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That's the part some of the trans community doesn't seem to understand. You have your fellow brothers and sisters ruining everything - the same as any community suffers from. Trans individuals who can't stop screaming, making everything about them. Shutting down any discourse (whether warranted or not) by yelling transphobe and trying to end the conversation like that.
I'll admit it's gotten harder and harder for me over the years to support the Ts in the LGBT community. It does make me feel like an ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥, but it's just how I feel. I know there are plenty of transsexual individuals who don't feel the need to make everything about themselves and try to force everyone in the world to agree with them, but when the minority is so vocal.. so loud.. so annoying and obnoxious it's hard to remember they don't represent everyone.
The whole LGBT movement was never about making everyone accept us unconditionally. It was about helping people understand, and at least respect us as individuals. They didn't have to agree with our lifestyle choices, but at least understand that we don't share the same as them. But now the movement is shifting into this frankly disturbing way of trying to force everyone to not only tolerate them, but to agree with them fully. Disgusting.
Please tell me more about how you actually have a really good reason to think I don't deserve basic rights.
The first reply to the thread is overt transphobia,
1- There are actually a lot of gay/bi people that do not want to be associated with Trans people because of their (social media) behavior, so that's in touch with reality, not some fantasy land.
2- Dude is actually playing victim, so again, truth. You can play victim for multiple reasons, it has nothing to do with transphobia, it's just what this individual is doing.
Welcome to the real world. Never said it was good or fair, but the way the vast majority of people view it.
Why do you think all the injustices in the world still exist? Because you have insane people in every camp that want to take things too far.
For me I've lost favor for the whole community at large when it stopped being a mostly private affair and became a public spectacle. The whole world doesn't need to know my sexuality, so why in the Hell would I wear it like it is some kind of badge of honor? Wasn't it enough to just fight for understanding? It was never my goal to make everyone in the world accept bisexuality. All I ever wanted was for people to just be like "okay, whatever." That if I should ever feel the desire or need to tell someone that they were going to be like "... and?" It's not something that defines what I am. Being bisexual is pretty damn far down on my list of things that make me who I am.
Even if nobody's ever called you a slur to your face you live in a world where some folks are very casual about wanting you and everyone like you wiped off the face of the planet.
The pride is about enduring in spite of that. If you don't want to take pride in that, fine, but don't begrudge others for doing it.
I will begrudge those individuals who bring resentment upon themselves with their actions because it has effectively ruined all of the hard work that came before over the decades.
It's a two way street. Certainly there are people who just hate us for being who we are, and there is nothing we can do to change their minds. But forgive me if I'm annoyed that so much of the goodwill our community has built up has been eroded away almost exclusively by some members of the transsexual community who have taken it upon themselves to take the fight to levels and extremes that the majority didn't want and have managed to alienate not only themselves but the rest of us.
something something face eating leopards..
It is a legal issue in the U.S.:
Transferring M2F or F2M is an involved process both legally, medically and psychologically. I would, personally, rather call a trans by their preferred gender, and I do, in my offices. But until they legally change their legal gender status, we are forced to continue to use their prior gender identity as thus.
Many of my patients find themselves having issues with the change - mentally.
While a good number of patients accept their change. Go to voice adjustment training, and the like to fully acclimate with their new gender life. Truly, depending on the 'trans' for the patients intended gender, most F2M are easy. Most do not even want a penis, and those that do require multiple surgeries to not only clear the female reproductive organs (if they want that done) and to install something that resembles a male penis. There are donors, that have opted to give body parts upon death (even a penis), and those get the highest value regard.
So I answered your question, 'professionally'.
As for the unprofessional 'gamer sense', many people are still reluctant to believe there are 'women online', and that 'women play games online' or 'women play RPG's and are not strong and don't know what they are doing in any situation', etc. This is a completely 'alpha' male and alpha wannabe insecure concept. It comes from males thinking they are the dominant gender in every way. Which most of we, whom are in the true know, believe this is a fallacy.
So, wrapping this up, medically and socially:
'Trans' is a 'state' that many people adhere to. Be they bio women or men.
They, whom feel as if their 'body' (to some extremes 'encasement') is wrong, and they feel more female or male. They want to do the change, and will go through the 'trials to do it'. Not all succeed, most don't, actually. Additionally - Most whom do not undergo the extra bits, like the voice attenuation to female, social classes on being a female, and the pharma side - they will typically not be successful in their 'trans'.
Truth be told.
I would rather just speak of them as their changed or identity result.
I do, in my offices, but in places where others can hear and in open spaces I must devolve to the 'standard response'. Just a FYI: If they are not Pre-Op - I refer to them as their chosen gender. Post Op there is no issue.