Question about marrying Andreja?

[Jaggid Edje]

I will be honest, I pretty much never do romances in any of these rpg's that include it. Like...never. Just not my thing.
But I made an exception for Starfield because Andreja grew on me.

Anyway, I did the [commitment] dialogue option for her, and she said she needed to get some preparations done first. Google said that only takes a few hours, but it has been like 3 or 4 days in-game since then and I still haven't gotten any options.

Anyone know if it's just bugged, or if I just need to wait longer? (I don't really care either way, to be honest, but I am curious.)

[V]

You jus gotta wait and keep doing other quests you cant just do a sit and wait or sleep and wait you're doing nothing when you do that i'm pretty sure you need to get a few affinity increases from exploring or lockpicking or looting dead bodies and special cases n such jus play the game until she stops longing the engagement lol.

[Jaggid Edje]

Yah, I bet affinity is involved as well, not just time. Thanks for responding and clarifying!

[Jaggid Edje]

Okay, so the option just triggered right after I gave an NPC 20,000 credits because she was down on her luck. Something that Andreja responded very positively to.

So yep, 100% correct in your assertion that affinity is involved. Stupid websites all said "just wait a few hours". Like, literally, 8 different gaming sites said that. Useless game journalists.

Thanks again for your help, @V.

[Moriendor]

Why would you marry that fugly thing?

[Jo]

It usually takes a while with companions.. they'll initiate conversations out of the blue about something personal to "get something off their chest", then you'll know you're gaining affinity with them. And once you complete any personal storylines of theirs, you can romance them.

Took me forever to figure that out when I first played Fallout 4 when I was trying to romance Paladin Danse and he was giving me the cold shoulder for ages until I'd done his story!

[TomCody]

Originally posted by Moriendor:

Why would you marry that fugly thing?

Because it’s a video game?

[Jaggid Edje]

Originally posted by Moriendor:

Why would you marry that fugly thing?

Because I don't think she's fugly, and also because I'm not shallow and one-dimensional so find qualities other than appearance more important than looks. I just like her.

Originally, I started hanging with her simply because she's the companion that has high ranks in Stealth, and I use that pretty often. But she grew on me.