Where can i ask advices about my distance relationship?

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I met online a girl, in this year and she hit on me, we are together now, but she is behaving strange since summer.
I love her very much, but i am concerned, insecure and worried, i have no idea what to do about this ultra-complicated girl, no idea where to ask, if it is worth it or not, for me, to move there with her, or to just jump from somewhere and end it, i am still deciding between these 2 options and i am afraid about being cheated on by her, i would jump from her town if that'll be the case.

Obviously, girls are the ones that offer the best answers, i am a boy and i have my share of answers, but since i am madly in love with her so don't worry, i won't try the tiniest bit to flirt with another girl, no matter if is a group chat or private or even here, on this forum.

I am in desperate need for help, if anyone can guide me to understand girls better, please.

[𝕎𝔸𝕃𝕋𝔼ℝ]

Yahoo answers

[Voss]

anyone that have siri? would live to hear what she has to say.

[Psychlapse]

Hate me if you have to, OP. From the little I've read here, this is either fake af, or you are blatantly too immature and/or emotionally unstable for a relationship anyway. This "I don't like to live anyway" and "just jump somewhere and end it" emo crap screams of someone who needs to grow up.

What you have here, OP is someone who is milking you for free stuff. Wise up, grow up, cut this leech off from her free game supply, go outside and find a real girl with who you can have a relationship as equals.

[76561198332843115]

Originally posted by Miss Ann Thrope:

Originally posted by Platinum H:

i mean, she does really deserve a reward, from time to time

Why? A reward for what?

a reward for being caring with me sometimes, for achieving something good in her life, i gift her some steam wallet and games, for 5-10 euros, sometimes
no idea why some ppls take this thing as being weird, i gift to some of my friends as well games, whenever i have 5-10 euros more on me, to spend.

[76561198332843115]

Originally posted by Psychlapse:

Hate me if you have to, OP. From the little I've read here, this is either fake af, or you are blatantly too immature and/or emotionally unstable for a relationship anyway. This "I don't like to live anyway" and "just jump somewhere and end it" emo crap screams of someone who needs to grow up.

What you have here, OP is someone who is milking you for free stuff. Wise up, grow up, cut this leech off from her free game supply, go outside and find a real girl with who you can have a relationship as equals.

dude, i was just asking here in this forum, where can i find a site or ppls, to ask for relationship advices

did i do something to offend you?
sorry if i offended anyone with my question.

[🐰D.VA🐰]

Originally posted by Platinum H:

Originally posted by Psychlapse:

Hate me if you have to, OP. From the little I've read here, this is either fake af, or you are blatantly too immature and/or emotionally unstable for a relationship anyway. This "I don't like to live anyway" and "just jump somewhere and end it" emo crap screams of someone who needs to grow up.

What you have here, OP is someone who is milking you for free stuff. Wise up, grow up, cut this leech off from her free game supply, go outside and find a real girl with who you can have a relationship as equals.

dude, i was just asking here in this forum, where can i find a site or ppls, to ask for relationship advices

did i do something to offend you?
sorry if i offended anyone with my question.

I think you does not offend anyone here. To be fair, i think op have the right to decide how he spend his money.

[🐰D.VA🐰]

Originally posted by jesteringjahollycat:

Understanding girls is easy. Start by turning off the computer.

I don't think so

[76561198332843115]

Originally posted by Brother Bedlam:

If you haven't met her in RL yet then il quote this old gaming term MMORPG - mostly men online roleplaying girls, you have to be certain who they say they are.

Honestly from what you have mentioned OP there is a lot of red flags in what you have said. If you are that worried and feeling insecure about the distance thing, find a local girl.
A good working relationship shouldn't be stressful and wont happen if one of you is harbouring doubts, whether it be you or her.

I would stay put work on yourself and the insecurity, if you move there and she splits with you, wherever it is, you will be devastated and alone in a unfamiliar town having gave up everything to move - not a good position to be in.

Don't do it. Stay put.

this is the reason i am looking for a place where i can ask advices from ppls how to handle this thing.

[zaibatsu]

Originally posted by Platinum H:

this is the reason i am looking for a place where i can ask advices from ppls how to handle this thing.

reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/ i guess?

[Ramonkey]

Ask your dad

[76561198332843115]

Originally posted by zaibatsu:

Originally posted by Platinum H:

this is the reason i am looking for a place where i can ask advices from ppls how to handle this thing.

{LINK REMOVED}reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/ i guess?

last time i asked a question or 2, about some stuff in some games, on reddit, i barely got 2-3 invalid answers, totally unrelatable to the question, few days later, i found the solution by myself about my problem, but i forgot about it xD
Thank you very much, i will try my luck there.

[Sir Dookface McFerretballs]

Nah man...

Go for it!

Sure, 99% of online or long distance relationships end in failure within the first 1-3 years.

But you gotta learn your lesson somehow, and people rarely take the very advice they ask for.

So live and learn.

[An Irate Capybara]

Have you not been caring? Where's your reward?

Don't spend money on "girlfriends" you've never met.

[76561198332843115]

Originally posted by An Irate Capybara:

Have you not been caring? Where's your reward?

Don't spend money on "girlfriends" you've never met.

Well..she can draw, she draws for me, i mean, she draws the 2 of us, together, she is (kinda rare lately) affective with me, she is nice to me whenever i do as she says, most of the time and some more, but in the first 2 months, it was the best of our relation, now she's weird

[Castyles]

Long distance relationships rarely work since pretty much all of them are a scam of some sort. That's reality. Not negative talk. Learn the difference.

If it's really a girl, which is doubtful, then she's more than likely bored about you. And is probably ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ another guy.

Let's be real. She probably was ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ someone even when both of you were "engaged".

Better luck next time and always go for the flesh and bone instead of keeping things on the net.