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nobody Apr 9, 2024 @ 6:52pm
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i dont feel comfortable calling venture they
im saying this as nicely as i can but it made me uncomfortable reading that dev update and the guy or girl saying they when addressing venture.

TLDR AT THE BOTTOM


MY POINT:

im not going to use pronouns. for those of you lgbt people who would take offense im not trying to offend. the reason i am making this post is because i just want to put out there, because i can, that i feel it is wrong to be forced to address people in a way that is to their perspective.

just because someone wants to be called a certain something doesnt mean people have to do it. i say this because i hear venture is some form of pronoun called they. i honestly cant tell if the character is a guy or a girl. i wanna say its a guy because i dont see any girl features on his body but i dont really know yet.






A SHORT STORY DISPLAYING AN EXAMPLE:


dont take it personally because its not just pronouns. when i was at a gas station at the end of covid 19, i was just doing my usual runs to the store for my 20 ounce drink. i got it around the same time every day for months. it was a routine before i moved. one day i grab the soda out of the fridge by the door as usual and get in line.

then i hear the words "excuse me sir im in line" coming from behind me. i turn around and there is a lady 20 feet behind where i stood behind the guy getting rung up. i said "come on up" she said "i dont like being close to people im sorry if that bothers you"

i then turned and looked toward the guy in front and waited to be next. she comes up next to me and says the same words again "i dont like being close to people im sorry if that bothers you"

i of course ignored her. i didnt even look at her. she steps forward just ahead of me as if she wanted to compete for the spot in line. i stepped back. i mean she came up and i wasnt gonna react to her. i stood behind her. she walked out the store. 1 minute later im being glared at by a different woman through the door. i look at her and then i look back toward the guy and pay for my drink and i walk out and go about my usual routine.

the next day i did the same thing as always except she wasnt there just as she wasnt the day before the incident. it was just a bump in the road to me nothing more.



MORAL OF THE STORY:

i shouldnt have to adhere to someone elses personal rules. just because someone expects me to do something they want me to do doesnt mean im gonna do it. just as that woman wasnt gonna get me to play her little emotional game of its about me, no company or group of people is gonna force me to call someone something that doesnt feel right to me.

thats really i wanted to share.




TLDR:

i dont feel comfortable calling someone something that isnt biological. gender to me is biology not psychology. and no one is going to force me to address someone a certain way just because they expect me too. its nothing personal and im not trying to be rude. however, i do find it rude to pressure me into calling someone something i dont feel confortable saying. venture to me is most likely a guy because he doesnt seem to have any breasts that i can tell. but i dont know.
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Ignosius Apr 10, 2024 @ 11:32pm 
Originally posted by Valore:
I think this strengthens the argument for using a neutral pronoun rather than taking away from it.

It's one thing to inconvenience others to ask them to use a new specific made up one.

It's another completely if someone says just address me in the neutral which already exists.
I think I've covered this pretty extensively at this point. Non-binary is not a real thing, so there is no reason to have special pronouns for it. People know whether they are a man or a woman, and yes, that even includes transpeople. Attempting to stay "neutral" is actually more of an inconvenience for everyone else, when they could be using the normal and appropriate pronouns for you instead, just like they do for everyone else in the world.

As I, and many others have said, you're arguing in bad faith and intentionally looking to be angry. I don't see any reason to continue this discussion.
Valore Apr 10, 2024 @ 11:35pm 
Originally posted by Ignosius:
As I, and many others have said, you're arguing in bad faith and intentionally looking to be angry. I don't see any reason to continue this discussion.

I think it speaks volumes that you jump to the conclusion that someone is angry when there's been nothing but a discussion.

Projecting frustration when someone asks you questions because they find your beliefs oddly immovable, especially when claiming the contrary that you're the one being 'reasonable' would far more satisfy the conditions of 'bad faith'.
Ignosius Apr 10, 2024 @ 11:47pm 
Originally posted by Valore:
I think it speaks volumes that you jump to the conclusion that someone is angry when there's been nothing but a discussion.

Projecting frustration when someone asks you questions because they find your beliefs oddly immovable, especially when claiming the contrary that you're the one being 'reasonable' would far more satisfy the conditions of 'bad faith'.

