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orbninja_ May 14, 2016 @ 12:58am
How should I tell my family/friends I'm a furry??
Some of my friends are a bit anti-furry and my family doesn't even know what it is. I want to tell them but I don't want to be embarrased and don't want them to think I'm gay (not against gays btw)
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Skullbrew May 14, 2016 @ 5:03am 
In the same boat as you are.

I'd steer clear from telling your anti-fur friends for a while and tell them when you feel properly ready.

As for your family, explain the best you can and try to get them to watch majirastrawberry's video "HELP! MY KID IS A FURRY!"

Answer any questions they have as honest as you can. If some people don't like it, ignore them and if anyone hates you for it; then they're not worth your tears.

Sorry for the srsbns tone at the end ^^ Just wanna enforce a point.

Anyway, hope this helps in some fashion. Add me if you want ^^.
Last edited by Skullbrew; May 15, 2016 @ 9:44am
Raccringe May 14, 2016 @ 1:51pm 
if it feels like you have to tell them then i guess you should, but i doubt you will feel like you needed to after you tell them.
Francini May 14, 2016 @ 2:44pm 
I'd suggest straying away from telling your friends, but keep a normal relationship.
If your parents don't know what a furry is, tell them what it is and that you are one.
SaturnNova May 14, 2016 @ 7:46pm 
You just do it, the Q&A can be rough afterwards. Expect ridicule and confusion, but then you can openly love your floofyness. I was lucky enough to find a secret furry con-buddy. The hard part was keeping his secret, since I am so openly furry. But he finally came around and nobody was suprised. End of the month we are going to Furlandia and he actually requested time off work for the reason he wanted it off. Said it was like a weight lifted off his chest. And Agent Friday is right on... If you get hate, drop them in your wake :fox:
Xenmasterqwerty May 14, 2016 @ 9:48pm 
Why bother? Having to "come out" as a furry makes a big deal out of nothing. Who cares if you like anthropomorphic animals? Feeling the need to come out about it makes it seem even weirder than it is.
Sarsaparilla Strap May 15, 2016 @ 12:19am 
I agree with MageCat here. There is not too much to worry about because a furry is just a fan of anthropomorphic animals. The only thing you would have to worry about is the activities you involve yourself in. Try not to make it a big deal about coming out as a furry, just chillax, share, and explain if you feel like you need to. :D
Reaven May 15, 2016 @ 3:25am 
Why do you even need to tell this to your family :D trust me you dont need to tell nothing would change in your life
Star Killer May 15, 2016 @ 9:52pm 
They won't care honestly,my friends gave 0 fucks when I even showed NSFW pics,they were like "Holy shit I knew you were a complete retard.....anyway have you seen DoW 3?" See,no problem and your parents won't even care they would probably "Dear that's very good!" or sumthin x3.
kitsunegolem May 15, 2016 @ 10:44pm 
put on a fursute and say hello
Tiger May 16, 2016 @ 3:04am 
My perents found out when they saw my suit. They were extremely confused with it at first, but they are supportive, depending on your age and if you live with perents or friends, I would wait until you can move out, but, if your perents support you, they will not care. So just let them find out themselves, or have the balls to confess, but I can assure you, it feels nice to get it off of your chest.
76561198293090869 May 19, 2016 @ 4:06am 
find a new friend that like furry

10/10 tips from me
Fox234 May 24, 2016 @ 5:12pm 
Just do you, and they'll figure it out eventually. It's really only as weird as you make it. Parents tend to be understanding though. They'll probably write it off as a phase, and by the time they figure out it isn't they probably won't care because they've lived with it so long. Over 18 though just do what you want. It's you're life, do what makes you happy. If friends hate you over what you enjoy then they weren't very good friends in the first place.
Raccringe May 24, 2016 @ 10:29pm 
OP is dead cuz his parents violently disowned him. RIP
Joe P May 25, 2016 @ 4:00pm 
YOU RUN UP TO THEM, START SINGING THE SHREK THEME SONG IN A FURSUIT, AND THEY DISOWN YOU,
THATS WHAT I DID
packgod May 25, 2016 @ 6:13pm 
You don't
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