can someone still see my message after i delete them?

[dei]

i want to delete this person but they're currently offline so im worried they won't see my message. does it go through even if i delete them while they're offline?

[dei]

AM I SHADOWBANNED ON DISCUSSIONS HELLO CAN ANYONE SEE THIS

[rawWwRrr]

Messaggio originale di dei:

AM I SHADOWBANNED ON DISCUSSIONS

no

[Dr.Shadowds 🐉]

Chat is server sided, even if online, or offline they will get whatever message you sent.

Messages in chat remains for 14 days, after that they get deleted automatically on their own.

Unfriending them will not remove messages that were sent.

Messaggio originale di dei:

AM I SHADOWBANNED ON DISCUSSIONS HELLO CAN ANYONE SEE THIS

This is not Twitter, or Facebook, there no shadow banned on here.

[dei]

Messaggio originale di rawWwRrr:

Messaggio originale di dei:

AM I SHADOWBANNED ON DISCUSSIONS

no

Okay ty ;-;

[dei]

Messaggio originale di Dr.Shadowds 🐉:

Chat is server sided, even if online, or offline they will get whatever message you sent.

Messages in chat remains for 14 days, after that they get deleted automatically on their own.

Unfriending them will not remove messages that were sent.

Messaggio originale di dei:

AM I SHADOWBANNED ON DISCUSSIONS HELLO CAN ANYONE SEE THIS

This is not Twitter, or Facebook, there no shadow banned on here.

okay , thankyou for taking the time to explain

[Unn4m3d (♥AUT♥)]

Messaggio originale di dei:

AM I SHADOWBANNED ON DISCUSSIONS HELLO CAN ANYONE SEE THIS

Just because you don't instantly get a response doesn't mean you're banned.
There's no such thing as a "shadowban" either.
If you're banned you can't post at all.

[Maria]

If you unfriend them, they won't be able to see the chat log. so even if the message is still there, they can't see what you sent.

Wait until a month just to be safe and you can add them again. the message should be gone by then.

[Walach]

I believe there was a law/rule/ask about storing for all messages for a couple months, even user deleted ones. I believe it was some weird rule in the USA and EU. But I can't for the life of me remember the name of said rule or if it's not something my brain just made up. :P

It's not the same one as the one about invoices. That one is real…and I also don't remember the name of that one. :I

[dei]

Messaggio originale di Unn4m3d (♥AUT♥):

Messaggio originale di dei:

AM I SHADOWBANNED ON DISCUSSIONS HELLO CAN ANYONE SEE THIS

Just because you don't instantly get a response doesn't mean you're banned.
There's no such thing as a "shadowban" either.
If you're banned you can't post at all.

I’m asking because this is the 4th time i needed help in the discussions without any interactions. plus people already answered that question so you don’t really have to.