Unfriended By Best Friend

[dog in øven]

So there was this guy, I met him on ROBLOX in 2012. We've been friends for 4 years. But 2-3 days ago (for you, it depends on what the date is), he suddenly unfriended me. At first, I didn't know why, so I asked my friends to talk to him. When my friend asked, he told me the response. "The guy" (i guess let's just call him that) said that he unfriended me just because I was "a ♥♥♥♥♥♥." I was really confused and mad at that moment. He was my best friend for 4 years, more special than anyone else I know. But then, he just unfriends me like that. Also, I'm not ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥, of course. Why would he call me that? If you're going to ask me in the comments what I did to him, I did nothing to him. I apologized for what I did wrong even though I did notihng wrong, but then the only responses I get were "♥♥♥♥ you ♥♥♥♥♥♥, ♥♥♥♥ you ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥." What should I do, now that he's gone?

NOTE: He unfriended me on Skype, ROBLOX, and Steam. He will ignore me on every social media website I know. I'm not used to living without my best friend.

EDIT: Turns out, this was a ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ prank. He waited a week just to tell me the ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ truth. But if this was real, now I knew what to do. Photo of chat: http://prntscr.com/d3wvwx

[Kamiyé]

Yikes. I'd say give it a little time, give him time to cool down, and then try to talk to him again.
If nothing else, you'll just have to move on I guess.

[B l u e b e r r y P o p t a r t]

Sorry to hear that, if you really did nothing then you can keep trying to get ahold of him from mutaul friends. But I'd try to move on then. I'm sure you'll make more friends online that play games with you.

[Azza ☠]

Only you know your actions.

If you honestly didn't do something, then someone else might be impersonating you, trojan virus which spews out faked messages to infect your friends list, or someone trolling upon your account. It's rare, but a possiblility. Someone just slandering your repulation. Just ensure your account is secure and pc is clean for safety sake.

However, if you did do something, then just come clean and honest about it. Get it off your chest at least.

Either way, attempt contacting a friend of the friend, if possible. Ask them nicely just to relay your messages. Either to give you a solid reason which is justified or try to patch it up between you two.

You also might want to give a little time for him to cool down.

[dog in øven]

Originally posted by Coda:

Yikes. I'd say give it a little time, give him time to cool down, and then try to talk to him again.
If nothing else, you'll just have to move on I guess.

But then when I talk to him, he'll just ignore me. Also, it's impossible to actually talk to him. I have to talk to him through my friends, but again, he'll probably say "♥♥♥♥ you." to them, which probably means that they don't want to talk about me.

[Martlet]

You'll get used to it. I have no friends.

[Jonno.exe]

Yeah give him time. Maybe he got you fonfused with another friend which did something wrong to him. Anyway, us good parts of the community are always here for you. Did you physiclally know him (like same school or something) or did you just meet him online?

Also, if he is your best friend, what is his name (so we can have a nice 1v1 with him. )

[Azza ☠]

Originally posted by Nubmeister:

Originally posted by Coda:

Yikes. I'd say give it a little time, give him time to cool down, and then try to talk to him again.
If nothing else, you'll just have to move on I guess.

But then when I talk to him, he'll just ignore me. Also, it's impossible to actually talk to him. I have to talk to him through my friends, but again, he'll probably say "♥♥♥♥ you." to them, which probably means that they don't want to talk about me.

We have no idea what's the reason for it. So can't help you much.

If you don't know the reason, at least try find that out first.

[dog in øven]

Originally posted by Jonno83900 AFK:

Yeah give him time. Maybe he got you fonfused with another friend which did something wrong to him. Anyway, us good parts of the community are always here for you. Did you physiclally know him (like same school or something) or did you just meet him online?

Also, if he is your best friend, what is his name (so we can have a nice 1v1 with him. )

I met him online. Now I know what you're thinking, that he's just another guy in the internet who happens to be Asian like me. But we actually did a lot of stuff together where I can get to the point to consider him as a best friend. Also, his name is Carlardar. :)

[Θ△ Azul <3 (she/it)]

Originally posted by Nubmeister:

So there was this guy, I met him on ROBLOX in 2012. We've been friends for 4 years. But 2-3 days ago (for you, it depends on what the date is), he suddenly unfriended me. At first, I didn't know why, so I asked my friends to talk to him. When my friend asked, he told me the response. "The guy" (i guess let's just call him that) said that he unfriended me just because I was "a ♥♥♥♥♥♥." I was really confused and mad at that moment. He was my best friend for 4 years, more special than anyone else I know. But then, he just unfriends me like that. Also, I'm not ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥, of course. Why would he call me that? If you're going to ask me in the comments what I did to him, I did nothing to him. I apologized for what I did wrong even though I did notihng wrong, but then the only responses I get were "♥♥♥♥ you ♥♥♥♥♥♥, ♥♥♥♥ you ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥." What should I do, now that he's gone?

