can u control ur lust?

[WarHeRo]

if so how?

["AK-47's, for everyone!"]

I think you need to find other more meaningful means of stimulation (in the greater sense).

[Morkonan]

Postat inițial de Xero_Daxter:

Like I said before… I’ve seen everything (that is legal of course) to the point where nothing stimulates me.

Porn and sex aren't the same thing.

Porn addiction is often accompanied by desensitization, much like "tolerance" is developed by addicts. Though not the same, the effect can be similar - The addict seeks ever more powerful stimuli. The "cure" can be similar - Stop using it. If that seems impossible or if one can not become aroused without it, then that may be a good time to seek out some therapy.

[always superspecial]

I wish I have I lost it in some point of my life, I wonder what was that.

[Enigmatic]

My first time being exposed to something porn like was my dad bringing me back stripper cards from vegas. Then the other time was actually youtube,
I wasn't looking for it, it was exposed to me. Vegas is like a virus that is sodom.
This is something in reality should be taught to kids as stopping exposure these days would be almost impossible.

[Kapitein Gnapmans]

Postat inițial de Morkonan:

Stop using it.

Terrible advice, it's obvious that it's time for him to move on to the illegal stuff ;)

[crunchyfrog]

Postat inițial de lankaras:

Try and find out. There's lots of people who (try to) do this, NoFap for example or spiritual paths. It can in theory be done, but it's not easy. You'll need to do other stuff to keep sane, like workout for example, maybe avoid triggers, stuff like that. So it becomes quite a big thing with lots of changes you have to make and have to keep doing.

I would NEVER recommend things like spirituality as it's utter nonsense and doesn't fix anything. It only obfuscates at best and is sold on a lie.

Far better to treat the cause with actual scientific recognised help.

[Apteryx]

Just imagine you're the only person on earth. No one else has a lasting effect on your life so what's the point of caring about them

[Manuel]

It's not easy Idk i hope it gets bit better when getting older (I'm 18 since a few weeks)

I bet it also is influenced by some supplements i take (or have taken in the past)

[crunchyfrog]

Postat inițial de Manuel:

It's not easy Idk i hope it gets bit better when getting older (I'm 18 since a few weeks)

I bet it also is influenced by some supplements i take (or have taken in the past)

It does get easier as you get older, not just because of things like your hormones sorting themselves out, but you mature too mentally.