Melina lost?

[HammerToe]

When Melina had the discussion about maidens or something I didnt answer.. I wanted to know what to do. Somehow it excused her and I can not get her back. Is that a tragic mistake where I have to start over? Please tell me there is a way to have that discussion again.

[Sparhawk 59]

She can be Summoned Again You can then choose to accept or decline her. If you choose to reject her offer, Melina will state that she understands the player's decision and informs you that she can be summoned again once you reconsider.
https://game8.co/games/Elden-Ring/archives/367152

[Dollmaker]

You mean about agreeing to her accord near the start of the game?

I think she reappears after a while when resting a Site or Graces but idk tbh, I never really rejected her cause I had no reason to (plus you have to or the game is essentially incompletable)

[HammerToe]

So I played a few more hours today. I think I'm lvl 22. Still no trace of Melina at any Site of grace.. any other ideas? Thank you.

[Darkstorm]

You are lvl 22, so you got the Torrent and you can level up. At couple of graces you can speak to Melina if you wish, otherwise she won't appear. It's not a big deal. She told you to help her to get to the foot of the Erdtree. It's that big golden tree you can see in a distance. You will need to beat some bosses here and there to reach it, but that is your objective.