Do not go to this world if this person is there

[darkoraclegirl]

So I got on VRChat and was checking out the new places just for fun and I found myself in the GRUNTWORLD one with the creator of that world TheMobileGam3r, least I think he made it the world did say he was both the author and owner of it.

Anyway while there some of the other people were doing this little role play as if they were trying to get people to join their 'way' like they were the new Ugandan Knuckles. I didn't have my mic hooked up at the time because people in my house are sleeping and I didn't want to wake anyone up so I just shook my in game head to say, 'No I don't want to change into a Grunt'. They proceed to try to get me to change and join them like any role play would and one guy even 'showed off his power he got by being a Grunt' by becoming another avatar and showing me an animation. So I jokingly gave a thumbs down as if to say, 'yeah still not joining and not impressed'.

Next thing I know I'm in the hub world and told that the owner of GRUNTWORLD had kicked me and that I was now reported to the VRChat modderators! All cause I gave a thumbs down and shook my head a few times because I wasn't interested in playing their role play. I was in a sense playing around by giving that thumbs down and head shake and yet I was punished for it and couldn't go back to that world to try to explain myself to the guy because when u are kicked from a world you can not return for a full hour and chances are he'll be long gone by then.

So, if some how TheMobileGam3r reads this, thanks a lot for reporting me for not wanting to join the game you three were playing. This really reflects well the kind of person you clearly are as I did nothing more then shaking my head no, running away in the room from those who were chasing me wanting me to change, and giving one thumbs down. And one final thing, I was about to leave your world when you kicked me. Had you not kicked me I wouldn't be here telling everyone who reads this what happened and thus you would not have anything negative being said about you or your world right now. But you chose to kick me for something so petty and now this post is here.

I know people on here are going to tell me to stop ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ and to suck it up, along with how defensive I'm getting over this and how petty I must to be getting offended over this. But VRChat is suppose to be a place we can all enjoy and play around in. Had I been doing around the room saying rude things, insulting people, making lewd gestures, and ignoring people who ask me to stop I would understand getting kicked. But I wasn't doing any of that. I was just refusing to join in on their little game.
I rarely mute people unless their being very rude all the time, making a lot of noise for no reason, or just so loud people can hear them through my headphones. I only blocked one person in the entire time I've been on VRChat. Every other time I just leave the world I'm in if something I don't like is happening.

Anyway, that's what happened to me and why I shall never EVER go back to GRUNTWORLD. It's not a place I feel anyone should go to where simply refusing to play along and 'convert' is not a choice.

[Jay]

Sadly this happen's a lot especially in a Role Play themed room. Ignore it and don't let it put you down or off the VRChat experience.

[Hawk]

I'll ignore you just out of spite

[darkoraclegirl]

Originally posted by Winter Rose:

Sadly this happen's a lot especially in a Role Play themed room. Ignore it and don't let it put you down or off the VRChat experience.

Oh I have no plans to let this stop me from enjoying VRChat. I just wanted to warn people about this person so they don't waste a second that they could be having fun with in their world.

[darkoraclegirl]

Originally posted by Hawk:

I'll ignore you just out of spite

That is the better choice. I mean, I might not have had a lot of time to hear the guy I gave the thumbs down to reaction to it, but he didn't seem like he was upset by it.

[Salamander]

Some people are just jerks. VRChat is supposed to be a fun place, but internet trolls are out there hurting people (and sometimes kids). We just wanna have fun and interact with people. And i wanna be a mime. With my non vr keyboard land mouse 😅

[Craig The Brute Gaming]

shoutouts to mobil1e

[darkoraclegirl]

Originally posted by Colgate God:

shoutouts to mobil1e

... Not sure what you are trying to do with this comment.

[Char (づ｡◕‿‿◕｡)づ]

you mad bro? lol JK

[darkoraclegirl]

Originally posted by AshenOne:

you mad bro? lol JK

No one likes being kicked from a world unjustly. I just want to warn people that this person is most likely petty and if you don't play his game you are most likely going to be kicked for little to no reason.

[Minun]

Same thing happened to me on the werewolf...something rather server. More than half the people wanted me kicked, and all i did was 3 emotes, and shook my head that I didn't want to roleplay. The other sad thing about it is that I went there to see/hangout with a friend.

[darkoraclegirl]

Originally posted by jjoxford2007:

Same thing happened to me on the werewolf...something rather server. More than half the people wanted me kicked, and all i did was 3 emotes, and shook my head that I didn't want to roleplay. The other sad thing about it is that I went there to see/hangout with a friend.

