Polyamory

[Merci]

are you open for a polyamory? Having multiple romantic partners xd

i never do it I love one person and it get rid of the feeling of care for other people

And I dont want to do it with anyone but my favourite person XD

But I heard it is popular for some nowadays and I dont understand what about you?

[Gym Leader Rory wants to battle!]

Publicado originalmente por abcd:

Publicado originalmente por Lexi on Linux:

Thats just a bad relationship if trust is on the outer edges. Im guessing you dont have a partner.

Doding the question; so my assumption is that you have a powerful singular influential figure in your upbringing who made you feel bad. And the only escape from this person was in a group.

When you're in a monogamous relationship you see this person, and you feel mistrust. You require a second or third person to make your brain view the one person you're interested in fairly but the others are just riders to unlock this; this causes you to overcorrect and prostelytize Polyamory, when really it's a crutch you're using to hurt people with.

I don't really have a partner no; it would be presumptuous for me to assume or say that I did.

Couldnt be more wrong. I lived a monogamous life for 10 years with my partner before we opened up and It was just the right decision. Go get a relationship and get off OT maybe you will understand trust. Also I had many people in my childhood from my mom to my dad to my grandfather to great aunts and uncles to godparents. You make yourself look really really dumb and unhinged when you try to analyze people online based off a couple posts. GGEZ.

[abcd]

Publicado originalmente por Lexi on Linux:

Publicado originalmente por abcd:

Doding the question; so my assumption is that you have a powerful singular influential figure in your upbringing who made you feel bad. And the only escape from this person was in a group.

When you're in a monogamous relationship you see this person, and you feel mistrust. You require a second or third person to make your brain view the one person you're interested in fairly but the others are just riders to unlock this; this causes you to overcorrect and prostelytize Polyamory, when really it's a crutch you're using to hurt people with.

I don't really have a partner no; it would be presumptuous for me to assume or say that I did.

Couldnt be more wrong. I lived a monogamous life for 10 years with my partner before we opened up and It was just the right decision. Go get a relationship and get off OT maybe you will understand trust. Also I had many people in my childhood from my mom to my dad to my grandfather to great aunts and uncles to godparents. You make yourself look really really dumb and unhinged when you try to analyze people online based off a couple posts. GGEZ.

Ok.

[RRW359]

Publicado originalmente por abcd:

Publicado originalmente por Lexi on Linux:

Thats just a bad relationship if trust is on the outer edges. Im guessing you dont have a partner.

Doding the question; so my assumption is that you have a powerful singular influential figure in your upbringing who made you feel bad. And the only escape from this person was in a group.

When you're in a monogamous relationship you see this person, and you feel mistrust. You require a second or third person to make your brain view the one person you're interested in fairly but the others are just riders to unlock this; this causes you to overcorrect and prostelytize Polyamory, when really it's a crutch you're using to hurt people with.

I don't really have a partner no; it would be presumptuous for me to assume or say that I did.

So you presume people have weird histories in order to have their views on romance but don't like presumptions being made about you? Most people who hate polys I've heard from either are in or have some obsession with monogamous relationships. Even most aces have neutral/positive views of polyamory, probably because we get the same accusations of something being wrong with us for preferring a non-standard version of relationships.

[abcd]

Publicado originalmente por RRW359:

Publicado originalmente por abcd:

Doding the question; so my assumption is that you have a powerful singular influential figure in your upbringing who made you feel bad. And the only escape from this person was in a group.

When you're in a monogamous relationship you see this person, and you feel mistrust. You require a second or third person to make your brain view the one person you're interested in fairly but the others are just riders to unlock this; this causes you to overcorrect and prostelytize Polyamory, when really it's a crutch you're using to hurt people with.

I don't really have a partner no; it would be presumptuous for me to assume or say that I did.

So you presume people have weird histories in order to have their views on romance but don't like presumptions being made about you? Most people who hate poly's I've heard from either are in or have some obsession with monogamous relationships. Even most aces have neutral/positive views of polygamy, probably because we get the same accusations of something being wrong with us for preferring a non-standard version of relationships.

nah man it's just a statistical fact.

if you look three posts back, which you've had a hard time with all day, you can see I specifically already addressed what you are accusing me of.

ipso facto, you are the one who presumes.

given the type and reptition of conversations of this nature today, I'd assume I just nailed you to a wall and you're coming in under a clown nose to try and make up for existing. just like your mother taught you to do.

but that kind of assumption is problematic, isn't it? just like accusing me of presuming something I very specifically mentioned I don't believ.

