What is a good man to women?

[Chocobo & Moogle]

They claim they can't find a good man.

[Obelisk]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Fajita Jim:

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Slifer the Sky Dragon:

Imagine getting into a marriage, only to have to pay alimony and child support for someone who viewed you as a simp.

Imagine imagining relationships are that shallow. :-\

They're complex things, and you can't judge any relationship by any other. You're playing a victim and you haven't even taken to the field, yet.

The juice isn't worth the squeeze, nor is the risk worth the reward.

[Fajita Jim]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Obelisk the Tormentor:

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Fajita Jim:

Imagine imagining relationships are that shallow. :-\

They're complex things, and you can't judge any relationship by any other. You're playing a victim and you haven't even taken to the field, yet.

The juice isn't worth the squeeze, nor is the risk worth the reward.

Then sit out the game, and stop complaining about the players.

Deal?

Because if you guys didn't REALLY care, you'd shut up.

[󠀡󠀡󠀡󠀡⁧⁧Kei]

being too picky won't allow them to find much and if they're in for money just no lol

[Not Big Surprise]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Slifer the Sky Dragon:

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Fajita Jim:

Let's do the litmus test:

How many girls have you approached face-to-face and asked out lately?

Doesn't matter if they said yes or no.

15, they all said no

and i can see why

[󠀡󠀡󠀡󠀡⁧⁧Kei]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Not Big Surprise:

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Slifer the Sky Dragon:

15, they all said no

and i can see why

i wonder why

[Effigy]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Slifer the Sky Dragon:

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Fajita Jim:

lol 15 doubt it

I used to be a pretty 'busy' guy, and I never asked FIFTEEN girls out 'recently'. lol

And yeah I got told no a lot. Most guys do. Move the ♥♥♥♥ on. Females aren't some kind of hive mentality they way you people here make them seem.

Women aren't worth wasting time on today. 50% of marriages end in divorce anyway.

then why do you waste so much time posting about them on OT?

[Fajita Jim]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Effigy:

then why do you waste so much time posting about them on OT?

What I'm saying. They're trying to convince us they're showing up for a game they're not even interested in.

WTF do they think we're stupid?

[Othobrithol]

Throw up a dog whistle thread.
Claim you don't care either way.
Feel validated by all the others doing the same thing.

[Obelisk]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Effigy:

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Slifer the Sky Dragon:

Women aren't worth wasting time on today. 50% of marriages end in divorce anyway.

then why do you waste so much time posting about them on OT?

Maybe he wants to see what they actually want and see if it's worth the time.

[brain stew]

You can not fool us! We are whatever the opposite of stupid is!

[Angel]

I would agree that "good" men are hard to find.

Despite being a very subjective topic, people tend to gravitate towards certain qualities of a person's attractiveness. As people age, the "good" ones get taken and it makes it harder for singles who are seeking partners. So when they find that "good" man, women have become more proactive (compared to the past) to jump at the opportunity as they know some guys are a rare find.

Many love to blame other disturbances when they are single or rejected; i.e. dating apps are bad or standards are too high, marriages will fail anyway, I will lose my wealth. But rarely look at themselves and how to haven't adapted to the times and social environments yet

...or they simply haven't yet met a "good" one.

[Obelisk]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Fajita Jim:

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Obelisk the Tormentor:

The juice isn't worth the squeeze, nor is the risk worth the reward.

Then sit out the game, and stop complaining about the players.

Deal?

Because if you guys didn't REALLY care, you'd shut up.

We would play the dating game if it was fair. It's rigged against men today.

[Fajita Jim]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Obelisk the Tormentor:

We would play the dating game if it was fair. It's rigged against men today.

It's always been rigged against men. That's why males are so competitive. That's our nature.

So stop being a pushover and compete.

Here's a hint: If you don't think you're a good catch, no one else will.

[󠀡󠀡󠀡󠀡⁧⁧Kei]

men should just stop bothering if they can't find anyone
life is not about dating

[Chocobo & Moogle]

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Fajita Jim:

Ursprünglich geschrieben von Obelisk the Tormentor:

We would play the dating game if it was fair. It's rigged against men today.

It's always been rigged against men. That's why males are so competitive. That's our nature.

So stop being a pushover and compete.

Here's a hint: If you don't think you're a good catch, no one else will.

The game wasn't rigged before feminism.