While it is a good place to role play, no one should be forced to do it. Some people just want to hang out with people they might not get to spend much rl time with. It's a SOCIAL hangout space, not an RP space. If people want to RP that badly they should ask people if they want to join and if not leave those people alone. Or better yet make your own server/instanct and tell people straight up that it's for RPing only, anyone not RP has to leave. Simple as that.

Kicking people REPORTS people! It makes it so the Mods get a whole pile of reports about people being kicked for nothing and thus makes the Mods ignore the more serious kicks because they believe it's just another person getting kicked for a pointless reason.
If the Mods stop caring because of this then VRChat is going to suffer for it. So please think before you kick people. There are better ways.

[SirFox]

;) one of my subbs sent this to me haha. Im sorry what are you mad about? That being silent in a friends + world that I created got you booted? I don't even know you dude. So a guy just sitting in a corner staring at me and my friends is gonna be booted. Hate to break it to ya. If youd like, I can make u feel more than welcome in any of my other worlds ive worked on lol. ;-; rip you were booted from a world where no one knew who you were...(BTW if you really want to take the "grunt movement" seriously you have big issues lol) Its litearly a gag my friends and I made up. If you'd like, I can even introduce you to them(the creators of kami's lookout, the basement map, great pug, etc) Maybe you shouldn't jump to conclusions too early.... Have a nice day :)

[darkoraclegirl]

Originally posted by TheMobi1eGam3r:

;) one of my subbs sent this to me haha. Im sorry what are you mad about? That being silent in a friends + world that I created got you booted? I don't even know you dude. So a guy just sitting in a corner staring at me and my friends is gonna be booted. Hate to break it to ya. If youd like, I can make u feel more than welcome in any of my other worlds ive worked on lol. ;-; rip you were booted from a world where no one knew who you were...(BTW if you really want to take the "grunt movement" seriously you have big issues lol) Its litearly a gag my friends and I made up. If you'd like, I can even introduce you to them(the creators of kami's lookout, the basement map, great pug, etc) Maybe you shouldn't jump to conclusions too early.... Have a nice day :)

Every time a person is kicked the kicked person is reported to the mods. Get reported enough times and I'm pretty sure you can lose your account.
Also if people want to only be around their friend they can make friend only servers where those that aren't their friend, like me, can't join and thus removing the problem.

My only reason for being annoyed by this is it was a PUBLIC server and thus EVERYONE IS SUPPOSE TO BE ALLOWED! Do you get it now? If it was a friends only place and I got invited by mistake I would understand. But no, it was a public place that anyone could get into regardless of if you are a friend or not.

And I was kicked with in seconds of that thumbs down. Only had enough time to heard the guy trying to impress me go 'aw' is response to my not being impressed with his animation.

People like you may think kicking people is some 'fun little game' to be played but to others, who are trying to look around and check out what other people have made it's ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ annoying as hell.

Not to mention that kicking people from public places in a socail vr world is basically saying 'we don't want you around' and for a lot of people vrchat is their escape from that sort of thing. Hell one day while on myself and a bunch of other people had this girl in the server who was so sick of everyone muting her when all she wanted to do was sing her song. Like she was really crying because no matter where she went people just muted her. Myself and those around at the time listened to her song, and she really was a good singer btw, and you could just hear how upset she was not only when she talked but in her song too.

People just really need to stop abusing the kick, mute, and block options.

Not to mention I'm getting a little tired of people trying to be the next Ugandan Knuckles and trying to make it seem like people don't have a choice in what avatar they use.

Now I'm not saying I don't see the appeal to trying it out. Some friends and I did a raid as one avatar but we didn't force anyone to join us and we quickly fell apart and just end up hanging out in one server for a while until we had to get back to rl. But we didn't try to kick people in public servers we they refused to join us. We just moved on to someone else.

I don't know why I bothered going into such a lengthy talk with you. Clearly you don't care and it's all a big joke to you. But to someone like me, who struggles socailly it's not small nor funny. Online I can actually bring myself to talk to people I wouldn't normally be able to. I might not have talked when I came upon you, but that was because it was like 3 or 4 in morning and my parents sleep in the next room and my sister shares my room, there for I can't be on mic all night. I like living, and I like having my pc and internet. So forgive me for not wanting to piss off three people in my day to day life, two of which pay the bills and keep the internet on, just so I can talk to people like you who most likely would've still kicked me anyway.

Not everyone has the freedom to do whatever they ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ want whenever they want and I'm just so tired of everyone expecting everyone they meet to be just like them, or to just 'deal with it'.

I'm going to stop talking now cause I'm almost in tears over this. But I am never coming back to that world, not that that matters to someone like you.