So the TLDR of all this can be summed up with: Women start divorces more often than men because they no longer have to deal with those men's crap as their grandmothers had to.

So the answer to your question: "is it worth it to get in a serious relationship with a woman?"
is another question: "Are you willing to do your part of the job to keep the relationship going?"

Or to flip the coin: Statistically, as woman, do men play their part and share responsibilities and obligations in keeping a marriage healthy and running?

[76561199540158642]

Gokushufudou ( The way of the househusband)

today its about being happy, if you like to be alone and don't need anyone don't get in a relationship, if you need or want to spend your time with someone and develop a bound of love and friendship, then go for it.

women and men are just as likely to be afraid to develop real feelings or commit it really comes down to a roll of the dice, and finding someone you are compatible with.

If you feel unsure it simply means you haven't found the right person, when you do find them and they find you it will be magic , don't over think it just live your best life and be happy.

[TGC> The Games Collector]

Yes

[Tr3m0r]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Tito Shivan:

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Tazor:

70% of divorces are started by women. 90% among college educated women.

This is one example of how to use statistics wrong.

It's not about the who. The real meat is on the why.
https://www.ejj-law.com/why-do-women-initiate-divorce-more-often-than-men/

And about the why:
- "Nowadays, women are earning money at high rates. In some cases, they are the breadwinners, outearning their husbands."
Translation: Nowadays women are no longer financially tied to their husbands, which in times made divorces a no-go for women with no assets, work experience or financial backup.
TLDR: They no longer have to be tied to a man until death or face poverty.
(Here's where the percentage related to education level plays its role. The higher the education level the more chances of a having work and being finantially independent from their husbands)

- "There is also a mismatch when it comes to caregiving"
Interesting statistic: Men are six times more likely to divorce their spouse in the event of a serious medical illness.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19645027/
And since by point 1 they're financially independent they can drop out of a relationship where the other half doesn't want to take their part of the responsibility.
TLDR: They no longer need to stay with a man who didn't want a wife, but a full time maid.

-"It’s not uncommon for them to go from romantic to controlling and even abusive. In the past, women would put up with this behavior because they relied on their husbands for survival. This is no longer the case for the modern woman."
This part pretty much explains themselves. TLDR: They no longer have to bear living with an abusive partner.

"Many women often have to do everything in a relationship. While the man may work, the woman often has to balance a job, children, housework, and everything else. It becomes exhausting, with many women happier on their own."
TLDR: They no longer are obligued to live forever with a person who doesn't take their share of responsibility in a relationship.

So the TLDR of all this can be summed up with: Women start divorces more often than men because they no longer have to deal with those men's crap as their grandmothers had to.

So the answer to your question: "is it worth it to get in a serious relationship with a woman?"
is another question: "Are you willing to do your part of the job to keep the relationship going?"

Or to flip the coin: Statistically, as woman, do men play their part and share responsibilities and obligations in keeping a marriage healthy and running?

There’s truth to what you are saying but it’s still a narrative being spun. Yes women are making more money is a huge reason for the initiation of divorce. But does that mean they don’t have to “deal with men’s crap?” Maybe maybe not. A missing consideration is so women are staying with men only out of financial motivations? Yes. But there is healthy and unhealthy motivations of that. There are women who are motivated to financially use men and “trade up” just as there are men who “trade up” women.

It’s the principles that matter and there is a real decline in community engagement and family values in the US. It’s all been politicized sadly to represent a bad patriarchal narrative that is only oppressive and negative. Yet it’s making relationships rarer, women and men more depressed and lonely, and creating a society of people that will not marry or have kids. My guess is many of the ones that do have kids will be less equipped with the resilience and empathy required to love their families more than themselves compared to other generations. It’s gonna be a bigger problem down the road than imagined in my opinion.

[Violeta]

Its not the win you think it is. It means that girls should be held back career wise for the sake of marriage. Because if girls divorce because they make as much or more than their husbands, them making that is a negative to society.

Unless the work they do is more valuable. And if that was true. Why does dei include them?

[Vox]

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Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από GunsForBucks:

If you marry for love and trust then you shouldn't worry about it.

With the economic squeeze on the economy it twists peoples values into profit and gain out of need. At that point children just become potential victims as modern society has clearly shown us.

Saw a story about a guy who got dumped by his wife but she didn't take the kid. He worked his ass off to provide for the kid on his own for about 1 year. She didn't pay child support. She then got herself a new rich boyfriend and came back to ask for the kid. She obviously won cos good expensive lawyer.

Source: Trust me bro

[Doomerang]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Bunni Bealla:

If this is not an april fools and if you're seriously asking this question online, especially in a gaming forum of all places, you're already lost and you should stay away from us uwu

Don’t want you anyways if you can’t provide any reason and just do emotional responses to logic. You aren’t the main character

[[ T h e B o s s ]]

Αναρτήθηκε αρχικά από Tazor:

Statistically, as a man, is it worth it to get in a serious relationship with a woman?

It's only worth it if it's fulfilling for both parties. That's what equality used to mean until some people tried changing the definition.

If you're both happy, it's fine. Not exactly rocket science.

[Skade]

Such a long post just to say you are gay

[Bernard The Gurnard]

Brrrrpppppp. Good arse

[AlienTestosterone]

Not to a liberal female.

[Pixie]

Well yh if you're just relying on RNG based on divorce statistics. But you're gonna put more thought into it than that right?

[Swarmfly]

If ever granted the opportunity to be paired with a like-minded woman, however idealistic it would be, absolutely yes.