Modern dating sucks

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

Women: We don't want men approaching us anymore
Also women: We refuse to approach men we find attractive for dates

[ハイイロギツネ]

Lord Trolldemort a écrit :

XKingBaneX a écrit :

I'm gonna try and be optimistic and say it was a location thing, But bumble was worse then tinder in my experience and that's saying something. Got no messages on Bumble, ever.

Meh, dating apps don't work for majority of men. They're just money pits for lonely men.

You have to make the effort.

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

Arvaos a écrit :

Lord Trolldemort a écrit :

Meh, dating apps don't work for majority of men. They're just money pits for lonely men.

You have to make the effort.

The women are pickier than they would be in a real life scenario because they have infinite options. If you're an average looking guy you have a better chance in real life.

[AerSilver ♞]

Arvaos a écrit :

Lord Trolldemort a écrit :

Meh, dating apps don't work for majority of men. They're just money pits for lonely men.

You have to make the effort.

When was the last time you used a dating app?
It's based almost purely off looks, the only extra "effort" could give you is maybe if you choose to pay for a photoshoot with a proffesional. Dating apps simply don't work for the vast majority of men.

[Leonardo Da Pinchi]

Then I repeat. Don't. Use. Dating. Apps. Problem solved.

[AerSilver ♞]

Leonardo Da Pinchi a écrit :

Then I repeat. Don't. Use. Dating. Apps. Problem solved.

Dont. Tell. Me. What. To. Do.
It's fine to use as long as it's not your main way of meeting new women and your ego isn't easily bruised.

Leonardo Da Pinchi a écrit :

Lord Trolldemort a écrit :

The truth is hard for the bluepilled.

Don't use dating aps. Fixed your problem for you.

You fixed nothing for him either, he will still be lonely and keep making these posts tbh

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

AerSilver ♞ a écrit :

Arvaos a écrit :

You have to make the effort.

When was the last time you used a dating app?
It's based almost purely off looks, the only extra "effort" could give you is maybe if you choose to pay for a photoshoot with a proffesional. Dating apps simply don't work for the vast majority of men.

Dating apps were always bad, but it just seems like they've gotten worse since they came out in 2013-2014. Tinder enabled hookup culture and 304s to become more mainstream. At the same time, they're made to extort money from lonely men.

[kbiz]

Leonardo Da Pinchi a écrit :

Then I repeat. Don't. Use. Dating. Apps. Problem solved.

Why not? Just curious.

[Leonardo Da Pinchi]

kbiz a écrit :

Leonardo Da Pinchi a écrit :

Then I repeat. Don't. Use. Dating. Apps. Problem solved.

Why not? Just curious.

Because if OP has such a problem with them, he shouldn't be fueling the predatory business practices he's obviously against?

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

Leonardo Da Pinchi a écrit :

kbiz a écrit :

Why not? Just curious.

Because if OP has such a problem with them, he shouldn't be fueling the predatory business practices he's obviously against?

I would say just ignore all dating apps and these TikTok women. If the girl likes you enough, they'll let you know.

[Garou]

All is fair in love and war. If anyone is not worth your time and effort, cast them aside. You'll be happier for it.

[Shadow]

Women don't want relationship anymore

[Mega Ultra Chicken]

Shadow a écrit :

Women don't want relationship anymore

They do, but they don't want to look at themselves in the mirror.

[AerSilver ♞]

Shadow a écrit :

Women don't want relationship anymore

It's what most of them do, however their standards/egos tend to be inflated in relation to their own value and they refuse to "settle".

[De Hollandse Ezel]

-> yes there is a thing called toxic femininity.. where woman will purposely hate on man.. + hate on woman who like to date man.. so they force those woman to be unhappy as well as the man..
they not care about womans happyness they only care about "getting back at man"
"some just want to see the world burn"

on top of that there is the changes in society that has depreciated what man have to offer.
(woman need man less than man need woman.. the old world where woman had slighly less rights was better as that rebalanced things.. for a society to be fair for both sexes womans rights need to be a bit suppressed) -> to complex to go deeper into but you all just know that woman will have to do much less efford to catch a man than reverse... unless there are factors in society like where woman have less rights so the woman needs a man to leave her parents house..
than both sexes need eachother.. it won't mean woman loose the right to choose their partner.. it just means a parter that is a lower grade will be fine too..

say we have all man and all woman in a bellcurve..

1% are a 1
3% are a 2
6% are a 3
15% are a 4
25% are a 5
25% are a 6
15% are a 7
6% are an 8
3% are a 9
1% are a 10

these numbers are a symbolic represensitation of all points of attractiveness..

in a healthy situation woman are a bit picky and only date man of more points than they have
man are a bit more lenians and may be willing to date 2 points below their own score..

so that means that in a healthy market most man and woman find a partner.. except perhaps the 1 and 2s at the bottom still 96% ends up married,...

but in todays market... woman have inflated thjeir expectations.. a woman thats an 1 will expect a man thats an 8.. a woman thats a 2 willl expect a man thats a 9 and all woman that are 3 and up will compete for man that are a 10
thaat means now only 1% of man can marry.. with a partner they like and 5% if they massively lower their standards...

thats essentially what dating in todays world is..

your only chance basicly is "be an 8 or higher"
which s stated is a cummultive effect of multiple traits..
-looks
-being tall
-being charming
-being interesting
-being wealthy
-being powerfull/famous
etc etc etc

so if your a 6 or 7 perhaps by hard work and efford you can become an 8...
if a 5 or lower.. forget it.. you be always alone..
might as well start ordering that postorder bride...

thats modern dating in a nutshell..

one of the best ways to improve your rating as man : (aside from being high income, punctual, well groomed, well dressed and have an house that is so clean and organised it looks like a showroom)
=
one of the traits woman look most for is "is this the man other woman want"
as such insecurity in man (while very normal to have in this luny world we live in) is THE worst trait to have..
if you can fake all woman want you.. you might actually succeed in that very thing to come true...

[Chaosolous]

When you’re consistently bad at something social, there comes a point when you may need to consider that you’re the problem.