Connection Lost as soon as mods sync to server

[InfernoKing68]

Trying to play with a couple friends, and for some reason I am having an issue, while my other friends can connect fine

We both have the same mods, and played just fine with these mods at the start of august, but trying to play now causes this error for me alone, and not for another player who is also joining.

When i try to join, it starts loading and right as it starts "syncing mods" it immediately switches to Lost Connection

 [23:08:58.850] [Main Thread/DEBUG] [tML]: Web Request: https://api.steampowered.com/ISteamNews/GetNewsForApp/v2/?appid=1281930&count=1
[23:09:05.248] [Main Thread/INFO] [tML]: OnLobbyJoinRequest: Running joinAction directly
[23:09:06.163] [Main Thread/INFO] [StatusText]: Joining Lyndsey...
[23:09:10.240] [Social Client Thread/INFO] [Terraria]: Connecting to Lyndsey
[23:09:10.360] [Social Client Thread/INFO] [StatusText]: Connecting to Lyndsey
[23:09:10.361] [Social Client Thread/INFO] [StatusText]: Found server
[23:09:10.415] [Main Thread/INFO] [StatusText]: Syncing Mods
[23:09:10.416] [Main Thread/INFO] [tML]: Finding Mods...
[23:09:10.427] [Main Thread/DEBUG] [tML]: Server mods:
		Census v0.5.2.5[6ea77a08]
		CalamityModMusic v2.0.4.3[df93aad5]
		CalamityMod v2.0.4.3[cdabceea]
		AlchemistNPCLite v1.9.5[360f8a74]
		BossChecklist v2.2.1[64e53f29]
		BoundNPCImmunity v1.0[346ba9ea]
		CalamityDecorativePotions v2.1[1a36a9ab]
		CalValEX v11.0.13.6[8f39d528]
		CeleryManPets v1.0.4[b5d56190]
		CheatSheet v0.7.5.1[ae38322c]
		ColoredDamageTypes v1.8.5[0c074286]
		DecorativePotions v1.0.0.1[93f8ac8c]
		DPSExtreme v0.3.1.4[951a030f]
		DrinkWater v0.1[5dc4302b]
		EchoHousingUtilities v1.0.3[457e6a26]
		ExtraPylons v0.6.0.3[99334092]
		HEROsMod v0.4.14.3[38402567]
		ImproveGame v1.7.1.7[1d2fbccb]
		SerousCommonLib v1.0.5.1[b8310598]
		MagicStorage v0.6.0.3[c0f57bfb]
		NPCHappinessViewer v0.2[055bb8fe]
		OreExcavator v0.8.9[33c387a5]
		PotionSlots v0.7[00e5ba2f]
		RecipeBrowser v0.10.7[2b0706af]
		ShoeSlot v1.1.0.0[35c95b3b]
		ShopExpander v1.5.0[d1820bcb]
		ShorterRespawn v1.1.1.2[0fcfc1cc]
		StructureHelper v2.5.3[f239d753]
		Terrarchitect v1.7.0.1[290d3c5f]
		TerrariaAmbienceAPI v1.3.6.4[406ad13c]
		TerrariaAmbience v0.2.8.2[4f7525db]
		TerrariaNoRangePylon v0.6.2[cbb192f7]
		Tokens v1.6.1[2cd142b0]
		UnCalamityModMusic v1.11.4[31361a09]
		WingSlotExtra v1.4.4[5577e07d]
[23:09:10.428] [Main Thread/DEBUG] [tML]: Download queue: 
[23:09:10.428] [Main Thread/DEBUG] [tML]: Configs:
		AlchemistNPCLite:ModConfiguration {}
		CalValEX:CalValEXConfig {}
		CheatSheet:CheatSheetServerConfig {}
		DrinkWater:ReminderConfig {}
		EchoHousingUtilities:ServerConfig {}
		ExtraPylons:ConfigPylonAmount {}
		HEROsMod:HEROsModServerConfig {}
		ImproveGame:FavoritedConfigs {}
		ImproveGame:ImproveConfigs {"SuperVault":true,"SmartVoidVault":true,"GrabDistance":35,"ExtraToolSpeed":0.5,"ModifyPlayerPlaceSpeed":true,"ModifyPlayerTileRange":10,"ImprovePrefix":true,"NoPylonRestrictions":true,"NoConsume_PotionRequirement":50,"ModifyNPCHappiness":true,"LavalessLavaSlime":true,"QuickNurse":false,"BestiaryQuickUnlock":false,"AlchemyGrassGrowsFaster":true,"StaffOfRegenerationAutomaticPlanting":true,"BanTombstone":true,"SimpleVeinMining":false,"TeamAutoJoin":true,"BedOnlyOne":true,"OnlyHost":true,"WeatherControl":false,"MinimapMark":false,"WandMaterialNoConsume":false,"LoadModItems":{"Autofisher":false,"ExtremeStorage":false,"BaitSupplier":false}}
		MagicStorage:MagicStorageServerConfig {}
		OreExcavator:OreExcavatorConfig_Server {"manaConsumption":0.0,"oreMultiplier":1.0}
		ShorterRespawn:ShorterRespawnConfig {}
		TerrariaAmbience:AmbientConfigServer {}
		TerrariaNoRangePylon:PylonConfig {}
[23:09:10.545] [Social Client Thread/INFO] [StatusText]: Lost connection
[23:09:10.545] [Social Client Thread/INFO] [Network]: Closing SocialSocket
[23:09:11.691] [Main Thread/DEBUG] [TerrariaSteamClient]: Send: shutdown