Originally posted by Valore:
OP is not 'riding in the middle'. They have homophobic views which they tried their best to hide behind a facade of 'being reasonable', but outed themselves anyway.

They also have massively ignorant views, because they don't even understand the very basics of this debate that the question of identity is not necessarily linked to sexual preference or attraction.
Yeah, okay.
Valore Apr 10, 2024 @ 11:54pm 
Originally posted by Ignosius:

Originally posted by Valore:
OP is not 'riding in the middle'. They have homophobic views which they tried their best to hide behind a facade of 'being reasonable', but outed themselves anyway.

They also have massively ignorant views, because they don't even understand the very basics of this debate that the question of identity is not necessarily linked to sexual preference or attraction.
Yeah, okay.

If someone does not even understand the fundamentals of the topic they're talking about, that identity does not necessarily have anything to do with attraction and conflating the two is disingenuous and ignorant, then they should get called out.

Not sure why you would assume not mincing words and calling a spade a spade as the saying goes has anything to do with anger.
feybu Apr 11, 2024 @ 1:31am 
"i dont feel comfortable calling someone something that isnt biological. gender to me is biology not psychology." You don't get to say what is biological or not, ignoring science makes you as delusional as a flat earther, and that story makes you look like an ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥.
nobody Apr 11, 2024 @ 3:55am 
Originally posted by Shaelent:
Originally posted by mystery:


okay valore. im sorry but i disagree with you. i feel you are taking what i said personally. im sorry if i caused you any offense. the reason i disagree with you is because i believe what defines a person more then anything is biology and choices. this is my personal opinion nothing more. biology defines your gender in my eyes and the choices we make define the rest.

i know someone who is attracted to little girls. he never acts on it. i would know because i have known him for over 7 years now. i will not disclose his name but i found it amazing that he can have such disgusting attractions, and yet he doesnt let himself be defined by them. HE CHOOSES to be better then that. he said to me when he revealed his secret and i asked him dont you ever get tempted? he says "everytime but i will never tramatize a child. i am more then my flaws." i asked him dont you ever feel fear or hate toward those who would call you a pedofile even though you never acted on your impulses? he says "no because im not a pedofile. im a human being who knows that what i have is disgusting but i know im more then that."

i was amazed by his words. and so i believe our choices define us not our attractions or skin color or upbringings or trama etc

I love that you can defend your pedophile friend on the basis of not wanting to use non-binary pronouns. We have an entire war going on with people dying, we have homeless people, we have animals dying to abuse, we have people dying to diseases and terminal illnesses but no it's the end of the world that a fictional character in a pixel game uses pronouns because it's too much for you. Disgraceful.

TLDR AT THE BOTTOM

my friend isnt a pedofile because he CHOOSES TO BE BETTER. HE DOESNT LET HIS ATTRACTIONS HE WAS BORN WITH IDENTIFY HIM. lgbt people weather its attractions or identification caused by whatever im ignorant of, since apparently i know nothing according to some of you, CHOOSE TO PSYCHOLOGICALLY ATTACK PEOPLE WHO DO NOT ACCEPT THEM. this is wrong. you can be born with a desire to be something your not because of confusion up in your head, or you can be born with attractions to children or animals, BUT THAT DOES NOT DEFINE YOU! YOU ARE NOT THOSE THINGS YOU ARE YOUR CHOICES!

i cant stress that enough as my opinion. so if you dont like my opinion thats okay. your entitled to yours. just dont expect me to believe im a bad person for choosing to be comfortable. i assert there are lines that you do not cross and i will not cross those lines ever. i am sorry but to me its not natural.

the human race will not survive on psychology. as for me trying to define biology im not defining anything because im not god. i was born a male that simple. and you were born either male or female. at the end of the day you are born with certain things you cant control. all lgbt are doing is trying to reject conventionalism and trying to force change to the idealogies of today on everyone and then throwing fits when they dont get their way. im not going to change just because children want to throw fits. even if society chooses to give in to lgbt tantrums i will not change. i dont agree with it and im not a slave. so i will not be forced into something im not comfortable with. thats just how i am. and if that makes me a bad person to you then so be it.

we all have our way. and no matter what you choose in life there will always be someone who doesnt like you. so if you want to choose the path of others must accept that you identify as this, or that you have the right to be gay then go for it. BUT THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES FOR YOUR ACTIONS. and there are those of us who do not appreciate being forced to cross lines we dont want to cross just because you think its acceptable.


