Is flirting cheating?

[frank]

This has been a popular question on my Twitter for a few days, so I decided to take the poll to a new demographic. What do you guys think?
EDIT: some people seem confused as to what side im on. I definitely consider flirting cheating.

[frank]

Messaggio originale di Spoopy Toast:

You could use the same logic from flirting to buying dinner and all the way up to sleeping in the same bed. It's not cheating.

If you had a shred of self-respect, you wouldn't tolerate it.

Very well said, it comes down to self respect.

Messaggio originale di Vince:

"You have heard that it was said, 'You shall not commit adultery'. (28) But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already commiteted adultery with her in his heart.

-Matthew 5:27-28

dont get all argumentative, just brought it in for info. I'll delete it if asked.

I'm not a religious guy, but that is very well put.

Messaggio originale di sonic65101:

It is in The Sims 3.

it is absolutely cheating in the Sims 3. unsure about 4 however.

Messaggio originale di Ketchup:

Yes.
Or would you want to be cucked behind your back, too?

Is it still considered a cucking if it's behind your back?

Messaggio originale di Radene:

Messaggio originale di Church:

Who said anything about anyone getting into anyones pants?
I was simply asking as to how far it would go before it became cheating

Depends. Sometimes even a casual wink would have a sexual undercurrent. And sometimes even sleeping in the same bed is nothing more than a practical arrangement.

There's no checklist for these things.

VERY fair, it's all about context.

Messaggio originale di Advanced3:

Put yourself in the other persons shoes and then ask yourself if you would tolerate it.

Messaggio originale di Ms. Jack Bauer:

I wouldn't stay with someone who flirts with other girls. Call me whatever you want, but I wouldn't tolerate it. I do consider it cheating.

you both said it very well.

[Radene]

Messaggio originale di Church:

Messaggio originale di Radene:

Depends. Sometimes even a casual wink would have a sexual undercurrent. And sometimes even sleeping in the same bed is nothing more than a practical arrangement.

There's no checklist for these things.

And sometimes sex is just a stress relieve

It's usually a stress relief. We wouldn't do it as much as we do it if it caused stress.

[frank]

Messaggio originale di Radene:

Messaggio originale di Church:

And sometimes sex is just a stress relieve

It's usually a stress relief. We wouldn't do it as much as we do it if it caused stress.

It's a stress reliever til you hear "is it even in?"

[Johnny-Boy]

Messaggio originale di Christ died for our Spins:

Messaggio originale di Ketchup:

Yes.
Or would you want to be cucked behind your back, too?

Is it still considered a cucking if it's behind your back?

Hm... nevermind, I guess it doesn't apply if you don't know.

[Sorokin]

Messaggio originale di Radene:

Messaggio originale di Church:

And sometimes sex is just a stress relieve

It's usually a stress relief. We wouldn't do it as much as we do it if it caused stress.

So sex with strangers is ok if your married as long as its its only used as a stress relieve
Or have you forgotten thats the whole point of me bringing that up
but you only seemed to have read the sex part

[Radene]

Messaggio originale di Church:

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So sex with strangers is ok if your married as long as its its only used as a stress relieve

As I told you before, if this is how you function, that's on you.

Or have you forgotten thats the whole point of me bringing that up
but you only seemed to have read intil sex

I have no idea what you're trying to say here.

[Sorokin]

Messaggio originale di Radene:

Messaggio originale di Church:

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So sex with strangers is ok if your married as long as its its only used as a stress relieve

As I told you before, if this is how you function, that's on you.

Or have you forgotten thats the whole point of me bringing that up
but you only seemed to have read intil sex

I have no idea what you're trying to say here.

1.im asking you whether its cheating or not, if your saying its in your intention
if that is so having sex with strangers while your married purely for stress relieve should be no problem

2.you seemed to take the whole focus off the topic and put it on sex

[Dominic]

To me yes it is cheating. Would you flirt with someone infront of your partner? Odds are they are going to be pretty damn mad lol.

[Radene]

Messaggio originale di Church:

1.im asking you whether its cheating or not, if your saying its in your intention

No checklist for these things. Just personal policies.

.you seemed to take the whole focus off the topic and put it on sex

And that's what you get when you start with slippery slope fallacies.

[Sorokin]

Messaggio originale di Radene:

Messaggio originale di Church:

1.im asking you whether its cheating or not, if your saying its in your intention

No checklist for these things. Just personal policies.

.you seemed to take the whole focus off the topic and put it on sex

And that's what you get when you start with slippery slope fallacies.

Again i ask, so you could have sex with a stranger when your married if both of you are purely doing it for stress relieve?

[Radene]

Messaggio originale di Church:

Messaggio originale di Radene:

No checklist for these things. Just personal policies.



And that's what you get when you start with slippery slope fallacies.

Again i ask, so you could have sex with a stranger when your married if both of you are purely doing it for stress relieve?

I could. But I probably wouldn't.

[-V-]

I think that flirty behaviors should be clearly defined, and that every relationship needs clear and acceptable boundaries to be laid out by each party.

Depending on some viewpoints, I habitually "flirt" with every single person around me because that's just how my personality is-- lewd and flirty. It doesn't mean anything, it's just how I am.

If I really wanted to bone someone, I'd just come out and say it or take off their pants.

But I'm lucky enough to have a very understanding man.

Consider my occupation for a moment: My job was to flirt with men. My job involved allowing them to touch me in a variety of places, and it involved me touching them in a variety of places. Is doing my job cheating? No, it's doing my job. Intent matters.

I used to sleep over a male friend's house all the time. Was that cheating? Not even, I slept in a different room! Context matters. We used to "cuddle" (sit very closely together) on my couch while watching Netflix. Was that cheating? No, he's my best friend and it was cold as crap in my old shack by the lake. (no heat, no insulation, gaps in the walls/floors/windows, missing doors, etc). Context matters.

Now, if I had let him stick his willy in me, that would have been inappropriate, regardless of context.

[Spizy Chicken]

Messaggio originale di Christ died for our Spins:

This has been a popular question on my Twitter for a few days, so I decided to take the poll to a new demographic. What do you guys think?
EDIT: some people seem confused as to what side im on. I definitely consider flirting cheating.

As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.

[John The Butcher]

I'd cut their genitals off if I caught them

[Gen X]

Nope but most of time can end up as cheating...

But in any case I case im out of luck cause all the taken ones flirt with me....