having a wife as a free officer

[titanopteryx]

I was playing a free officer and I completed that tale related to the WAR stat that rewards a wife. Later i tried hosting a banquet but I noticed my wife wasn't in the list of people I could invite. So I looked and discovered that the force controlling the city I was in had recruited my wife and she wasn't in the same city as me anymore. I then tried to join the force she had joined but the leader told me no. It seems that if I want to make sure my wife stays in the same city as me and doesn't get recruited, I need to form a vagrant army with her. Which is kinda annoying.

[Ricochet]

You can always reenact the trojan wars. The other leader is paris/troy. They took your waifu away from you.

[The Questing Bunny]

I married the male merchant bachelor, and he did not ever wander far from my character. When I was moved from one province to another, he was always with me, and aligned with the lord I was serving in that save.

I wonder if what happened here with her is more a character thing? Maybe she wanted to be involved with the current lord? I haven't met any of the possible wives yet, since the only playthrough I've done was with a lady character.

[Jmac]

Thats Rough man, the governor likely calls her to his chambers nightly......

[Vorpal Spoon]

Are you playing as Qin Yilu?

[titanopteryx]

Here's a new one. This time i had 2 wives and i relocated as a free officer to a city where He Jin was bordering the yellow turbans. I was in He Jin's city. At the next season turn, one wife was recruited by He Jin and the other was recruited by the neighboring yellow turbans.

[Peroroncino]

Originally posted by titanopteryx:

Here's a new one. This time i had 2 wives and i relocated as a free officer to a city where He Jin was bordering the yellow turbans. I was in He Jin's city. At the next season turn, one wife was recruited by He Jin and the other was recruited by the neighboring yellow turbans.

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That’s ridiculous

[☯ Icy ᚱᛖᛞ ᛊᛟᛞᚨ▲]

Originally posted by Peroroncino:

Originally posted by titanopteryx:

Here's a new one. This time i had 2 wives and i relocated as a free officer to a city where He Jin was bordering the yellow turbans. I was in He Jin's city. At the next season turn, one wife was recruited by He Jin and the other was recruited by the neighboring yellow turbans.

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That’s ridiculous

they really should go where their husband goes and vise versa and if they don't, it has some sort of reasonable explanation or event to make it interesting, missed opportunity in ways.

[babobaka]

Now you will be wondering if your child is really yours....

[Lamp Waifu]

they can do like in 13, when you put them in comrade slot, and no one can hire them.

[☯ Icy ᚱᛖᛞ ᛊᛟᛞᚨ▲]

Originally posted by babobaka:

Now you will be wondering if your child is really yours....

yeah... XD

[☯ Icy ᚱᛖᛞ ᛊᛟᛞᚨ▲]

Originally posted by Lamp Waifu:

they can do like in 13, when you put them in comrade slot, and no one can hire them.

I have no idea why the devs don't carry over quality of life features like this...

[babobaka]

Originally posted by ☯ Icy ᛁᚾᚲᚨᚱᚾᚨ ▲:

Originally posted by Lamp Waifu:

they can do like in 13, when you put them in comrade slot, and no one can hire them.

I have no idea why the devs don't carry over quality of life features like this...

I hated that comrade stuff.

Those restrictions stopped you from having interesting situation, like how Liu Bei and Guan Yu ended up in enemy factions.

Also dislike having two different rule set for player and AI.

Just imagine your wife found a job because you were unemployed, but instead of trying to find a job, you are just enjoying life and traveling.

[☯ Icy ᚱᛖᛞ ᛊᛟᛞᚨ▲]

Originally posted by babobaka:

Originally posted by ☯ Icy ᛁᚾᚲᚨᚱᚾᚨ ▲:

I have no idea why the devs don't carry over quality of life features like this...

I hated that comrade stuff.

Those restrictions stopped you from having interesting situation, like how Liu Bei and Guan Yu ended up in enemy factions.

Also dislike having two different rule set for player and AI.

do you not agree it would be nice to be able to bring your wife/wives or husband with you?

it could be fleshed out with events if they refuse to come, or if they do/ don't.
missed RP opportunity.

[babobaka]

Originally posted by ☯ Icy ᛁᚾᚲᚨᚱᚾᚨ ▲:

Originally posted by babobaka:

I hated that comrade stuff.

Those restrictions stopped you from having interesting situation, like how Liu Bei and Guan Yu ended up in enemy factions.

Also dislike having two different rule set for player and AI.

do you not agree it would be nice to be able to bring your wife/wives or husband with you?

it could be fleshed out with events if they refuse to come, or if they do/ don't.
missed RP opportunity.

If you read the novel, Liu Bei and his wives has been separated multiple of times.

Families being apart is common story in ROTK series, like Xu Shu and his mother story, etc.

Perhaps having some mechanic to try to convince your spouse to move would be nice yes, like doing a debate to convince your spouse to move, but some arbitrary mechanic to force AI to do something, and if it's coming only from player side, then no I do not like such thing.

The way I think is, when it comes to games, it is a lot more fun when the game rule applies to all participants equally. I hate it when games make separate rules for AI and the player. Watch Dogs Legion for example. The AI has ability to block, but the player doesn't. That kind of restriction just breaks my immersion.