Dating is not fun. . .

[MEGA MAN]

and women are not kind to be around?

[crunchyfrog]

Ursprungligen skrivet av happy-:

it isnt fun when you have to pay for everything, 50-50 is fun

Treat that as part of your equation whether you're going to date them again.

I've said it a million times, but I'm not attractive, I'm short and yet I never wanted for a girlfriend, because I learned those ideas of height, wealth, attractiveness are either untrue to most or resorting in the most fickle of people you attract.

What I do have is sense of humour and some basic empathy. That goes a long way. Maybe personality too.

I never had a situation where I had to pay for everything. I either made it clear it's 50-50 up front or we do other things that don't really require much money. If I was wanting to take my girlfreidn to somewhere that was more in my interests and not hers, as a matter of etiquette, I'd pay for it, obviously.

If you're going to get situations where someone insists on paying for everything then maybe you shouldn't be dating those people anyway.

[crunchyfrog]

Ursprungligen skrivet av Angel:

I really love dating to be honest; the best is internationally as it's a new world to explore (yet the rules remain almost the same). If you are initialising/hosting the date, just make it interesting and fun.

My only advice is to never or at least be cautious when you get dating advice from single people or those in an unhappy relationship. I see guys do this a lot; they make the worst wingman that just drags others down. It's like taking financial advice from someone with no money or fitness advice from someone unfit.

Amen to this.

It's not good to bring a wingman or another to salve anyone's insecurities. Not unless the other person has other people they've brought too.

Far better to be open and honest and don't try to hold stuff back, or lie either.

[Enigmatic]

Why does every date need to cost money? I remember one of my first dates we watched a movie in the park and had a picnic.

[crunchyfrog]

Ursprungligen skrivet av εnigmatic:

Why does every date need to cost money? I remember one of my first dates we watched a movie in the park and had a picnic.

Exactly.

It does show a lack of imagination frankly.

I've often gone about where I live, Lincolnshire being a boring place with nothing going on. It caused some issues with trying to work out what to do on date nights. It either meant travel to a city like Peterborough, or trying something a bit different.

So, I'd choose things like making up picnics and go down the marshes, or go to a nature reserve. If you still want to spend money you can still do things cheaply. You don't need to flash wealth around.

I used to love going to Peterborough and bowl. As I sometimes worked late, the bowling alley there used to have a late night thing where it was cheaper and you could stay for ages. It was great.

[MEGA MAN]

hahaha watch and learn, what a chad :) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7JcUatSfumE

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

The juice isn't worth the squeeze. Let's face it, dating/marriage is mostly a woman's game today. The women get majority of the attention on dating apps and in real life. Getting casual sex as a woman is insanely easy compared to men. Even Chad doesn't get as many matches as an equally attractive woman on Tinder. The entitlement of these modern women to just expect men to ask them out all the time (chase) or pay for the first dates is stupid. Feminists are okay with everything else changing except traditional gender roles and double standards because it benefits them. Focus on bettering yourself and life, and women will chase you. If a woman likes you enough, they'll find a way to let you know one way or the other. Also, just a reminder that women usually initiate divorces first and benefit more than men.

[AerSilver ♞]

Ursprungligen skrivet av Japanese_Uzi:

I want too date a girl soon

I hope this guy found a girl to date by now