TLDR: my friend is his choices not his condition of being attracted to children. we are our choices. that is my opinion. i do not define biology god does or whoever our creator is. no matter what you think you are you still have reproductive organs that keep the human race going. and those reproductive organs are what are used to create life. as such we have a system that uses those organs to define what you are. and that is the system i believe in not this new system lgbt are trying to force on everyone that its psychology instead. you are who you choose to be. and choosing to force idealogies on others simply because its more acceptable to you will create conflict. your actions have consequences.
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nobody Apr 11, 2024 @ 4:00am 
Originally posted by feybu:
"i dont feel comfortable calling someone something that isnt biological. gender to me is biology not psychology." You don't get to say what is biological or not, ignoring science makes you as delusional as a flat earther, and that story makes you look like an ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥.


as i said in my previous post i dont define anything. im not the one forcing my ideals on others. lgbt are the ones trying to force ideals and redefine what gender is. i could say something similiar to what you said to me. lgbt dont get to say what gender is. who are you lgbt to define what is gender? male and female have been around for 1000s of years. lgbt movement started when exactly? the 60s or 1920s? how many years is that? 60 years? 100 years? compared to 1000s of years? who do you kids think you are thinking you can change a system thats been around for centuries? the arrogance.

that is the height of hubris. infact dont lgbt speak of pride? so i dont think im wrong to say lgbt have a hubris and there are plenty of wise old sayings that talk about pride that have also been around for a long time. THERE IS PRIDE BEFORE THE FALL.
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nobody Apr 11, 2024 @ 4:15am 
we could go in circles about this all day but it changes nothing.

you kids have your way as do we all. there are consequences for your actions. you dont force ideals on others and expect welcoming arms. you dont cross moral or natural lines and expect good results. i understand you have things about you that you want accepted but not everyone is going to accept you no matter who you are or what you do. there will always be people who dont like you. THAT DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO FORCE ACCEPTANCE ON OTHERS. AND I FOR ONE WILL NOT BE FORCED TO CHANGE. ITS NOT YOUR PLACE TO CHANGE ME.

and if that makes me some old man thats gonna die on a hill given too much rope then so be it. if that makes me ignorant or a homophobe or not open to new ideas even though im always learning new things, or if that makes me a terrible person given breath, or that makes me ...................... (please put your label on the dotted line) then so be it. i know my stance in the world and i have my peace with my life. and that peace will not be changed by other people's opinions nor will it be changed by movements created by groups of people who feel this need to force change upon the world because they are proud of their conditions.

thanks again for the discussion. it was most educational.
Shaelent Apr 11, 2024 @ 4:16am 
Originally posted by mystery:
Originally posted by Shaelent:

I love that you can defend your pedophile friend on the basis of not wanting to use non-binary pronouns. We have an entire war going on with people dying, we have homeless people, we have animals dying to abuse, we have people dying to diseases and terminal illnesses but no it's the end of the world that a fictional character in a pixel game uses pronouns because it's too much for you. Disgraceful.

TLDR AT THE BOTTOM

my friend isnt a pedofile because he CHOOSES TO BE BETTER. HE DOESNT LET HIS ATTRACTIONS HE WAS BORN WITH IDENTIFY HIM. lgbt people weather its attractions or identification CHOOSE TO PSYCHOLOGICALLY ATTACK PEOPLE WHO DO NOT ACCEPT THEM. this is wrong. you can be born with a desire to be something your not because of confusion up in your head or you can be born with attractions to children or animals BUT THAT DOES NOT DEFINE YOU! YOU ARE NOT THOSE THINGS YOU ARE YOUR CHOICES!

i cant stress that enough as my opinion. so if you dont like my opinion thats okay. your entitled to yours. just dont expect me to believe im a bad person for choosing to be comfortable. i assert there are lines that you do not cross and i will not cross those lines ever. i am sorry but to me its not natural.

the human race will not survive on psychology. as for me trying to define biology im not defining anything because im not god. i was born a male that simple. and you were born either male or female. at the end of the day you are born with certain things you cant control. all lgbt are doing is trying to reject conventionalism and trying to force change to the idealogies of today on everyone and then throwing fits when they dont get their way. and im not going to change just because children want to throw fits. thats just how i am. and if that makes me a bad person to you then so be it.

we all have our way. and no matter what you choose in life there will always be someone who doesnt like you. so if you want to choose the path of others must accept that you identify as this, or that you have the right to be gay then go for it. BUT THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES FOR YOUR ACTIONS. and there are those of us who do not appreciate being forced to cross lines we dont want to cross just because you think its acceptable.