NOTE: He unfriended me on Skype, ROBLOX, and Steam. He will ignore me on every social media website I know. I'm not used to living without my best friend.

Dude, I can't imagine what this feels like, I'll be honest. I'm sorry, but I can't really help because of my lack of social skills, but if you know you did nothing wrong to him, then you can feel good about that.

[dog in øven]

Originally posted by Azza ☠:

Originally posted by Nubmeister:

But then when I talk to him, he'll just ignore me. Also, it's impossible to actually talk to him. I have to talk to him through my friends, but again, he'll probably say "♥♥♥♥ you." to them, which probably means that they don't want to talk about me.

We have no idea what's the reason for it. So can't help you much.

If you don't know the reason, at least try find that out first.

When I ask my friends to ask my best friend why, my best friend says he doesn't want to tell me. So basically, I can't figure out the reason.

[dog in øven]

Originally posted by FV-SK:

Originally posted by Nubmeister:

So there was this guy, I met him on ROBLOX in 2012. We've been friends for 4 years. But 2-3 days ago (for you, it depends on what the date is), he suddenly unfriended me. At first, I didn't know why, so I asked my friends to talk to him. When my friend asked, he told me the response. "The guy" (i guess let's just call him that) said that he unfriended me just because I was "a ♥♥♥♥♥♥." I was really confused and mad at that moment. He was my best friend for 4 years, more special than anyone else I know. But then, he just unfriends me like that. Also, I'm not ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥, of course. Why would he call me that? If you're going to ask me in the comments what I did to him, I did nothing to him. I apologized for what I did wrong even though I did notihng wrong, but then the only responses I get were "♥♥♥♥ you ♥♥♥♥♥♥, ♥♥♥♥ you ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥." What should I do, now that he's gone?

NOTE: He unfriended me on Skype, ROBLOX, and Steam. He will ignore me on every social media website I know. I'm not used to living without my best friend.

Dude, I can't imagine what this feels like, I'll be honest. I'm sorry, but I can't really help because of my lack of social skills, but if you know you did nothing wrong to him, then you can feel good about that.

Thanks for the support dude, I really appreciate it after all of this bs. :')

Don't worry, it's my first time to experience something like this too.

[Benjamslikestrains]

Originally posted by Coda:

Yikes. I'd say give it a little time, give him time to cool down, and then try to talk to him again.
If nothing else, you'll just have to move on I guess.

[Jonno.exe]

Originally posted by Nubmeister:

Originally posted by Jonno83900 AFK:

Yeah give him time. Maybe he got you fonfused with another friend which did something wrong to him. Anyway, us good parts of the community are always here for you. Did you physiclally know him (like same school or something) or did you just meet him online?

Also, if he is your best friend, what is his name (so we can have a nice 1v1 with him. )

I met him online. Now I know what you're thinking, that he's just another guy in the internet who happens to be Asian like me. But we actually did a lot of stuff together where I can get to the point to consider him as a best friend. Also, his name is Carlardar. :)

"Hey pop I've been contacting you but never answered.
If you are there please add me on my new account called Carlardar.
Thx."

Do you ever read the comments on your own profile? Found this by a user with an alias of Carlander. This user is on your friend list so ask any other friends/users that your and this account both have in common.

Also, ever tried searching a Carlander on your friends's friends list or searching it through Steam Community?

[dog in øven]

Originally posted by Jonno83900 AFK:

Originally posted by Nubmeister:

I met him online. Now I know what you're thinking, that he's just another guy in the internet who happens to be Asian like me. But we actually did a lot of stuff together where I can get to the point to consider him as a best friend. Also, his name is Carlardar. :)

"Hey pop I've been contacting you but never answered.
If you are there please add me on my new account called Carlardar.
Thx."

Do you ever read the comments on your own profile? Found this by a user with an alias of Carlander. This user is on your friend list so ask any other friends/users that your and this account both have in common.

Also, ever tried searching a Carlander on your friends's friends list or searching it through Steam Community?

That was a while ago. That was when he got his new account which was not VAC-banned. The Carlardar I'm talking about is the one with his new account. (the one with the yellow face)

[Jonno.exe]

Originally posted by Nubmeister:

Originally posted by Jonno83900 AFK:

"Hey pop I've been contacting you but never answered.
If you are there please add me on my new account called Carlardar.
Thx."

Do you ever read the comments on your own profile? Found this by a user with an alias of Carlander. This user is on your friend list so ask any other friends/users that your and this account both have in common.

Also, ever tried searching a Carlander on your friends's friends list or searching it through Steam Community?

That was a while ago. That was when he got his new account which was not VAC-banned. The Carlardar I'm talking about is the one with his new account. (the one with the yellow face)

http://steamcommunity.com/id/Carlardar

Found him. Now add, tell your story and done. United once again