do I need chaotic or evil for kobold and mites to worship my gloves

[Sorceress]

and could somebody guide me through dialogue choices?

[Mork]

There are two things:

You must be chaotic neutral. Neutral to be able to choose to not help any of the tribes and instead "find the truth" or something like that. It's the one [Neutral] option, that allows you to not fight with them. Being chaotic is required to give your gloves to them instead of relics, so mites and kobolds have new item to worship.

To make goblins worship you, simply proceed with Nok-Nok quest and push him toward being a hero. At some point he will build a statute of him and you, you need not to destroy it and congratulate Nok-Nok for doing a good job ;)