TLDR: my friend is his choices not his condition of being attracted to children. we are our choices. that is my opinion. i do not define biology god does or whoever our creator is. no matter what you think you are you still have reproductive organs that keep the human race going. and those reproductive organs are what are used to create life. as such we have a system that uses those organs to define what you are. and that is the system i believe in not this new system lgbt are trying to force on everyone that its psychology instead. you are who you choose to be. and choosing to force idealogies on others simply because its more acceptable to you will create conflict. your actions have consequences.
If he's attracted to kids he's still a pedophile, you can't change that fact and don't even try to. Your friend should be put on a watch list, seek professional help or get put in jail. Predators don't deserve to be roaming free and it's disgusting of you to even compare your friend to normal people with different pronouns.
nobody Apr 11, 2024 @ 4:26am 
Originally posted by Shaelent:
Originally posted by mystery:

TLDR AT THE BOTTOM

my friend isnt a pedofile because he CHOOSES TO BE BETTER. HE DOESNT LET HIS ATTRACTIONS HE WAS BORN WITH IDENTIFY HIM. lgbt people weather its attractions or identification CHOOSE TO PSYCHOLOGICALLY ATTACK PEOPLE WHO DO NOT ACCEPT THEM. this is wrong. you can be born with a desire to be something your not because of confusion up in your head or you can be born with attractions to children or animals BUT THAT DOES NOT DEFINE YOU! YOU ARE NOT THOSE THINGS YOU ARE YOUR CHOICES!

i cant stress that enough as my opinion. so if you dont like my opinion thats okay. your entitled to yours. just dont expect me to believe im a bad person for choosing to be comfortable. i assert there are lines that you do not cross and i will not cross those lines ever. i am sorry but to me its not natural.

the human race will not survive on psychology. as for me trying to define biology im not defining anything because im not god. i was born a male that simple. and you were born either male or female. at the end of the day you are born with certain things you cant control. all lgbt are doing is trying to reject conventionalism and trying to force change to the idealogies of today on everyone and then throwing fits when they dont get their way. and im not going to change just because children want to throw fits. thats just how i am. and if that makes me a bad person to you then so be it.

we all have our way. and no matter what you choose in life there will always be someone who doesnt like you. so if you want to choose the path of others must accept that you identify as this, or that you have the right to be gay then go for it. BUT THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES FOR YOUR ACTIONS. and there are those of us who do not appreciate being forced to cross lines we dont want to cross just because you think its acceptable.


TLDR: my friend is his choices not his condition of being attracted to children. we are our choices. that is my opinion. i do not define biology god does or whoever our creator is. no matter what you think you are you still have reproductive organs that keep the human race going. and those reproductive organs are what are used to create life. as such we have a system that uses those organs to define what you are. and that is the system i believe in not this new system lgbt are trying to force on everyone that its psychology instead. you are who you choose to be. and choosing to force idealogies on others simply because its more acceptable to you will create conflict. your actions have consequences.
If he's attracted to kids he's still a pedophile, you can't change that fact and don't even try to. Your friend should be put on a watch list, seek professional help or get put in jail. Predators don't deserve to be roaming free and it's disgusting of you to even compare your friend to normal people with different pronouns.


thats because you believe that his condition defines him. not everyone lets what we are born with define us. there are people out there who understand that the choices you make have a much bigger impact on the world around you then what you were born with. i hope you understand that someday.

