How do I enjoy this games multiplayer?

[Codex79]

I just wasted an hour doing nothing in a couple servers. In the first one everything was on fire and their were jets smacking into spawn. On the second server all attempts to ask what I should be doing were ignored or *facepalmed*. I tried riding in a helicopter but it just flew around in circles around the map.

Anyhoos, how do you peoples get your fun outa this game. I want to play co-op because normal pvp just seems like too much of a flustercuck and I find wasteland/zombies to be THE most boring ♥♥♥♥ ever. Any feedback, ideas, or strategies (except "go play COD/BF4 you filthy casual" in that case you can go eat an elephant's ♥♥♥♥ with miracle whip) would be freaking awsome.

One more thing Phoenix Down Gaming why dont you just get cancAIDSbola and die so that your rotting corpse can give birth to a better community, seriously getting teamkilled and insulted is not how to get newbies into this game.

[Runekn]

You should try out the official servers. They're running Game Master missions 24/7, and at least is reguarly filled up (18 slots Co-op, sometimes it's PvP with 50 slots).
Game Master is basicly a gamemode which uses the Zeus module, where one player is the "mission creator" and creates mission in real time for the other players to do.

[Johnny Drama]

mh since last patch fps suck and thousands of new mp bugs.

so i guess, currently you cannot

[Pèpè Silvia]

OP you need to find better servers/communities. Right now people like harris above me, are flooding this community with trolls, griefers, haters, and just plain childish behavior.

Search around, there are many more "underground" communities that play the game proper, have proper servers (i.e. better performance), and just play to have fun. Go to the official Arma 3 forums, and there's a Clan/group page where you can search form more serious gameplay in your region.

[Codex79]

Thanks guys, I'll continue searching for better stuff. Now that I think about it Zeus sounds pretty fun.