Why do people block me?

[dinger]

Whenever I join a world to communicate with other people, after 5 minutes of trying to talk to them they just block me.. I don't know what I do wrong, I'm 13 years old but I haven't hit puberty yet and my voice isn't THAT squeaky, but I just find people block me fairly often after just saying hi. I mean I can't really help that I have a semi-squeaky voice, I can't help the fact that I was born years after some people, I'm not annoying, I know that for sure but people still tend to block me and it upsets me(in a sad way)

[Lordie]

We really need a FAQ for this question.
I cant trully say why but there are just too many reasons people block eachother here.
My personal problem is finding people with my interests, which for now have been a total failure, i do find and remember every friend i add on vrchat, problem is they are online 1 hour and the next day they dont even remember me lol.

Edit: i just readed you are 13, hmmm, yeah its because of the voice i think, too many sensitive people that judge because of voice, i am 22 and because of the voice they confuse me to a 17 years old, if they see my face they confuse me to a 15 years old, tocate los huevos...

Yesterday we had a 12 years old screaming around in a halloween lobby with a mega knuckles, it was fun the first 10 minutes but it got old very fast and he got blocked by everyone in the lobby, he got double blocked when he said he play fortnite.

[dinger]

Originally posted by Lordie:

We really need a FAQ for this question.
I cant trully say why but there are just too many reasons people block eachother here.
My personal problem if finding people with my interests, which for now have been a total failure, i do find and remember every friend i add on vrchat, problem is they are online 1 hours and the next day they dont even remember me lol.

Ah, I met a girl on VRChat that actually didn't think I was annoying, she took me to different worlds and she added me on friendlist, hopefully she remembers me tomorrow I guess xd

[Lordie]

Originally posted by Dingoon:

Originally posted by Lordie:

We really need a FAQ for this question.
I cant trully say why but there are just too many reasons people block eachother here.
My personal problem if finding people with my interests, which for now have been a total failure, i do find and remember every friend i add on vrchat, problem is they are online 1 hours and the next day they dont even remember me lol.

Ah, I met a girl on VRChat that actually didn't think I was annoying, she took me to different worlds and she added me on friendlist, hopefully she remembers me tomorrow I guess xd

I will post my edit here:

i just readed you are 13, hmmm, yeah its because of the voice i think, too many sensitive people that judge because of voice, i am 22 and because of the voice they confuse me to a 17 years old, if they see my face they confuse me to a 15 years old, tocate los huevos...

Yesterday we had a 12 years old screaming around in a halloween lobby with a mega knuckles, it was fun the first 10 minutes but it got old very fast and he got blocked by everyone in the lobby, he got double blocked when he said he play fortnite.

I really discourage you to use uganda knuckles meme now, i dislike it and let it be forever dead lol.

[dinger]

Originally posted by Lordie:

Originally posted by Dingoon:

Ah, I met a girl on VRChat that actually didn't think I was annoying, she took me to different worlds and she added me on friendlist, hopefully she remembers me tomorrow I guess xd

I will post my edit here:

i just readed you are 13, hmmm, yeah its because of the voice i think, too many sensitive people that judge because of voice, i am 22 and because of the voice they confuse me to a 17 years old, if they see my face they confuse me to a 15 years old, tocate los huevos...

Yesterday we had a 12 years old screaming around in a halloween lobby with a mega knuckles, it was fun the first 10 minutes but it got old very fast and he got blocked by everyone in the lobby, he got double blocked when he said he play fortnite.

I really discourage you to use uganda knuckles meme now, i dislike it and let it be forever dead lol.

Yeah, the thing is I wasn't running around screaming as a knuckles, it's really sad, I just wanna communicate with other people and make new friends..

[H3Lb3NT]

The thing is that you get blocked as well because of the avatar you're using. It might be disturbing for others since some avatars tend to have many annoying animations that cover your whole screen. Do you use any kind of avatar that does have animations and that you didn't knew they're annoying to some people? I'm asking politely in case because ppl do tend to block you if they find your avatar "too fancy" with animations that cover your screen. If this is the case, try to change your avatar to a less animated one, one that doesn't cover all others' screens.

[dinger]

Originally posted by The Mad Gamer:

The thing is that you get blocked as well because of the avatar you're using. It might be disturbing for others since some avatars tend to have many annoying animations that cover your whole screen. Do you use any kind of avatar that does have animations and that you didn't knew they're annoying to some people? I'm asking politely in case because ppl do tend to block you if they find your avatar "too fancy" with animations that cover your screen. If this is the case, try to change your avatar to a less animated one, one that doesn't cover all others' screens.

I was using a banana avatar, no custom emotes, no Shift+F1 animations or anything at all, just a simple banana avatar with a hat

[Fuzed]

Hey man, I know I actually don't play VRChat to know much of it but I can tell you, i've gotten picked on JUST BY going into a lobby, and a guy saw me. Told me to leave and it was a public session too.. smh. It sucks being picked on bud.

Again, the voice is the issue but I don't blame you. We were all squeakers at some point and I'm 15. I'm not far from 13. People confuse me as being gay. Literally. I haven't spoken except once in VRChat but oddly, afraid.

I'm sorry about that though. When Black Friday hits, I'm starting with the VRChat grind and I'm for sure going to add you :,) More people with you, the higher chance you'll be accepted. It sucks thats how society sometimes is but, I'm not afraid of you. Feel free to add me on steam and chat with me anytime! Or on VRChat it should be lust.etc same as my user but was a dot in the middle.

[dinger]

Originally posted by lustetc:

Hey man, I know I actually don't play VRChat to know much of it but I can tell you, i've gotten picked on JUST BY going into a lobby, and a guy saw me. Told me to leave and it was a public session too.. smh. It sucks being picked on bud.