you are entitled to your opinion kid. i have nothing more to say. im sorry but i cant keep having this discussion forever. again i have said all i can really say about all this. we can talk about this all day but it wont change that we disagree with each other. i agree to disagree. i hope you do as well.
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Shaelent Apr 11, 2024 @ 4:27am 
Originally posted by mystery:
Originally posted by Shaelent:
If he's attracted to kids he's still a pedophile, you can't change that fact and don't even try to. Your friend should be put on a watch list, seek professional help or get put in jail. Predators don't deserve to be roaming free and it's disgusting of you to even compare your friend to normal people with different pronouns.


thats because you believe that his condition defines him. you are entitled to your opinion kid.
It does, pedophiles are pedophiles; sorry you don't like to hear your buddy likes the idea of diddling innocent kids.
Valore Apr 11, 2024 @ 4:36am 
Originally posted by mystery:
you dont cross moral or natural lines and expect good results. i understand you have things about you that you want accepted but not everyone is going to accept you no matter who you are or what you do. there will always be people who dont like you. THAT DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT TO FORCE ACCEPTANCE ON OTHERS. AND I FOR ONE WILL NOT BE FORCED TO CHANGE. ITS NOT YOUR PLACE TO CHANGE ME.
l.

There were those who would have defended their right to have sexual relations with minors, back when it was societally acceptable, telling us all nothing would change them.

There were those who would have stoned homosexuals to death with their own hands, because back then it was considered the morally right thing to do.

There were those who would have defended the right to own other humans as slaves as it was commonly accepted back then, and said those who criticized them were busybodies who had no right telling them what to do.

There were those who would have tortured and burned those who had other beliefs as witches and heretics because they were the ones who were in the moral wrong, participating in 'unnatural' acts by refusing to believe in the 'true' faith.

There were those who would have sent healthy people to asylums to be tortured and maimed, to be 'fixed', because those were 'their' moral lines that were absolute and not to be crossed.

We were all wrong to tell them that morality is shaped by society as it grows, not something chiseled in stone like commandments for all eternity from some fairy tale.

You stand in great company with all those who were equally perfect, all knowing, all righteous human beings who knew better than anyone else, who refused to be changed.

Indeed, I'm sure we've all learned something very much worth remembering from this discussion.
Скіф Apr 11, 2024 @ 4:48am 
I honestly dont care what or who Venture is but I NEVER adressed anyone as they them and I never will. It just seems super silly to me and its something that I just cannot take seriously. People can be whatever they want and Im fine with that but nobody can force me to call them in a certain way. If someone told you to adress them as smart / beautiful would you do it? Nah, you probably would not.

I think devs did a really good job in confusing us with Venture's gender. For me its a male with a female voice. But it could also be a female that looks like a guy. For me Venture is and always will be a "he". I realise it can get me reported and banned, I think its a really silly reason to ban someone but such is the time period that we live in rn.
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nobody Apr 11, 2024 @ 4:50am 
Originally posted by Hays:
I honestly dont care what or who venture is but I NEVER adressed anyone as they them and I never will. It just seems super silly to me and its something that I just cannot take seriously. People can be whatever they want and Im fine with that but nobody can force me to call them in a certain way. If someone told you to adress them as smart / beautiful would you do it? Nah, you probably would not.

I think devs did a really good job in confusing us with Venture's gender. For me its a male with a female voice. But it could also be a female that looks like a guy. For me Venture is and always will be a "he". I realise it can get me reported and banned, I think its a really silly reason to ban someone but such is the time period that we live in rn.

yes i agree he does seem like a guy to me because i didnt see any breasts on him. ill take a second look though when he is released in season 10.

and yes i also agree it is silly to ban people over refusing to use labels a certain way. but i suppose when groups of people support foundational idealogies that should change with the times you cant expect true stability from that let alone a community with true peace. and in my opinion that would explain why ow devs are struggling so hard to keep the community under control.

thats why countries have constitutions that never change with the times. its important to have corner stone ideals that stand the tests of time even if the ideals of communities change. solid bedrock is needed to hold up the foundations of something on solid ground. if we constantly change core beliefs we end up on sand. sand shifts and crumbles. that makes a poor foundation for anything to be built upon be it communities, societies, buildings, ways of life etc.
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Скіф Apr 11, 2024 @ 4:52am 
I just googled it and found out that Venture's voice actor is a woman. So it could be anything really, every person might see him in their own way...
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