Do sizes matter in relationships?

[WarHeRo]

Do you have any size expectations before dating someone? Would you be disappointed if you find out it's not the size you expected?

[Morkonan]

WarHeRo a écrit :

Do you have any size expectations before dating someone? Would you be disappointed if you find out it's not the size you expected?

If you're dating them for those expected things, there's some judgement calls you need to make about yourself and what you value.

Discounting certain extremes, because a healthy relationship should be healthy in all respects, size doesn't necessarily matter - It's not something you can quantify so easily. There is more to value in all aspects of relationships than just one uncontrolled and unalterable constant. Even if there are deficiencies there, other aspects can make the impact minimal.

Though, and dodging around some certain subjects... if a certain size is of particular interest, resulting in increased relationship engagement in certain aspects, then partners are usually more likely to put up with other deficiencies.

PS: In a purely physical sort of relationship, this isn't really an issue. If the participants are not having their expectations met, they will no longer be joint participants.

[WarHeRo]

Morkonan a écrit :

WarHeRo a écrit :

Do you have any size expectations before dating someone? Would you be disappointed if you find out it's not the size you expected?

If you're dating them for those expected things, there's some judgement calls you need to make about yourself and what you value.

Discounting certain extremes, because a healthy relationship should be healthy in all respects, size doesn't necessarily matter - It's not something you can quantify so easily. There is more to value in all aspects of relationships than just one uncontrolled and unalterable constant. Even if there are deficiencies there, other aspects can make the impact minimal.

Though, and dodging around some certain subjects... if a certain size is of particular interest, resulting in increased relationship engagement in certain aspects, then partners are usually more likely to put up with other deficiencies.

PS: In a purely physical sort of relationship, this isn't really an issue. If the participants are not having their expectations met, they will no longer be joint participants.

i came to notice, I am too confused to identify what i value anymore. i purely try to get distracted

[HermitTheToad]

Bunni Bealla a écrit :

over 7ft and 7 inches uwu

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k72iEHklX74

[Xero_Daxter]

When he says his size is 10
….
….
centimeters.

[TGC> The Games Collector]

I suppose I'd be a little disappointed if the girl has a bigger one than me...

[Pixie]

Wallet size, hell yeah XD

[sleeps]

Either way, thighs

[Morkonan]

WarHeRo a écrit :

..
i came to notice, I am too confused to identify what i value anymore. i purely try to get distracted

Don't put undeserved pressure on yourself.

Important things are important. But, this "values" determination isn't one of them right now if you're having issues with it.

Instead, focus on what you feel about what you engage with. Keep the idea of categorizing your "values" in the background, for now, and look at the things that you know are "good" and that are beneficial or, when appropriate, you respond positively to. Identify the things that you don't feel good about or realize are harmful to you, too, and how you feel about that.

Ultimately, this is the basic sort of foundation for your "values." But, you don't need to lump all that into one category right now, you just need to acknowledge them and learn to identify when you are responding positively for the right reasons.

Later, once you've relaxed a bit, you can take a closer look and decide what things you've experienced that you value as positive and, in turn, identify whether or not they are beneficial or whether or not they're harmful. If the latter, now that you've identified those feelings or behaviors, you can then move to change those things specifically for the better.

Moral, ethical, societal, legal... you'll use those standards to modify and judge what you actually value, but you can't do that until you identify what you know is significant in your life.

Just my two coppers on the topic, not knowing any more than what is written. :)

[DoomsDay]

something matters, I hear partner saying this doesn't matter that doesn't matter, then I understand that he or she doesn't matter.

what matters for me, is that people is going to facilitate my cause here.

during the thousands of years you have made something out of this mud, but I have a special favor I need you to do.

[HermitTheToad]

Xero_Daxter a écrit :

When he says his size is 10
….
….
centimeters.

still to big

[videogames10]

WarHeRo a écrit :

Do sizes matter in relationships?

I find it difficult to maneuver around a crowded dance floor with a large woman, so I typically suggest a glass of wine and hors d'oeuvres instead. We really didn't want to dance anyway.

[Rio]

I expect a reasonable height, Its not fun if he can't reach your neck or anything,

[AdahnGorion]

It matters a lot.
I make sure to meassure all fingers of the person I am dating

[Pierce Dalton]

Yes, I'm not too demanding but anything below a certain point is... not fun to play with.

[Not Big Surprise]

are you talking about the sizes i think you're talking about?