Tsundere trait - chance

[Tygonius]

I would like to ask for opinions because I am stuck. I want to get Asuna the tsun-trait. Rank 5, and as different sources mentioned I failed to hold hands multiple times. the problem is after a couple of hundred times the trait won't appear. I have cleared the other traits so only 3 remain atm. There should be enough place for the tsun but nothing. So my question: Did I miss something? The trait-googledocs says something like Chance:High -.-
The Rank is 5 > 3 and for whatever reason she rejects the holding hands. This should be the right trigger? I am a bit lost -.-

thx 4 advice :)

[NightmareHollow]

Just go to Asuna, bring up the communication menu, and pick "Change of Heart" and repeat until you have Tsundere. It's annoying but the higher her relationship rank, the lower the chances of her failing to hold hands. The fact that she starts with a higher rank than anybody else doesn't help that either

[Tygonius]

Thank you for the hint :) the problem is the holding hands do fail. I don't know why but atm she has a really bad mood and as mentioned above she refused a couple of hundred times. The Change of Heart would be my last option because I rly won't try- kill task - start game - load - try - kill task for hours :/
Can you tell me that just try to hold hands + she refuses + there is space for new traits is the right way to get it or do I overlook something.

[sacros]

Originally posted by Tygonius:

kill task - start game - load - try - kill task.

Eh? Why would you? You just lock the ones you need and do change of heart for the ones you don't need, it's random and once you get them, you may also lock them. There's no need to restart the game just for a change of heart. If you don't understand how the affection system works, I suggest checking a guide first.
Mood actions (holding hands, princess carry) has requirements, even if you have max. friendship with them, to actually succeed with those actions you need to first talk to them again and make sure they're playful/blissfull/romantic whatever, so if you do hold hands then carry someone and let go to try again, it will most likely fail unless you chat your way up back again.

Here's a detailed list of traits in case you need it: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1oZISoAV1iICYIxQJZGXFCTwSYz7v8Av8nFdrS6ZgraE/edit#gid=0

[Tygonius]

Hmm-.- yes I am dumb. I assumed the Change of Heart would only produce new traits if all unlocked ones are vanished. And yes this is not the case. Anyway I've got the tsun now and would like to thank you both for the assist. Sometimes it's so easy :P