What does it mean when a girl says you're too "nice?"

[Azami]

So I somewhat fancy this classmate of mine but she said I was "too nice." Not exactly sure what she means because she doesn't really know me nor have we even spoke to each other. I later found out that she was kinda crazy so luckily I didn't proceed any further interaction with her but I'm still confused what she meant that I am "too nice."

[DataLine]

Diposting pertama kali oleh Azami Faith:

Diposting pertama kali oleh DataLine:

It means they are not atracted to you and most likely you are acting like an oofy-doofy

Man... I've seen girls get attracted to those kinds of guys and I can never understand how those guys do it.

It's not real attraction. Usually is purely transactional.

[Azami]

Diposting pertama kali oleh Nekoborg:

Diposting pertama kali oleh Azami Faith:

How do I become "not-so-nice."

By doing something that has a high chance it will backfire.

At risk is the relationship, your freedom, your property, your health (if she has "white knights" willing to champion her), and any children that can be taken from you (the courts side with the mothers and force the father to cough up the money she needs to raise the brats which she will teach to ...... )

Safest is not to do anything you have less experience with than the Bad Boy Mega Chads she secretly dates. Just be yourself and enjoy it while it lasts.

Done that and honestly I don’t think it’s working

[TGC> The Games Collector]

Diposting pertama kali oleh Azami Faith:

Diposting pertama kali oleh Nebsun:

It means she sees you as being weak - she wants a strong partner who can stand up for themself (and therefore will stand up and fight for her as well)

How do I become "not-so-nice."

Become old and cranky.
It basically happens by itself. lol

[Basarab Laiota]

some women want a guy who will belittle them and put them in their place

[Out Of Bubblegum]

She wanted to say something that would not hurt your feelings. But she has no interest at all.

[dobrowol]

She's probably into "bad" guys who treat her unfairly.

[steven1mac]

Diposting pertama kali oleh dobrowol:

She's probably into "bad" guys who treat her unfairly.

Bad boys gives them the excitement they like, even if burns them in the end, they don't care because they want to live in the moment. Nice guys are boring and predictable, so get passed up.

[Piston Smashed™]

She's trying to be as polite as possible and let you down easy but what she really means is she's just not interested. You could always give her a backhand and say is that nice enough and see how it goes but my first instinct would be she's not interested.

[GunsForBucks]

It means she finds you unattractive but if you give her a new car she will go out with you.

[Suffy]

Why would anyone dislike nice guys? I would die for one caring, empathic nice guy to be around with. If I was a girl and was on her side I would give it a go, like friends at the start and then after time prospect with romance relationship? Don't know.

[DataLine]

Diposting pertama kali oleh Jovify:

Why would anyone dislike nice guys? I would die for one caring, empathic nice guy to be around with

Yeah but you left the attraction part out. You are thinking about a super atractive guy that is caring empathic etc. The majority of guys are invisible for 90% of woman. And those super atractive guys will not give you the time of your life. Because they have easy access to girls usually they will find the majority of girls dull or boring, and thus not be able to be so "nice", empathic, caring etc. You lose control over the relationship. And that's usually one of the reasons woman go for those "nice man" or oofy-doofys that are less attractive, because they feel they have more control over the relationship.

[Heitor Villa-Lobos]

Diposting pertama kali oleh Medified:

Diposting pertama kali oleh Mr. Smiles:

She's into guys with face tattoos.

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[Messy]

Not to be blunt, but that means she probably doesn't find you physically attractive enough.

[Chalupacabaras]

Diposting pertama kali oleh Azami Faith:

So I somewhat fancy this classmate of mine but she said I was "too nice." Not exactly sure what she means because she doesn't really know me nor have we even spoke to each other. I later found out that she was kinda crazy so luckily I didn't proceed any further interaction with her but I'm still confused what she meant that I am "too nice."

It's a compliment to your character. She might be crazy, but she ain't stupid when it comes to choosing her next abusive ex-boyfriend... which won't be you.

[Apollo702]

There are a million variations on it- and they all translate into they view the guy as low T and unattractive.

A guy could even be "nice" and she could be into him. It may or may not have one thing to do with niceness.

The bottom line is the code for no attraction.