[Haiku's Knife]

Publicado originalmente por Jelly:

i never do it I love one person and it get rid of the feeling of care for other people

And I dont want to do it with anyone but my favourite person XD

This is exactly my sentiment on it. To me, the more you share your affection, the cheaper and more shallow it becomes. I've never cared for casual sex and I think monogamy is what truly separates friendship from love. Polyamory strikes me as a type of consumerism.

[Duck Twacy]

Publicado originalmente por Jelly:

are you open for a polyamory? Having multiple romantic partners xd

i never do it I love one person and it get rid of the feeling of care for other people

And I dont want to do it with anyone but my favourite person XD

But I heard it is popular for some nowadays and I dont understand what about you?

No.

Not ever.

It's an idea for those who just want more sex, and/or are addicted to the exercise.

[Gym Leader Rory wants to battle!]

Publicado originalmente por abcd:

Publicado originalmente por RRW359:

So you presume people have weird histories in order to have their views on romance but don't like presumptions being made about you? Most people who hate poly's I've heard from either are in or have some obsession with monogamous relationships. Even most aces have neutral/positive views of polygamy, probably because we get the same accusations of something being wrong with us for preferring a non-standard version of relationships.

nah man it's just a statistical fact.

if you look three posts back, which you've had a hard time with all day, you can see I specifically already addressed what you are accusing me of.

ipso facto, you are the one who presumes.

given the type and reptition of conversations of this nature today, I'd assume I just nailed you to a wall and you're coming in under a clown nose to try and make up for existing. just like your mother taught you to do.

But you presumed wrongly while admitting I was correct on my assumption of you.

[abcd]

Publicado originalmente por Lexi on Linux:

Publicado originalmente por abcd:

nah man it's just a statistical fact.

if you look three posts back, which you've had a hard time with all day, you can see I specifically already addressed what you are accusing me of.

ipso facto, you are the one who presumes.

given the type and reptition of conversations of this nature today, I'd assume I just nailed you to a wall and you're coming in under a clown nose to try and make up for existing. just like your mother taught you to do.

But you presumed wrongly while admitting I was correct on my assumption of you.

Ok.

[Gym Leader Rory wants to battle!]

:3

[Majestic Turkey]

Its just libertines and leftists denying biology lying to themselves.

This woman promoted it until it blew up in her face,many such cases.
https://archive.ph/2019.03.23-123915/https://polyamorydiaries.com/i-almost-lost-my-soulmate-for-novel-sex-aka-polyamory/

Women are trend followers, and so this poison spreads from time to time as cult leaders pushes it into the culture.

[Raziel]

Publicado originalmente por Jelly:

Publicado originalmente por Raziel:

Hard agree with this, poly is just cheating with extra steps

i dont think its cheating i think just is a refusal to even have a real relationship xd

Well thats why poly people can get shot into the sun Jelly, no commitment - no love

[Stranger]

well I'm only monogamous because there's only singular people I can stand and who will put up with me for extended periods of time.

and most of them are borderline intolerable alone, let alone in a group. as much as I love them all, and I'm sure they love me too.

still there's that special person you know. the person my whole life would collapse around if removed; leading immediately to millennia-long ploys to remove anyone and everything that caused it from power at least, and existence if at all possible and reasonable and doesn't make me feel bad or something cause I actually like them and it was kind of just a big misunderstanding idk.

[Maria]

There never will be an universe where I'll be supportive of polyamory, life is about finding your true love and setting down with them, but I guess it's also a different topic when we talk about the animal kingdom since we mostly understand it from our human perspective.

[Stranger]

Publicado originalmente por Bartek Alfirion:

There never will be an universe where I'll be supportive of polyamory, life is about finding your true love and setting down with them, but I guess it's also a different topic when we talk about the animal kingdom since we mostly understand it from our human perspective.

so are turkey and mushroom people and high% cyborgs given a pass or something?

if so I could suddenly understand a lot of the jealousy directed at me.

[Not Big Surprise]

i'm in a polycule :D