Again, the voice is the issue but I don't blame you. We were all squeakers at some point and I'm 15. I'm not far from 13. People confuse me as being gay. Literally. I haven't spoken except once in VRChat but oddly, afraid.

I'm sorry about that though. When Black Friday hits, I'm starting with the VRChat grind and I'm for sure going to add you :,) More people with you, the higher chance you'll be accepted. It sucks thats how society sometimes is but, I'm not afraid of you. Feel free to add me on steam and chat with me anytime! Or on VRChat it should be lust.etc same as my user but was a dot in the middle. :csgostar:

I guess I'm not alone, yeah it sucks being picked on, I don't get picked on IRL, only when friends joke around and stuff, I'm also getting a VR headset, I couldn't wait for black friday so I have already ordered a HTC vive, should arrive in the next week or two, I feel you. I'll add you, maybe we can play VRChat together and some other games aswell. Thank you

[dinger]

Anyways I have to go, TYT

[Umbee]

defintly your age

[Lordie]

Oh boy if its the avatar heigh, i have blocked like 20 guys using giant avatars cuz, they just destroy the world i am in, and if you use uganda knuckles its a guaranteed block.
Sorry but i really dont find that meme funny, there are funny memes like the shrek song for the laughs and there are stupid memes like the show me the way stuff, which i never understood.

[Fuzed]

Originally posted by Lordie:

Oh boy if its the avatar heigh, i have blocked like 20 guys using giant avatars cuz, they just destroy the world i am in, and if you use uganda knuckles its a guaranteed block.
Sorry but i really dont find that meme funny, there are funny memes like the shrek song for the laughs and there are stupid memes like the show me the way stuff, which i never understood.

agreed, never seen a giant avatar or something so annoying but if hes just using an anime girl. It should be fine, or if hes using a default avatar from a basic avatar world. Those also would be judged possibly?

[Lordie]

Originally posted by lustetc:

Originally posted by Lordie:

Oh boy if its the avatar heigh, i have blocked like 20 guys using giant avatars cuz, they just destroy the world i am in, and if you use uganda knuckles its a guaranteed block.
Sorry but i really dont find that meme funny, there are funny memes like the shrek song for the laughs and there are stupid memes like the show me the way stuff, which i never understood.

agreed, never seen a giant avatar or something so annoying but if hes just using an anime girl. It should be fine, or if hes using a default avatar from a basic avatar world. Those also would be judged possibly?

I dont really care if i get judged, i see giant avatars on that public lobby that have a bed and a balcony (Dont remember the name), people just going out of the map and spamming gunfire with a giant robot, almost always its a visitor, and a group of 4 furries/anime girls on a corner petting themselves and talking about random stuff.
I did not have an easy school time when i was a kid, so i quickly learned one effective lesson that also works in VR Chat, which is not giving a ♥♥♥♥ about what people say.

[Fuzed]

Originally posted by Lordie:

Originally posted by lustetc:

agreed, never seen a giant avatar or something so annoying but if hes just using an anime girl. It should be fine, or if hes using a default avatar from a basic avatar world. Those also would be judged possibly?

I dont really care if i get judged, i see giant avatars on that public lobby that have a bed and a balcony (Dont remember the name), people just going out of the map and spamming gunfire with a giant robot, almost always its a visitor, and a group of 4 furries/anime girls on a corner petting themselves and talking about random stuff.
I did not have an easy school time when i was a kid, so i quickly learned one effective lesson that also works in VR Chat, which is not giving a ♥♥♥♥ about what people say.

Good job on that, I'm actually online schooled now from all of the idiots in real life that made my day worse.

The only thing about getting judged I would feel upset about is just not being able to be around people. For example what I experienced, just me being on the other side of the room at the Bar Lobby (im not sure the name) and one guy just seeing me and telling me to leave immediately just bummed me out.

I'm sorry for that terrible experience, honestly if there was furries and all girls. It'll be funny to see it, if they are guys. It's more cringy but I have this furry friend, most aren't like *pats you* unless you let them know you're fine with it. besides, patting is a friendly gesture in VRChat.

I've yet to see people touching themselves though, haven't even played a real hour of VRChat lol

[Lordie]

Originally posted by lustetc:

Originally posted by Lordie:

I dont really care if i get judged, i see giant avatars on that public lobby that have a bed and a balcony (Dont remember the name), people just going out of the map and spamming gunfire with a giant robot, almost always its a visitor, and a group of 4 furries/anime girls on a corner petting themselves and talking about random stuff.
I did not have an easy school time when i was a kid, so i quickly learned one effective lesson that also works in VR Chat, which is not giving a ♥♥♥♥ about what people say.

Good job on that, I'm actually online schooled now from all of the idiots in real life that made my day worse.

The only thing about getting judged I would feel upset about is just not being able to be around people. For example what I experienced, just me being on the other side of the room at the Bar Lobby (im not sure the name) and one guy just seeing me and telling me to leave immediately just bummed me out.

I'm sorry for that terrible experience, honestly if there was furries and all girls. It'll be funny to see it, if they are guys. It's more cringy but I have this furry friend, most aren't like *pats you* unless you let them know you're fine with it. besides, patting is a friendly gesture in VRChat.

I've yet to see people touching themselves though, haven't even played a real hour of VRChat lol

I dont mind about furries and patting, but pleeease if you are a male and using a loli skin to pat with make sure your mic is off lmao.
I like cute things but it just gets destroyed when you get patted by a loli who have a male voice, if you get patted by an actual girl with mic on, actually thaats is a whole different experience, and one of the best if you ask me.

I dont have anything against furries, i just dont understand them.
And i wont hide i have 5 or 6 loli avatars on my favorites lol.