The first rule for sucking ♥♥♥♥ like a pornstar is being able to take the initiative and start blowing him without any prompting from him. Taking the initiative works incredibly well for many reasons.

You know that feeling when your man just can’t take his hands off you and just “has to have you?” It’s irresistibly hot to be desired by someone who can’t control themselves around you. He experiences those same feelings of being desired when you take the initiative and start sucking him off when he’s not expecting it. So use this to your advantage.

Another reason is due to the power and pleasure many women feel when giving their man oral sex. A recent study has shown that over 30% of women enjoy the feeling of power they get when they are sucking ♥♥♥♥[1] and in another study, 28% of women reported that they find the act of giving their man oral sex to be very pleasurable [2]. So if you already enjoy these feelings of power and pleasure when sucking his ♥♥♥♥, this is another reason to take the initiative.

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Here are a few examples of how you can take the initiative and start sucking your man’s ♥♥♥♥:

BJ Surprise – Let’s say you’re both sitting at home, watching some TV. When he’s least expecting it, cuddle up beside him and start massaging his crotch with your hand to get him hard, before pulling down his pants and giving him a blow job.

Road Head – The next time he is driving you home at night, do the same. Start massaging his testicles through his trousers, before unzipping them and giving him some road head. Just make sure you aren’t breaking any laws! This idea works equally well if you are both sitting in the back of a friends car.

Morning Wood – Let’s say you wake up before your man on a lazy Sunday morning, why not wake him up with a surprise BJ?

Take Control – The next time you’re both alone and feeling frisky, push him down into a chair, pull his trousers down and start sucking his penis.

The key is catching your man off guard and taking the initiative. Even if you don’t follow the rest of the advice in this chapter of the Blow Job Guide, you can use it in conjunction with any of the tips in Chapter 2 or Chapter 3 to surprise and delight your guy.

The next technique for sucking his ♥♥♥♥ in a way that totally blows him away is making sure you do it with a high level of animalistic and almost insatiable enthusiasm.

Most guys see this as the single most important technique you can have in the bedroom to be good at sex and oral sex[3] and I talk more about how enthusiasm is a vital component to giving a satisfying blow job in Chapter 1 here, but to further explain how important it is, I want you to do something. Imagine this scenario…

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Your man hasn’t seen you for almost an entire week, and you’re waiting in your place for him to arrive. When he opens the door and lays his eyes on you, he immediately rushes forward and grabs hold of you. As he embraces you, he leans in, opens his mouth and gives you the most intense kiss you’ve ever received.

But he doesn’t stop there, he picks you up and brings you into the bedroom, tears your clothes off and has his way with you. You don’t want him to stop for a second and even if you tried to stop him, you probably couldn’t as he is acting on every animalistic impulse in his body. There isn’t a single logical thought going through his head right now. It’s just pure testosterone and lust running through his veins.

There is something ridiculously hot and passionate about this…his passionate enthusiasm. When you reverse the situation above, and you become the aggressor, the one who acts out of pure lust, and you attack your man with animalistic enthusiasm while sucking his ♥♥♥♥, you can make it an experience that surpasses anything he could ever imagine. Even if you aren’t using new techniques or positions in the bedroom…it can make a dull sex life into a highly charged one.

I’m not going to talk too much about deep throating your man right now, as Chapter 7 here is devoted to deep throating.

All I will say is that if you don’t have a super-sensitive gag reflex and are with a man that you trust, then you should try it at least once. Deep throating provides your man with yet another set of sensations when sucking his ♥♥♥♥ that will help make him see you as a sexual goddess. Check out the deep throating Chapter here for a step-by-step guide on how to do it with style!